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Why can't my boyfriend cum from handjobs/blowjobs?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now, we got pretty intimate from the start so we have had a lot of time to discuss what each of us enjoy, so communication isn't the problem. I use to give him many handjobs and blowjobs at the start of the relationship but recently have given up hope. Whenever i use to try it would take ages for him to reach climax, and this was after many attempts at different techniques. It would take so long id get exhausted after a while and have to keep changing hands, and me stopping and starting would keep stopping him from cumming even though i felt like i physically couldnt go on longer, which would put pressure on me. We are both into kinky rough sex, and he would end up mouth fucking me to try and get it over and done with fast. But he would be so rough id feel sick, faint and weak which turned him on, but put me off. It probably sounds like i have shitty techniques, and maybe i do.. but im wondering if maybe he's one of those guys who struggles to cum from handjobs/blowjobs and can only climax if he is being rough? Or maybe i could get some unique tips that might blow him away. Always looking to expand my skills, and i want to impress him.
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  • Im early 40s and have never ever had that problem. I love that form of intimacy every time. But maybe its too rough? You sound very hard core. I actually wouldn't be able to do that either with you because im into softer, slower, depper, more sensual forms of love and sex.

  • More likely he's addicted to porn. He sounds like a piss poor lover anyway

    • He supposedly quit porn months ago, and he's a honest guy. Not that its a problem for me if he still did watch. He is very caring, its just we have extreme preferences.

    • It should be a problem for you because it's affecting your sex life and I don't believe him

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  • Because you suck at it

    • Most helpful opinion award goes to you!

    • Thanks

    • Well that's real constructive feedback! How would you know she sucks? She's asking for advice dude. Maybe it's the guy?

  • Is He uncircumcised or circumcised

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