What is your ideal amount of time for sex to last?

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What I mean by sex I’m referring specifically to penetration

bzcxx · Accepted Answer

ideally between 20-25 minutes. I've had long sex sessions lasting an hour, as well as quickies that lasted less than 10minutes. over time, I've realized that 20-25 minutes is ideal. it's not short enough for both of us to orgasm, neither is it too long that it gets boring and repetitive.
I don't see the point of spending time showering, dressing up, brushing my teeth and engaging in foreplay just for five minutes of penetration.
though I masturbate more than once daily, I only have sex once or twice a week, so when I do have sex, I want it to last at least for a period of time. next, it takes both my partner and I some time to get in the right frame of mind, freeing our minds from other destructions and focus simply in our sexual pleasure. though quickies are good when you're short on time, I feel like the resulting orgasm is way less intense and pleasurable than longer sex sessions. personally for me, I would never have a quicky unless we pretty much don't have a choice. I would say lasting 20-25 minutes isn't that hard for me, and thus it's the ideal sex duration for my partner and I.

Makeushiver · Accepted Answer

Well first it depends on how many times you an cum. I like to give a lover at least one orgasm, preferably a lot more since multi=orgasmic women are a huge turn on for me. I get to turned on by you coming to fuck right away. I ! one rubbing my hard on against your cit for a while before entering you. You would be extremely next by then and I prefer long slow deeply penetrating strokes at first. I think rhythm is important since it allows the deepest penetration. There's no particular position I like to start & I'm fine with you on top and edging me. Frequently I like to put some pillows under your belly which pushes your go spot hard up against me if you kneel on the floor w/ your torso on the bed =sometimes lifting 1 of your legs and find that I can get the most penetration that way. It also allows me to stroke your cit while I'm ducking you. Ill try to get you off about the same time as I begin to cum and I push as deeply into you as possible. I guess the a dual fix! I g takes about 15-25 minutes, less if I'm really turned on.

Starrisunset · Accepted Answer

The longer the better. I'm never going to complain about it being too long. I try not to be picky but generally I'd like it to be at least a good 20 minutes or more unless we're on a time crunch and don't have much time.

Samantha_17 · Accepted Answer

No definite time as long as he satisfies my needs! :)

MrOracle · Answer

For me personally, 30-40 minutes, but not everyone can go that long, so I've had to learn to keep it to 15-20 with some women.

SecretsofKB · Answer

20-30 minutes. 30 might be pushing it.

Lliam · Answer

From the actual moment of penetration? Maybe 15 minutes. But it could be five minutes or a half an hour or more.

If I'm horny and just want to bend her over for a quicky, then I'll cum quickly.

But I've gotten into really heavy sex sessions where she is having multiple orgasms and her looks, sounds and movements keep me going for a few hours, where I cum several times without pausing to rest or recharge. That's not common, though.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

30 mins to an hour. depends a lot on the foreplay prior to it and the girl lol

MCheetah · Answer

An hour to 90 minutes.

MeghanL · Answer

As long as it takes for both of us to be satisfied. I don't put a time parameter on it.

blank_expression · Answer

Sometimes time is placed in the units of events such as a lunar cycle. Sex should ideally last one uterine-orgasm cycle.

ohshee · Answer

Anywhere from 35 minutes to 2 hours I'm a marathon guy and I'd like to give her at least two or three orgasms before I go to my nut I like to get it to the point where both we're both highly incensed I love that feeling and I'd love to keep that feeling going as long as possible I also love to control the Rhythm because I like to last longer than she does because like I said I want to get her off at least a couple times before her last time and my first time that's going to be the hottest time

Lowiu · Answer

15 to 20 minutes per round for me

JackSmy · Answer

I have only been with a few women, but they are all very much the same, when it comes to "penetration" and they only seem to do it, because they think the guy needs that. They didn't want to get pregnant, and they just assumed that I needed that!
Some have wanted to talk about it, and there was a HUGE misunderstanding! They don't get much JOY from penetration, at all, and so many of the other things that we shared, were so much more fulfilling for her!!
Many times, I thought she "expected" it, but later found out, she would have been much happier, just cuddling, watching a movie, and sharing Ben & Jerry's!!

livin_hi_808 · Answer

With me it's not about a number amount of time as much as what I feel is necessary to happen before "hour of intimacy" comes to a close.
I don't get into it with the goal of getting my nut. My goal is to make her cum more than twice ideally before penetrate her with my dick. I have no shame or fear of breaking out my fingers, tongue and/or certain toys to assist in getting the job done. But I expect that she goes into the act with the same desires tho. Mutual pleasure is best when reached together. If not at the same time at least during the same session.

Oh and I just had an epiphany! Time wise I can only refer to before work sex so it would be safely done with an hour half to two hours to get to work on time but can go longer. I guess an hour would suffice.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

However long it takes for us both to be satisfied.

Leavesbound · Answer

Forever if possible.

Tamera952 · Answer

ughh... you said 'penetration' !! LMAO !!!

PBarlow · Answer

Once I have had one, I will let you know

slatyb · Answer

Until we're both finished.

jshm2 · Answer

Depends on the mood.  But around an hour is good enough. She gets to ride for around 30 of those, on top.

Overmind · Answer

Never had a woman that could stimulate me quickly; I can go all night long & have. Most woman can't handle it & no this isn't a desperate advertisement; just the truth.