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  • That there is a tug of war, they want to feel included in everything, taking a part in everything but then there is that point where they go but I'm a woman. It does not always happen but I feel there is a struggle with things a girl wants vs what she does not want.

    In a very simplistic view, "you let me used the car I wanted but you never told me I had to put gas in it"
    Or in probably a more relivant way "I used your car to go to the store because I wanted to drive it but when it came to getting groceries, I didn't because I did not want to get my new shoes dirty in the snow."

    My point with these grossly over simplified examples is that for a number of women, they want what they want but they never fully acknowledge the cost at times. They see the prize but refuse the things it takes to get there sometimes... It's like that brady bunch song "I can do anything better than you can, I can do anything better than you, no you can't, yes I can" the desire is there but while there are many women that acknowledge that the work comes with what they ask for, some are confused as to why it's there and my reply is, you can't ask for something if you don't expect there to be consequences for it. I guess that's with most people but I feel that girls want to be more included with everything these days and to be fair, many girls including garbage women and let's be honest... mothers 😅 do above and beyond what some men what never dream of doing

    • I think I was a little bit over assuming here 😅 while it exists probably to some extent it was probably not worthy to be posted here 😅 and to be fair, guys could probably act this way too 😅

    • Wow! I didn't know you had such strong opinions about that..🤔

    • I mean... Not totally, I kind of was not fully thinking through the answer 😂 but I will say that male or female, if you want something, you embrace it. If a guy wants to be a single father aka single mom, he owns up to it! Once you make a choice, you carry it to completion. I think this is not exclusive to the female gender like I originally thought but an overall part of choosing something belonging to the other gender and wanting to walk in it. To me, it's not just enough to want something, you need to know what it means to carry it though. And aside from that, specifically for women, it's totally communication. Women have a whole other world when it comes to communication. Words and behaviors take on a whole new meaning. You could, legit, make an snl skit about having a female interpretor 😂 puzzled guys where the woman comes in and translates 😂😂😂 that is my actual answer 😊

  • Difference of nature of sexuality of men and women.

    - Appearently, women usually don't think sexually about their male friends. How?

    - Women don't get so easily turned on by looks so much as men. They need to get to know a guy in order to feel sexual attraction. Why?

    - Women appearently check out men. When and how? Seems like it's done faster than a speed of light.

    - Straight women often watch lesbian porn.

    - They are turned on by little things like smell or eyelashes.

    - Often, when they masturbate, they don't think about a man, but some abstract situation of random man or woman having sex or they concentrate on the way they feel.

    - They very rarely see a man whom they find very attractive, yet they appearently think about sex as much as men.

    It seems to me that, if i were a woman, my head would explode.

    • These are GREAT questions! I'd love to try and answer all of them.

    • Thanks. :-) Didn't want to sound judgmental, so i'm glad you got it right way. It's just complicated, that's all.

    • I sent you a DM

Most Helpful Girls

  • Why they like anal when you have a perfectly functioning vagina? Frankly I think they would get the same feeling by gayly porking each other and leaving the woman's bum alone. So they already use 3 orifices in the female body. what is next, the nostrils and ears?

    Oh my God!! My ASS!!!
    Oh my God!! My ASS!!!
    • Hahahaha I always say that! Totally agree with you -- anal sex is like... "they are never satisfied!"

  • Their inability to admit they are lost and need directions...

    • We never get lost, just merely have spontaneous adventures.

    • @Amoose715 🤣🤣

    • @Amoose715 oh, is that what it is? 🙄

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  • Not much.

    When I was a teen and into my early 20s, women confused the hell out of me because I made the very common mistake of projecting male priorities and perspectives onto them, and then couldn't understand when they didn't behave as expected.

    Once i had a much better understanding of how different women's priorities and perspectives are, and why, everything suddenly made sense (discounting individual weirdness and errors of judgment, of course).

    That's why I spend so much time here talking about the differences between male and female priorities and perspectives - it's the Rosetta Stone that helps us understand each other.

    • Nothing weird about us comes out of your mind?

  • I guess I fail to know what woman men consider to be beautiful - I'm terrible at predicting who they are attracted to and how they behave around certain girls.

    • I think this varies from men to men

  • That they love being sexy little tarts as much as I love them doing so.

  • The women who say they wear cosmetics just for themselves and no one else tend to confuse me. Would they still doll up every day if they were stranded on an island with no one else to admire their looks?

    • It helps a women's self esteem when she thinks she looks good. It just makes us happy and makes us feel productive. Like how you would clean your house and make it look nice.

    • @girlwithsomeqs I can sorta get that. Like I could imagine a moment where I'm stranded on an island and find something reflective and maybe wanna shave or something just for me -- to feel attractive again. But I think I'd be engaging my imagination a lot here and thinking of being popular once more like in my youth. I don't think I could ever completely divorce the idea from a social context.

  • I'm fascinated how men and women seem to navigate differently.
    I have experience delivering pizza before the age of smartphones, and it was routine and efficient for me to just have an address, find it on a map, and have a mental model of the map and the names of the streets I'm using as I drive there.
    For some reason, I found that there's a higher tendency for women to give directions like "you go down the road until you see the movie theater then turn right, then go until you pass the park and when you get to the bottom of the hill turn left, then it's on the right first driveway after the big tree" or something along those lines, based on their favorite landmarks. In addition to this, sometimes they unaware than I'm approaching from a different direction so those directions couldn't possibly work for me anyway.
    Is this just a gender sterotype or do you agree men and women tend to navigate differently?

  • How long you got 🤔🤣🤣
    Kidding lololol
    Serious answer: I don't think it's any one thing by gender, I think it's people all together that confuse me these days cuz I see both genders doing the same stupid sex but put it on the other gender only, when it's both genders doing those things:
    *Men say women cheat more, women say men cheat more=No cheating ass people cheat...
    *Men say women are too picky, women say men are=some people period looking for perfection in others even tho they ain't perfect themselves
    It's the double standards and hipocrasy that confuses me, and that people fail to recognize they doing it and that's both genders that do that
    And, I don't GAF who downvotes, that's my opinion, the way I see it 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • "stupid sex but" was SUPPOSED to say "stupid stuff but"🤦🤦

    • Among all these, is there anything that comes up as the most confusing and crazy?

    • Yeah,... people 😂

  • I've wondered why woman wear tight underwear, especially panties. I can understand bras on women with larger breasts. But panties are super, super snug.

    • So you don't pull your panties down when pulling off a pair of tight jeans.

    • @Daniela1982, there ya go. That's one good reason.

  • Women who play mind games with men and can't just be straightforward.

  • Not much. Everyone is different. I get to know them/their individualities... so that they are special to me.
    others, I don’t get personal if not in a relationship... they are just the opposite gender that I respect who they are.

  • Everything and nothing lmao I can't get confused if I do I will be lost,, so I just try to under stand.

  • Boring.

  • Mixed messages at times.

  • The ability to overthink a perfect situation into stress

  • Why so many don’t try to make a relationship work

  • I'm confused about why men make promises so easily and don't feel like a jerk when they don't keep their promises? Too many lies.

  • Everything.

  • Why white guys get so weirded out about the size difference between black cock's and white dicks 😅

  • Why they get more lines lol
    Afraid I might do something to confuses them

  • I have only one,

    Why women (some men to) have this need for wearing make-up? I don't get it, when I see women wearing it, I see it as a total turn off.

    I just don't get the need for make-up

  • They can't take the same jokes

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