Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Most people think of men who are in a female led relationship or are obidient to their wife/GF as weak. Which is because female led relationships are very falsely portrayed by the midea.

What is a female led relationship?

People often mix them with femdom which are two different things. Femdom is a sexual fetish that involves a woman dominating a man or enslaving him and this is only a sexual thing. Female led relationships are not slavery. Both partners respect each other and love each other. A female led relationship is a relationship where the man admits that women are better leaders and he lets her have the last word in their decisions. She simply decides what they will do and he takes her permission before doing something.

Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Why it isn't a sign of weakness for a man to submit to a woman

Back in ancient times a mighty strong knight killed dozens of soldiers on the battlefiled and when he goes back to his kingdom he kneels infornt of his queen and submits to her. It doesn't make him weak he simply knows when to be strong and when to kneel

Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Why it's in fact a sign of strength?

Because naturally society gives men more privileges and what I mean by privellages is a man is expected to lead his wife and be the dominant one. When you give away your own privellages and accept to give it to the woman it's a sign of true love and strength.

It's a sign of strength when you aren't afraid of what others would think of you,you only care about what she thinks which is a sign of true love

Why being in a female led relationship isn't a sign of weakness but strength

Why be in a female led relationship in the first place?

Because I beleive women are smarter and better at leading,I feel more comfortable when a woman is in charge of something whether it is at school or in politics or in a workplace. I love the feeling of obeying women and pleasing them. Being a good Guy in a group of men who mostly hate women is a good feeling!

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  • I like a woman who has a sexually dominant side, but I would not want a "female led relationship". Man should be able to lead his own life and conduct his own affairs without getting a woman to sign off on everything. I've seen some couples in those relationships, and none of them looked healthy or desirable.

  • Well what if my wife starts telling me what to believe in, what to do, where to go, etc? I don't want to be forced to move somewhere I don't want to go if I have a nice job already! What if I want to go to Disneyworld, and take my kids with me, and my wife does not want to go, and try to stop me? What if we have disagreements on how to handle finances? What if we have serious relationship problems? My dad and mother fought ALL the TIME, because one would try to lead, and then the next day the other would try to lead. I don't want to submit to my wife's authority. She is supposed to submit to me according to the Bible!

  • Its definitely femdom sooner you admit that the better. You say you're submissive, if you have submissive tendencies and desire to be submissive in bedroom, then its femdom. I'd suggest looking into BDSM and femdom.

    • I do have a femdom fetish and I fully admit it, hoever i am talking about real life, being a slave in real life is wrong

    • Yes, but there are variations. each femdom/BDSM relationship is different. TPE is not common and actually even frowned upon in BDSM community. Also I am not 100% but one slave in context of BDSM is different, and does vary from relationship to relationship. Full TPE type relationships aren't common. I'd suggest looking more into it. You can not separate FLR in the context you speak from femdom. Also don't be a doormat be your own man, own unique individual. No girl is going to date a doormat no matter how dominant she is. If you don't want to be a slave then you will have to be your own unique person. Read more about it and maybe talk to other people in femdom.

  • Ikr! Who are better leaders etc might be discussed until next year but its a fact that only a stupid person wouldn't let someone else take the wheels sometimes/most times or in certain situations when offered. Life is a journey, and you'll get quickly exhausted if you insist on constantly driving.

  • If you wanna be submissive the best thing you could do is get married. (preferably to an older single mom.)
    You'll be on the hook with no benefit to yourself, and she'll have the final say in everything.

    Just do it. I'll support you, and thank you for relieving the rest of us of a tax burden.

  • Why does one have to lead. Why can't both have an equal share of responsabilities? Equal decision power? You know, equality.

    • That's very hard to actually work. Let's say they want to buy a house and there is 2 houses each one wants a different house what happens? We can't use democracy because they're only 2

    • Even a broken clock is right twice a day. Exactly right @nadim171 there must be a leader. everything else you said on here is wrong though.

    • Yes we can. Its only a matter of talking and getting into common ground.

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  • Interesting...
    In some ways, I respect your opinion. Decisions should be made with the absolute consent of the woman in any relationship.
    However, it is no longer the social norm that men rule the house. Have you seen a majority of house shows? Your primary peers around you? Norms have changed.
    Also, it may be degrading to the human personality to fight so feverishly against those things that ought to be. I believe that men and women are equal partners in a relationship, and that both should be wholly involved in the decision making process. I do think it is the man's role to preside over the family, however.

  • I'm going to try to crush your skull using my arm and chest muscles which haven't been seriously worked in a WHILE.

    If I succeed, your skull is made of some tough shit.

  • Um... no, dude. Just... lol no.

  • If I are married or be course she said yes. If you own a house , or an apartment she is running it. If you have kids they listen to her. If you have money most of it is here. If you leave her. She will make ur life will be a living hell. Ur fervent has always been ur master. Human nature mother nature woman nation. Fuck I have live and have seen that a woman, or man that thinks or feels that a woman has no power in this world are living under a rock.

    • This phone suck my texting is bad on here

  • Only weak little boys are afraid to be in a female led relationship

    A real man does not care the fuck about the stupid traditional roles

    • A Real man upholds those roles. And does give a fuck about them bcs they're the reason we were able to move out of caves.

  • "Back in ancient times a mighty strong knight killed dozens of soldiers on the battlefiled and when he goes back to his kingdom he kneels infornt of his queen and submits to her. It doesn't make him weak he simply knows when to be strong and when to kneel"

    Actually knights didn't answer to queens. They answered to Lords, who were ruled by Kings, not queens. Weak monarchs tended to get killed. You know why Queen Elizabeth and Queen Victoria are so famous? Because they are very rare exceptions to the rule.

  • Uh I mean yes sounds fine and good and all I wouldn't say it's a sign of strength. It's no different than male led maybe eh it's not a sign of weakness either it's eqqqual yay lol

  • why do you worship women?

    • woman

    • I worship God, but if god didn't exist I'd build women a statue and worship them!

    • YOU ARE AN AWESOME HONEST PERSON.

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  • The first thing and just shut up. and second thing do you even know what are you writing?
    When you are in a relationship you don't put all burden on one person, you share them and work together. You need to decide whether what you doing is right or not. You have a brain, use it.
    Third thing, don't let your fantasy make you a disabled person. Don't let anyone run your life. This is a time you need to learn how to do the thing on your own; Once you have a mentality that I will let someone take control of own life, you stop learning how to do a thing on your own. You need to fight your own fight, no person will come to save you. Your strength is you and everything else is just an obstacle you need to overcome in your life.
    Be strong mentally, physically and emotionally. In life no one is always right, you make mistakes and everyone does too, even GOD does if you believe in it ( if god does exist, god will be regretting making human). When you know something is wrong, you don't just go with your partner, you need to speak up and make sure they don't do the mistakes or stupidity and the same thing one expects from a partner too. SO there is no such thing as leader or follower in a relationship; no one gets the last say; both need to comprise something to get in an agreement. A relationship is reciprocal, one give and take at the same time. when one is giving only or taking only, they are no relationship; they become trash that needs to be disposed of and move on with life until one get a better partner.

  • A relationship is partnership.

  • It depends on what the two people like.
    My wife runs the home, but I still have Vito power if something doesn't seem right or if I have a better solution.
    At times, I do the housework as well.
    This works for us.

  • Sounds good to me...

  • Because women are women no mater how faggy you like to be.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7CYE0DYIbaw
  • What a women says and what she subconsciously need or desires are two different things.

    Subconsciously women do not want to lead, they want to be led. In courting, in dating, and in relationships. This is despite the fact that verbally women will say they want to be strong and are ok with leading.

    This is why, despite what women say, they will always go for the strong man (including bad boys or jerks).

    If a man defers to a women and lets her lead, consciously a women may be fine with it, but unconsciously she will have internal conflict because it goes against her unconscious natural tendencies. This internal strife will lead to resentment of the weak non leading man and result in break up, or worse cheating on him with a strong leading man that fulfills her subconscious need to be lead.

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