Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My boyfriend and I been together for 5 years, have been “saving ourself for marriage” but I’m horny aF I’m ready to fuck. But he’s not.
Not for religious reasons per say but he is scared of getting me pregnant mostly and like the cultural aspect of child out of wedlock.
like I’m the girl why do I need dick so bad and he’s fine not having pussy?
Why do I need dick so bad but he doesn’t need pussy?
kareenakapur Yoda
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Asked my boyfriend for oral and he said why not so let’s hope it’s good I’m nervous
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 59I don't know why he doesn't want your pussy. I think he's horny too. I think men may be losing their temper when things get serious. When you get married, he's going to fuck you real bad. He saves himself for that special day. how old are you?
24 lol he better fuck me on our wedding day he’s def a freak love him being dominant me submissive
think it's better if he fucks you on your wedding day. Until then, be patient. Everything will be fine that night.
Yeah patience is hard. Today I’m normal and less horny. But like some days like the other day I was so frustrated it’s bad.
Shall we talk over message?
You have a wonderful guy. don't let your hormones' to ruin your relationship
Yeah I know people say your frontal lobe which affects your decision making doesn't fully develop until your 25. I keep telling myself it’s just my Brain and hormones need to chill
You like Kareena?
Of course
Do u have toys that could help u?
That’s what he keeps suggested that I get a dildo but I want his dick to be the first thing in me lol is that odd
Ahh and no not odd but if he’s not willing to give u that, there’s gotta b more to it.
He’s not willing till after marriage lol. Like at least if we get pregnant when we’re married it’s not taboo lol
So weird…your religious zeal must be abominable.
I’m fine not being it anymore lol
Then why not break the stalemate?
You can’t ever know a person until you a) live with them, and b) fck them
Because he doesn’t want to that’s the basis of the question
Find another guy who will
Different sex drives. NOT good!
Do what u want i would say find someone else but only if u want to do that
That’s hard to think about. Been with him since I was in high school. We’ve grown up together now. He’s my best friend
Do what u think is right
It doesn't make sense why he doesn't want pussy.
I’m confused too like if I want dick this much thought he’d feel the same way
Yes any normal guy would want your pussy :)
Right lol I guess he’s satisfied enough with oral and hand jobs
Sorry about that, I hope it changes for you :)
Maybe he wants it too luv but the pregnancy issue is scaring him, try to talk to him about protection and see how he reacts
Run!!! Seriously though that sounds terrible! Sexual/intimate incompatibility can happen after marriage and you are stuck then, but it sounds like a warning sign to me considering you are dating
High sex drive
I know I do I wish We both did
Best of luck
Because you love it
So how was the oral for you?
You need to move on, and go with a man who will fulfill your needs.
It’s hard Bc I love him. We started dating in high school and he’s my best friend
Then, You must follow what your heart tells you to do. It will direct you in the right direction.
My heart and not my pussy?
It depends on if you are content with waiting or not. However, You just told me that this particular gentleman means a lot to you. I would hate to see best friends break up over something that can be rectified. The choice is yours sweetheart.
Yeah I will wait just am sexually frustrated sometimes lol today I’m fine just other day was really horny when I made this question lol. It comes and goes
My brain is working today lol
Sounds like he’s not into you
He cums on ft though lol I think he’s into me.
You cums on you but he doesn’t fuck you?
Yeah lol he’ll cum on my boobs cum in my mouth but he’s chill to wait on my pussy. But I want that lol
Spread your legs then Before you know it he will be belly deep into your pussy
He won’t lol he’s scared of getting me pregnant
I wish tho
He should wear a condom. Do you suck him off?
He has and once when he was rubbing my clit it ripped so now he’s scared to wear one
Yeah I suck him
I DM’d you j thought it would be quicker lol
Try birth control, a condom, or just masturbating together or having oral
Yeah I give him oral and we masturbate together but I don't know I want him. He’s tried rubbing against my clit with a condom. It ripped and he didn’t even cum on me but he made me get three pregnancy tests he was so scared lol. Like ever since then he will not even get close to my pussy lol I’m also on birth control ngl not good about taking pills Bc I take for non contraceptive reasons
He does not like pre marriage sex, but you want sex, so better, you people get married very soon
That’s what scares me though like I love him but I’m rushing things Bc I just want to fuck
Like that’s lowkey a dumb reason to get married to just fuck lol
You like sex but you are scared, really strange, you people are in relationship for the sex and raise family, so do not afraid,
Scares me like can have sex with anyone. Am I wanting to marry for love or just lust
Ohh no well get a vibrator that will help
I know lol but I have a roommate I hope she wouldn’t hear
he's probably jerking off
He is. He jerks off to me on Ft but ngl it’s hard for me to get off on that
Find someone else for dick...
Sounds like cheating lol nah I’m good