What I Learned After 2 Months Without Sex or Masturbation

What I Learned After 2 Months Without Sex or Masturbation

Well, a few months ago I decided to not masturbate, or have sex for an entire 2 months, for SCIENCE! Needless to say, it was excruciating, but a valuable experience. Here's a basic overview of what it was like.

Day 1:

Day one might have been the hardest. It's my habit to do it either one once before going to sleep. I do it every night. My body has gotten used to it. So that first night was pretty awful.

End of Week 1:

Stimulai that once didn't do much began to have a bit more of an effect. I got random hard-ons more often than usual.

End of Week 2:

Pretty much any contact with a woman that wasn't just brushing against her elbow or something gave me a half erection. It was very odd.

What I Learned After 2 Months Without Sex or Masturbation

End of Week 3:

Everything turned me on, pretty much, as long as it had a vagina and resembled a human being. I found myself flirting much more often subconsciously, and with much better results than normal, which only made my utter celibacy THAT much worse.

End of Month 1:

I had a hard-on around 75% of the time. If found it very easy and natural to talk to women in a way that'd normally make me feel awkward. I found women giggling in an odd way to my jokes, "accidentally" touching my arm, and other things of the like.

End of Week 6:

What I Learned After 2 Months Without Sex or Masturbation

Constant erection. Constant, excruciating erection that I could do nothing about. Women began to actually hit on me when I flirted with them. They'd put their hands on my thigh when laughing at my jokes. I know. Insane.

End of Month 2:

Finally, my time was over. The second the clock went down, I ripped off my pants and erupted like Mt. Vesuvius a few minutes later.

Moral of the story: when you're constantly horny, you tend to make those around you the same way.

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  • Did you wet your panties

    • I'm a guy... haha.

    • You need adult nappies or a libra pad

  • I can't hold it in that long, the most I ever went without "having fun" was a week. It's hard (pardon the pun) to abstain from that habit when you have a high libido.

    • I have a fairly high libido as well, which means a lot of these people in the comments think it wouldn't be that difficult or that I'm way too horny if it was this hard. Its just that I have enough sex to make it arduous.

    • I haven't had sex yet, so it's very difficult for me.

  • I've done a similar thing...
    record is 10 weeks not cumming while on SSRI's, for those of you that dont know they basically kill libido and numb things down there so kinda doesn't count...

    while not on meds...
    2 months though I had several wet dreams in that time...
    longest time without ejaculating... 5 weeks

    And yes after that time I literally felt like I was going to explode... even that was an understatement when it finally happened. I videoed it on my phone haha

  • I've done (and still doing) NoFap aswell and I have noticed some benefits aswell!
    I wish I could make it to 2 months aswell. You're a legend :P

    May I ask a question though, how social were you before compared to after with women? Like did they actually come up to talk to you more often?

    • Thanks, and yeah, they did. They remembered me as the charming, flirty guy from when I actually had any flair, and approached me as such.

    • Nice! Good luck if you do any more streaks :)

    • I might do one more. See if I can do three months. It'll be difficult though.

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  • So if I stop beating it women will find me irresistible?

    Yeah I'm not sure I can do that.

    • Not really, it'll just improve your luck by quite a bit, with flirting.

    • I was just being a smartass. =P However, it does make me wonder if this is worth a shot.

    • Really depends what your priorities.

  • I've tried this before... and i ended up having a wet dream on night 7. :-P

    • Ooh, game over. Every day, I've made a habit of counting to 5. You cannot do that in a dream. Every time I cannot count to 5, I know I'm in a dream. Every time something started to get sexual in a dream, I'd get out of it.

    • "get out" of dreams? Is that your mutant power?

    • You can pretty easily make yourself wake up if you know you're in a dream.

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  • I find this to be quite accurate! Its like you get beer goggles for women after a while, just start to lose control

  • Hmu when you break 9 months with neither

    • Just read the comments, 9 months is apparently nothing... lmao

  • I'm 16, and I've read this article a couple weeks ago and decided to try this out myself.
    It's been a week and I think this simply isn't as beneficial to teens as it is to adults. I'm not gonna benefit at all from being able to physically attract other women because I'm too young and in the wrong social situation to do anything about it. The intense discomfort and useless thoughts around my few female friends isn't worth the increase in energy and hyperactivity I've also gotten after 4 days. I also read the article someone cited about sexual transmutation and they essentially agree no fap is for adults. I simply cannot deal with the extra hormones and wicked boners, I have too much else I need to focus on.

    Great and informative article, I will try this again when I actually want to get those one night stands.

  • I've done this a few times, longest was a little over a month, and damn it gets hard (sic)

  • You think all guys feel that way without masturbating?

    • Maybe. I have a fairly eventful sexual life, so maybe I'm just more used to sex and feel more of a need for it than other men.

  • No, when you're constantly horny you tend to perceive banal social interaction as flirtatious and horny. Which is why sexual repression breeds rapists.

    • I quite like this opinion for some reason...

    • Some of it could probably be attributed to such, but women do not normally touch me that often when we're just talking. Especially not close friends.

  • isn't masterbating healthy? did you feel stressed?

  • I once went without masturbating for 10 months and I swung between being almost asexual to being crazy horny all the time.

  • "when you're constantly horny, you tend to make those around you the same way." that's what she said

    • That was lazy.

  • I find this very true about masturbation and sex. The longer you go without, the more your body wants it.

  • lol its unhealthy to take all of that semen in your balls. Your balls must be heavy.
    This story makes me remember when i was a virgin and my pants were wet all the time and i didint know what was hapening with my body.

    • Just because he didn't masturbate doesn't mean his body never ejaculated. For example if he had a wet dream.

    • @OnePunchMan yes but my boyfriend says that he need to enjaculate at least 1 time for week

    • @OnePunchMan I actually used lucid dreaming to never expirience a wet dream. Interesting stuff, lucid dreaming.

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  • Okay, like I can abstain from sex, but every once in a while I'm like I need to relieve, and so I masturbate like maybe every couple or few days. If I don't masturbate I feel like I'm going crazy, like anything/anyone can turn me on. I don't really even like women.

  • So true I did for a week... I felt very healthy full of energy and I was feeling a burst of energy!.. I never felt until I lost my control on that 7th night!..

  • Some people make a sexual fetish out of male orgasm control/denial.
    See:
    https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php

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