Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Someone totally made me think about this. I often state that i have no intentions of having sex with someone within the first 6 months of dating them. However, because i have such a dirty sense of humor and love to discuss sexual topics, its easily mistaken for being down to fck. I keep having to remind myself that its no longer like the innocence of elementary and high school days where we could joke about this shit without it being taken seriously as “You. Me. Bed now.” Like it sucks that i can't do the same shit online, at work, or in college because people definitely misinterpret it as being dtf. Guess im immature 🤷♀️💀🤦♀️
In college, these dudes used to joke dirty and they’d go “Hey, not around good girl Desi”. And then soon as i showed them that i can play dirty too, they took it the wrong way. One invited me to a football tailgate with his two friends who had girlfriends. The two taken dudes tried to make moves on me when “my date” wasn't looking. One kept trying to stare and feel up my tits when his girl wasn't looking and the other grabbed my ass in front of his girl. He was like “Baby, meet Desi, my other baby.” I slapped him off of me as she ran off crying. I was like wtf was that. He was like “oh you ain't bout it? I thought because you joked in class like we did, that you were down for anything.” I went to tell “my date” only to learn he invited a “second date”. She and i went to confront him but ended up looking dumb as he ran off with a third girl who was more willing to put out then we were.
#FeelFreeToList #CanYouHandleIt
When someone has a mind thats often in the gutter, do you take it as them being down to fck?
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4 43No, I do not. I do not make any such assumptions!
Lmao so you didn't assume i was the dtf type based off my posts
@DizzyDesii No, I did not. Haha. (I found out about your sexcapades later.)
What about me? Did you think I was that type based on my posts?
Im still shocked that you got a freaky side lol
I'm still surprised that you're shocked. Lol
I like the way you think girl. No political talks for me either.. and we'll it don't make look down. But is taken by95%. Of guys that you were active and hinting around for a sec partner. Beds only let the sex jokes and talk stay silent around the boys. You do also loose a large amount of respect from guys& some lady's talking , sex but now myself I talk shit about the real stuff, like making young sexy lady's earn a memory of long good lovin' the never forget about and long to experience again.
And also I think you have to leave room. In the 6 month plan that you can call back because you mightiss a chance of a life time with a really talented and caring lover,,
I mean most of the stuff i speak on is past sexual experiences Anyways so im far from all talk
Obviously people around you don't know how you are. I've known you long enough that you are not like that. You're kinda like me. I got a dirty mind too. I'm a big flirt but I would never cheat. I have morals just like you
Good to know :)
I never thought you were dtf by all your comments. I just thought you were funny as hell
Well thanks haha
You're welcome
I think guys in packs tend to be more sexual the sense of one uping their pals boosts their ego. For me I joke about everything probably to much but that's just bc I'm pretty sarcastic. I can't take anything to serious and wish everyone where the same life would be better
But these guys didn't just boost eachothers ego. It was clear they were into sharing girls. Like heck no. And i love to joke but i hate sarcasm because it comes across as someone having a smartass mouth and i get tempted to pop them in their shit
I've been popped and almost popped to many times to count but f it I'ma do me sweetpea. Those dudes do sound sketchy af tho steer clear of that type
Yea that was back in college. I def steer clear of that now
No I figure they just don't get it you don't talk about sex 24 7
I know one fuckboy at work who's like that. One day he just randomly said to me "hey Patrick, did you know that every hand you've ever shaken has had a dick in it?"
Me: "Yeah, it also wipe and ass; big whoop"
Him: "Yeah, with toilet paper. You barehand a dick!"
And when he said those last 4 words, another employee walks in the room and he's like "WHAT?".
Lmao
what the actual...
What?
He was going to get his... Just hope he didn't get something soap and water won't wash off... lol
Lmaooooo
it's an odd concept to be so sexually open in discussions and not a dtf. Took me a bit to actually get your perspective on it. But I think it takes some maturity to be able to separate it. To see a girl with a bangin body as much and not assume anything about her. Yet there's girls like that who think you're weak for not assuming and taking immediate possibly harmful sexual action. Have to be good with reading people's personality and whether they can handle yours.
Thats true. You gotta be good at reading people. Also? I became sexually open on my own time. My first ex tried to force so much out of me in 2009 that it took a whole year before i could truly finally open up to him about my freaky ways. But i was definitely on some shit since 2006 lmao
A dirty mind is a turnoff for me.
I prefer an intellectual , empowering mindset
Hmm okay
Yes ma'am
No I can separate the two.
Okay good
I don't know... i often like to talk nasty af but doesn't mean i want to fuck them. I'm just a dirty dude i guess
And im just a dirty dudette so i get it.
lol yesss you are :P
Nope!! Because they are usually just talk. Lol
But you know im not all talk
I don’t see you that way though. I see you just getting stuff off your chest. Lol. Plus, I see you as fam. And not someone I would try to hook up with. Lol
Lol trueee haha
wow crazy story lol but no i like a dirty sense of humour if i hear a girl speakin like that i just find it funny
Exactly! And maybe its an age thing. At 19, it still came across as innocent. But shit once i hit the 20s, its like they think you tryna get down
Haha I don't think I'll ever be like that I'll always find that shit funny just cause my sense of humor
We need more sense of humors in this world like ours then
Oh definitely
Yes.
Why eater with the peter
What else can be a reason? If person is keep thinking g if other persons genitals and getting down to the business they mean business, don't they?
thinking of*
You dont have to think about sex itself nor genitals to have a dirty sense of humor
You don't
No lmao
It all starts in brain though
No, just being attention seeking jerks.
If you say so. I feel there's a difference between attention seeking and humor. Attention seeking to me would be posting half naked pics and shit
Funny, dtf, emotionally fucked up. Could be either or all of them. Or none. But it's usually at least one.
Lmao emotionally fcked up 🤣 How
cause they use humor as a coping mechanism lol
I used to hang with few women friends I worked with that just got into the innuendos and horny talk.
It was fun, sometimes very frustrating, but fun.
It was like a women's locker room, taking about their boyfriends' acrobatics and other men, etc.
They'd all ways watch me to see my reactions. LOL
I didn't take it that they were all DTF.
Out drinking Friday nights after work, one in our group started touching my arm or bumping shoulders while we were laughing an carrying on and I didn't get it until one night we were leaving and she shoved me against the wall, grabbed my crouch and calling me an asshole because I didn't ask to take her home.
It really screwed up the work team's dynamic after that and I stopped hanging with them for the most part.
I just couldn't tell the difference after a year of being around them and all the talk.
I guess if I'd picked up her particular signals it might have saved the team, but... I was young and dense then.
Damn yea if i dont get physical then im probably not even flirting
I never take a woman seriously unless we're flirting heavily and touching each other
Good
My mind's constantly in the gutter and I'm always down, so I don't think I can answer this 😅
Hahaha