Why do some guys like Asian women?

My boyfriend has a strong Asian fetish. He likes anime too. Why does my boyfriend like Asians? Are there common things between Asian lovers? What are the fetaures of Asian women physical and personality? I try to understand my boyfriend's personality, his tastes and his view of women and relationships by analyzing his fetish of Asians. Help me and share your thoughts.
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  • Asian guy here. I read all the guys comments and then I "Wow... common flowers here are exotic roses of gold in the West" 🤣🤣🤣

    Ok seriously, I'll not compare girls from the East to those from the West.

    These are what i think make our girls special:

    1) yes, as mentioned, most of them are religious and submissive to their husbands.

    Many still sacrifice their degrees and become housewives especially if they have children.

    2) yes, Asian girls are petite, but not necessary "flat" as a guy wrote.

    Perhaps virgin girls could be "flatter". But somehow, after she engaged in sex, her boobs and butts roudens and becomes very sexy. (Google those images and see them for yourself.)

    3) Asian girls are "subtly intelligent". Yes, many of our girls may appears "simple" or perhaps viewed by Western guys as "easy".

    Haha, no. When you get to know her, she will crack dry humor, occasional sacarsm, and often very clever sentences in good English.

    4) Asjan girls are multi-talented.
    Many can cook, sew, sing, and play a musical instrument.

    And they could be degree or diploma holders.

    And many speaks at least two languages: English + their native tongue.

    5) outside the bedroom, many still dress tastefully despite in Western-designer outfit.

    And as many said "a lamb in the kitchen, a tiger in bed". I personally attests that his statement is true to Asian girls.

    7) and of course, Anime may portray a little of them. But real Asian girls are generally conservative and will not chase after guys, nor jump into bed after the first 3 dates.

    Sufficient? Yes, I'm proud of our girls here. Come Western guys. If you're lucky, you'll live in paradise LOL!

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  • By Asian, I assume you mean Oriental as opposed to South Asian. There is no doubt there are fetishists attracted to them. I'm not going to delve to far into this except to say that many age 30 look age 18 and some age 22 look underage. And Anime (actually Hentai) plays into that.

    However...
    My SO is Oriental (SE Asian). She is five years younger. So I have insight.
    "Are there common things between Asian lovers?"
    Yes there are, for ones who are not fetishists but have made conscious assessments.
    *They typically come from the Third World, where they are not protected by layers of government and culture and have to think rationally, not emotionally. Since they typically do not have English as their primary language, they use it literally and this scenario does not apply...

    Why do some guys like Asian women?


    ... unless they are Urban American Born Orientals which are even worse, combining their fetish value with emotion driven feminist culture.
    *They are typically slender and retain their youthfulness, often into their 40's. They do not spend much time primping and modifying their appearance with makeup and surgery. They generally dress practically.
    *They often have and celebrate domestic skills, particularly cooking.
    *The love family and friends and respect and take care of their men.
    *They are very often religious, which constrains their behavior.
    When I wake up to those dark brown eyes, I feel like I am cheating fate every day, because I am.

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  • In some circles it's called Yellow Fever. It's just something about them. Maybe the innately submissive nature a lot of Asian women get in their cultural heritage. Maybe it's their big nipples. Have you asked him?

  • It's mostly a fetish thing like you said. They are perceived as exotic and media like anime make some people believe that's what Asians are like in real life.

  • Probably just a fantasy.

  • Best way is to ask him since he would know the answer better than any one of us in here. One thing i do know is that men who have the hots for the Asian women do not care for a woman who is curvy since most of the Asian women have flat chests and rear ends, of course there are exceptions.

  • I am not an anime fan , nor I am interested in their language or fashion or w/e but I find them more beautiful than other women in the world

  • In Asian culture, women have a much higher regard and respect for their man than in western culture. They are more demure, polite, reserved, quiet. They aren't overbearing and boisterous like some western women. Physically, many are petite, they eat better, and take better care of themselves than western women.

    Many Asian women are attracted to western men for their size and stature, strength, their wittiness and can-do attitude. And Asian men are known to have a small penis - some like them a bit larger.

  • I think Asians are cute but I don't fetishize them, i also like anime as well.

  • Because they can be gorgeous just like black women.

  • The guys who kike Asians like fhe body an there the rest about there being Asian its a couple parts for them

  • I don't understand the Asian fetish either. There might be nothing to understand about it though as it might be a mere taste. It could be like trying to understand why one's favorite color is blue, why they like chocolate or similar situations like that. It might just be what it is, with no real explanations behind that.

  • probably ur height

  • Asian girls are so damn cute

  • Finding someone attractive isn't a fetish...

  • They're usually more petite and submissive.

  • Asian women are more typically my type, petite.

  • Asian women are beautiful, especially their faces.
    Their accents can be sexy too.
    The dark hair, dark eyes and beautiful features are attractive to white men.
    They're different and exotic.
    It isn't really a fetish to find Asian women the most attractive.
    It's just life.

  • Because they don't look like men like a lot lot of white and black women do

  • grew up watching anime and playing jrpgs, scantily clad anime women haunted our puberty years XD it's all an Asian plan to get white dna if you ask me

  • It could be the anime and hentai.

    Some guys think they are stereotypically submissive and obsessed with white men.

    Asian women are typically shorter and more petite, some guys are into that.

    • He's very small compered to other guys. Maybe their smallness is a factor.