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Sexual Health What to do if your dad finds your vibrator?
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y'all I'm freaking out. I'm 18, live with my parents and went to LA with my mom for college tours. And then my dad calls us up like "hey I'm cleaning your room." And I left my damn rabbit vibrator on my bed under a pillow. I almost had a panic attack during the phone call and begged him not to clean my room... and my parents were like "what is wrong with you." Like he's doing me a favor. So now I'm here like oh god. I'm assuming he'll find it... so... I'm just scared out of my mind. Should I even worry about it? Do dads even care? I mean I'm a virgin so i'm not sexually active at all... I'm not really doing anything that would kill me... it's just really embarassing... but I feel like it could be worse... like hard drugs or a pregnancy test... but still really embarassed about it.
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5 33Your dad wouldn't say a word he be embarrassed
I doubt he will say anything. He likely will respect your privacy as an adult if he does see it. I think the fear and the thoughts are worse than what will actually happen here. You’re an adult and desire to be treated as such
I wish i had your problems :)
Ok. This is funny enough to be a scene in a comedy movie. But I get it. It’s embarrassing. But if he’s reasonable he will know that at your age you will do it. I can’t say that I’d want to find that if it were my daughters, but if I did I would just cover it back up and I’d never mention it. I would never want her to feel embarrassed. I doubt your dad would either. It’s too late now. So best just to forget about it.
Talk with mom. Sunce she is there. Ask her if you can trust her with a secret. I bet she will be fine moving that dildi for you before dad starts cleaning. Or you can ask them both everything but bed. With please don't ask why. Tell them it will be very embarrassing for you. It's nothing lot to worry about. You folks are smart educated parents you may understand even if you know an I will be very embarrassed. I am sure you folks would do anything to save me from embarrassment.
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Well, the best thing to do would just be to tell the truth
But, well, who ever does that, right? LOL
Trust me if he finds it he won't say a thing
dont worry about it he will prob be more embarrassed than you.
does your mum know about it?
he shouldn't be cleaning your room with out your permission at your age
are your parents highly religious?
They're religious but like they're pretty chill. I've told them I've smoked weed and gotten drunk before... granted it was in the house. And they let me drink in front of them. They don't really care in that respect. And no my mom doesn't know. Sex is a different territory because we never really talk about it and frankly I don't want too... bit weird for me.
You're right to be embarrassed but you're also entitled to some privacy.
Don't worry about it. If he finds it even, I doubt he'll care or mention it.
Strange that at 18 your father cleans your room. Lmao. Nice story.
He cleans the whole house once annually... it's really weird.
Nothing to be embarrassed about. I'd think he'd be as embarrassed, if not more.
Depends on your family really. If they hate that topic then yeah you might have to answer some questions. But if they don't care he'll probably just not mention it.
Why is he cleaning your room
I don't know man. He felt like it apparently.