Why do I get turned on by having bad things said to me? I get more aroused when I’m being insulted and degraded in bed. That makes feel so guilty?

[Anonymous]

[SamIam96]

I roleplay on a couple of other sites. Women have asked me to degrade them on a surprising number of occasions. I try, but I don't think I'm as good as other roles. Probably because I don't truly understand and iit isn't a turn on for me. Enjoy yourself. Your kink is pretty common.

[ladybananhammock]

Because you're a masochist. Look it up and it will resonate with you. Nothing to be ashamed of there are communities of people who share your kink especially in the bdsm community. People who love humiliation, people who love pain, people who love to be punished, people who like to be dominant. There's a whole world out there of people who are like minded as you and it's nothing to be ashamed of just explore your kink in a safe environment with someone you trust who respects you.

[Asker]

Oh yay thank you! I thought I was a freak!! I’m gonna look all of that up. My boyfriend tried this with me and it turned me on much more than being praised.

[FilmGuy93]

You've got a lot of intergenerationally engrained behavior working against you on that one. Centuries and centuries and centuries of women before you being impregnated (voluntarily or otherwise) by the most aggressive and strongest men they came in contact with.

[God_of_Thunder]

Does this do anything for you? 😂

[Asker]

Perfect 😩😩😩 lmao

[20yearsolder]

It's not uncommon? Lots of women love it. Were you abused as a child

[LiamSawyer]

You're a fucking whore with a wet hot cunt that is why

[Asker]

Omg lol that is hot. Are you trying to turn me on 😂 stopppp I’m just asking a question

[LiamSawyer]

Were you really only asking a question? I think not!

[LiamSawyer]

Message me you fucking dripping hot batch.

[LiamSawyer]

Follow me

[Asker]

I have a boyfriend 😂 I’m not gonna do any of that

[LiamSawyer]

Too bad

[Rizwan_khan]

It is fantasy that mostly people have that kind of fantasy and there is nothing wrong in that in fact sometime i also like this kind of fantasy on in bed.

[vald9inches]

Why guilty?

[Asker]

I’ve heard people say it’s weird and shameful to like being degraded or to degrade your partner in bed. Also heard it was anti feminist. I felt guilt for finding bad things said to me to be more pleasurable than good things. I looked into it thanks to some replies and I am much less guilty about it now!

[vald9inches]

Its just a kink and fetish beautiful don't feel guilty at all ❤️😘😘

[vald9inches]

I don't know why but evolution made us that way lol as a man i want to degrade and be rough almost forcing myself on the girl and girls also have rape fantasies and like to be degraded but as long as there is respect and love afterwards thats all that matters. No girl truly wants to be raped and i would never want to rape a girl if it was not consensual or roleplaying

[savagewolf22]

I love humilate girls on bed 😘

[Asker]

It feels so naughty and good

[savagewolf22]

Free for 10min?

[Asker]

I have a boyfriend so I’m not gonna do anything like that on here 😂

[savagewolf22]

😂😂😂

[Anonymous]

Because you're a dirty little cum slut

[Anonymous]

Were you raised in a very combative environment?

[Anonymous]

It's just a kink. I don't think there's anything wrong with being turned on by having degrading things said to you.

[Asker]

Ok ty that makes me feel better