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What I Learned After 2 Months Without Sex or Masturbation

What I Learned After 2 Months Without Sex or Masturbation

Well, a few months ago I decided to not masturbate, or have sex for an entire 2 months, for SCIENCE! Needless to say, it was excruciating, but a valuable experience. Here's a basic overview of what it was like.

Day 1:

Day one might have been the hardest. It's my habit to do it either one once before going to sleep. I do it every night. My body has gotten used to it. So that first night was pretty awful.

End of Week 1:

Stimulai that once didn't do much began to have a bit more of an effect. I got random hard-ons more often than usual.

End of Week 2:

Pretty much any contact with a woman that wasn't just brushing against her elbow or something gave me a half erection. It was very odd.

What I Learned After 2 Months Without Sex or Masturbation

End of Week 3:

Everything turned me on, pretty much, as long as it had a vagina and resembled a human being. I found myself flirting much more often subconsciously, and with much better results than normal, which only made my utter celibacy THAT much worse.

End of Month 1:

I had a hard-on around 75% of the time. If found it very easy and natural to talk to women in a way that'd normally make me feel awkward. I found women giggling in an odd way to my jokes, "accidentally" touching my arm, and other things of the like.

End of Week 6:

What I Learned After 2 Months Without Sex or Masturbation

Constant erection. Constant, excruciating erection that I could do nothing about. Women began to actually hit on me when I flirted with them. They'd put their hands on my thigh when laughing at my jokes. I know. Insane.

End of Month 2:

Finally, my time was over. The second the clock went down, I ripped off my pants and erupted like Mt. Vesuvius a few minutes later.

Moral of the story: when you're constantly horny, you tend to make those around you the same way.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Only 2 months?

    Bitch please,

    I once went 155 days without masturbation.

    But I can confirm that your records precisely match what I experienced. If I could add to it, I would add that once you approach the 3 month mark, wet dreams begin to occur almost every night.

    • Damn. I was thinking about doing it again for longer, any tips?

    • Stay out of bed as much as possible, don't place objects on your lap, or do anything at all that can even remotely put pressure on your penis. It will become super sensitive to the point where even peeing feels like it is going to cause you to orgasm. Things begin to get easier around the 4 month mark, but never let your guard down. The wet dreams will be the worst.

    • I see. I have a trick for getting out of wet dreams, of which I had one or two during my time, but the bed part sound as if it'll be difficult because, well, I sleep in a bed. I think I'll go for 5 months.

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  • lel I know that feeling when I haven't fucked my boyfriend in a couple of days and he keeps looking so damn hot everyday.

    • I can imagine he'd be going insane.

    • I end up going insane along with him. XD

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  • hey there, I've always had an opinion on the whole self satisfying masturbation issue when in a relationship. i know this is as long as a piece of string, down to situations within couples etc but the basic line is of my thinking is, all the time people are self releasing this is removing the desire for sexual release which ideally should be a gift we use for each other, in bonding and healing and just damn right fun. struggling to explain it very well but do you kind of get what im asking? xx

    • Sort of. You're saying that we should save our sexual desires for each other?

    • not entirely because there is an individual need for release, i feel more so for men which i understand. what im trying to say through experience and talking with others in a relationship, lets say experiencing troubled times there comes a distance which effects intimacy and in this place if a man then seeks out self satisfying for release which is understandable it doesn't aid in trying to heal things. i would prefer my man to come to me for this lol not one hundred percent of the time of course, but ok as a man do you ever think about intimacy without having to do the full act, like her helping you masturbate and thats enough? I've had this with partners where we just touch eachother for pleasure without the need to go onto intercourse, maybe im alone here but i really feel and go on all the time there is so much focus on the fuck and orgasm it takes so much away from what is achievable, the skin is the bodies largest organ, and to stimulate it with touch, pressure, oils is a must.. xx

    • I disagree. In my opinion (and by technicality, the actual true facts), sex is not emotional, and is entirely mechanical. I've said this an excruciating amount of times, but any thought otherwise is the product of 18th century european romanticism and not rational thought. Also, skin stimulation is not really a must, and it being the largest organ means nothing.

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  • You said you refrained from sex but.. were you even offered sex in the first place? *curious*

  • It's interesting you write this because my personal experience is that abstinence usually kills my libido. I am especially horny when I get to cum a lot (especially through sex). For example when I have sex with my girlfriend every day, I am constantly horny and I also want it every day. However, if she rejects me too many times and we don't have sex for 1-2 weeks, I usually become indifferent after 7-8 days and it becomes harder and harder to turn me on again. I once tried your no masturbation experiment for just 1 month and the experience was pretty disappointing. After 3 weeks or so, I felt as though I had become asexual. Anything related to sex seemed so dull and boring. Also, once I finally jerked off again, I expected to have this massive, awesome orgasm. Instead, it was one of the crappiest orgasms ever. It felt about as exciting as peeing.

    • Huh. That's very odd, and pretty much the opposite of my expiriences.

  • Dayum. I do it only to entertain myself when I'm bored. And no one I meet turns me on enough to get home and fantasize about him. Imagination, what a joy ;D
    It must be hard to be a male. Don't try this shit ever again.

  • I did this and it went on for about 3-4 months I believe, after I'd say a week, maybe two I didn't think of anything sexual anymore. I didn't get random erections either, if anything they happened less frequently than average, but when I did get them they'd last longer and usually be more firm. I also didn't really look at girls the same way either, didn't crave or want them was just kind of there. I didn't flirt with them or want them more than normally.

  • I can barely go 2 days without at the moment, thanks to my current partner. lol

    - Give you serious props on going 2 months. Been there, done it, takes serious self control.

    :) Very nice take.

    • Thanks. I wish I had some of the effects, like better luck with women and ability to orgasms 7 times in rapid succesion (when I was done with the two months, most insane jack-off of all time), but it wouldn't be worth it.

    • Woah what do you mean current partner? 😱😱😱😱

    • @akadatank44 - Not partner in dating sense. He and I have made it clear, just for fun. Ooooo, did you get jealous? ;O

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  • I once had a similar experience when I joined the service, it seems to me I went about 2.5 months without taking care of "business", then when an opportunity came up for me to get where I needed to go, I was shocked by the result, I didn't think I was capable of that much discharge. Just sayin' ;-)

  • I don't know maybe it's different for me because I'm simply still a virgin and don't know what it's like to go without sex once you've had it however I've gone without both.

    ... I mean yeah I tried but masturbaring isn't my cup of tea. m so I simply don't. I guess I'll find out what it's like to go without sex (after having sex) sooner or later 😕

  • I actually had to do this last week since I was on vacation everything you mentioned I felt. Females who would normally be 7 or 6s start to look good. Random hard ons.

    I also noticed a confidence boost and aggression I would look at women in the eyes and they knew I was checking them out they would look away and smile.

    Where as before I would be the one to look away if our eyes met.

    I say not doing it for a week is fine leaving it for too may not be healthy.

    • Sounds like we could all use a bit more aggression. If there's anything that the expirience certainly taught me, it's that confidence is important. I didn't actually become more attractive or funny during that time. I just got out more, and women seemed to like it a lot. So... I guess I've gained something from it.

  • Brother, I feel you. It's been forever since I had sex or even just made out (and I'm dating someone!) Last night I had the most kinky dream ever, and I only wish it could come true.

    • Damn, why is that? If I was dating someone and they wanted to fuck everyday I would want them to tell me, because I'd be down for it lol.

    • @Foxx99 The dry spell has ended.
      https://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/64555929.jpg

    • I'm legit happy for you 👏🏼👏🏼

  • i tried doing the same and gave up after the second day. I got too frustrated

  • All this talk has made me very very horny. It's a Monday night and it's getting late in Manhattan. I think I'll go out and get laid yesssssssssssss

    • Hmm?

    • Why the question hmmm? You doubt me?

    • I think he means your lucky!

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  • Maybe it's because I'm a virgin with a relatively low sex drive, but I think a masturbate once a month? Going through puberty, I did a lot, but now not so much. I don't think my sex drive is even that low, but I'm kind of weird in that only my romantic interest turns me on. Yeah, that's probably weird, and cravings for physical closeness I get but... Bro I hope you're trolling.

    • The thing is, my sex life is fairly intense. That's not me trying to brag or something, I just have sex often. And when I can't have sex, or even masturbate, its pretty hard.

    • it's because you're a woman.

    • @John_Doesnt Have to agree with you here. Men have balls that need to be drained.

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  • I did 9 months, two weeks (286 days) without sexual release, including no porn watching, masturbation and sex. I am now on 357 days, during which I have had only two sexual releases, both from sex.

    My goal is to hit 365 days, which is soon approaching and would be an incredible achievement for someone who used to masturbate to porn daily.

    I relate with your post except when you talk about girls hitting on you and girls touching you, as if to attribute the behaviours to nofap (abstinence from masturbation). That's total none sense and pseudo science, which you often read from amateur nofappers.

    What's true is, nofap is very challenging especially if you're on hardmode nofap like me. Hardmode nofap is abstinence from porn, masturbation, and sex. Nofap can potentially cause a guy to lower his standard of female attractiveness. Nowadays, I find myself attracted to females I'd previously overlooked.

    Above all, the build up sexual energy causes the guy to approach and ghost many girls. I have approached and ghosted over 70 girls in 357 days than I did in 3 years before I adopted a nofap lifestyle.

    The danger of prolonged masturbation or sexual abstinence is premature orgasm (i. e. cumming under 1 to 5 mins) during sex, which leaves your girl unsatisfied. That's what I've experienced, and it's for this I'd stop nofap when I hit my 1 year goal. But I won't return to masturbation to porn.

    • It was hardly pseudoscience. I'm just saying what happened, and regardless of whether or not it wasn't common, it's my expirience.

  • So entertaining to read! All in the name of science. You have a lot of will power Sir

  • Nice take.

    It was interesting to see how you felt. I think I could go a month without masturbating and I wouldn't feel bad.

    • It's probably no easy feat for a woman, but it's certainly harder for a man. We're genetically programmed to have sex as many times as possible, and our biology shows that, especially for a young, sexually active man like me. Fluids build up. Lots, and lots, of fluids.

    • You're right, it's not easy. But I think I could do it. And I also understand why it's harder for a man. I guess you guys crave sex more than women.

    • It's natural for men. For 99.9% of human history, the men had sex with as many women as possible, left them behind to take care of the kids, and moved on. It worked at the time, but doesn't translate well into a modern society.

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  • I think I must be broken. It does not have this effect on me or my partner.

    • Go on?

    • With my partner he just doesn't feel motivated. With myself I just don't get horny. Partly because of medication. The longest I've gone without sex was 8 months and to be honest, I wasn't climbing the walls.

    • Huh. That's odd. I guess that different people have different levels of sexuality. I, personally, have a really intense sex drive and find it excruciating to abstain from sexual pleasure for months.

  • I tried that and in the end, it was like
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  • Props to u for doing that! Lol that sounds like an intense 2 months, I'm currently dying rn just being deprived of sex for 10 days so idfk how u survived not doing ANYTHING sexually for 2 fucking months. It was cool to see how that experience was for u, especially when u go from doing it daily to never. Pretty cool take!

  • loool this made me laugh. Nice

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