Why do some men get so mad?

Question

Some men get pissed when I say I think an underaged boy having sex with an older woman is being used and therefore taken advantage of.  I think it's ridiculous and close minded.

Citizenkirk · Accepted Answer

OK, we are going too need context in order too continue this conversation rationally, and in a reality based dialog that doesn't involve vampire diaries, werewolf romances, alian extraterrestrial love children, Jimmy Hoffa's other demon seed illegitimate offspring, or any far fetched relationships too celebrities or infamous gangster or serial killer in supposed need of DNA testing for paternity applications or inconsequentially ancestry connections.
#1-That leaves the possibility that you iether hate double standards of any kind (Bravo) and will challenge any himt of such hypocrisy (RASPBERRY) you come across.
#2 - This issue hits way too close too home for your comfort, and this is an avatar to issue to champion and act as a receptacle (BASURA - TRASH) to dump your 😖 and unspent 😠 so you can get the resolution, acceptance, and closure necessary to move on with your life.
#3 - You are trolling for a controversy too exploit for your own amusement because the pet shops won't sell you any more small animals to hurt and kill and you aren't at that point yet where you're willing to go through the trouble the covering your tracks as a result of the usual serial killer routine of cleanup and evasion.
#4 - You are trying to create your own social Convention for the purposes of capitalization in the growing sexual fetish and entertainment genres for the adult film and literature industry, in the hopes of patent or copyrights ownership of an entire subsection or segment, of that lucrative form of adult entertainment.
#5 - In your own roundabout way, you are indirectly trying too promote public awareness of a community health problem in need of social reform and legislative intervention.
#6. Like me, you are bored and just looking for something too do.
My response---

#1- Life is too short too waist time on undefined causes and unformatted questions. Get a political platform orchestrated, a pansy in your pocket too act as disposable political candidate, get them elected, and throw them away after the deed is by orchestrating an unsavory political scandal, or the tail waging the dog method.
#2- seek counseling and support group therapy and move on with your life.
#3- Get help.
#4- I applaud your hustle, but it's aready been done too death.
#5- Requires lots of capital and a moral flexibility you may, or may not, possess.
#6- I KNEW IT!!! All reruns on TV or laundry day. Am I right?

TruthBringer · Accepted Answer

Underaged boys having sex with adult women are definitely being used. Boys are perhaps excited to get their noodle wet, but its no different than an adult man trying to have sex with an underaged girl (given it's known he adults are having sex with minors). Anyone who claims otherwise is a retard in my opinion. In both cases, the law is being broken. And both underaged boys and girls having sex with adults are unaware about what they are truly doing.

Ozanne · Accepted Answer

I've seen you post this before, so I'm thinking something must have happened and upset you personally about this situation, and I'm sorry about this. Can you share how old the boy is? I'm only wondering if he was actually of the age of consent which can still be considered underage, yet not illegal for consent. And was the woman in a personal position of authority over him? (ie. His boss, his teacher, his pastor, etc?)

weysally · Accepted Answer

whether underaged or not, in most cases someone is being used, the only time I think honestly that I'm not used is if I have an orgasm otherwise a lot of women get used never mind the aged thing

Hangry22 · Answer

Becaus they're horny incels who think a teen boy being raped by his teacher will be a fantasy come true for every guys

pajamasam · Answer

Your challenging one of their sexual fantasies. Every guy has fantasized about sleeping with an attractive older teacher while in school. So when you point it out as abuse it "feels" like their sexual fantasy is being invalidated.

But our feelings and reality don't always line up.

Obviously those relationships are absue and should be treated as such.

WesBrewer · Answer

It is because men are always wanting to vent on something because they are stressed about something even if what they are getting mad about is stupid.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

They can't stand the idea of having to apply standards consistently. Plus, they aren't looking at all factors logically. They're thinking of all the times they were bullied in middle school or high school because they couldn't get laid. Not considering long term consequences, losing the V card to an older woman would be the ultimate "F*k you" to the bullies. Or so they have deluded themselves into thinking.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

You also said it was fine for a certain girl you know to do it with older guys and didn't seem to understand how hypocritical that is

TonyV · Answer

I don't know, I'm sure they wish it happened to them, I'd bet they are letting the allure of meaningless cause sex fun cloud their judgment.

Sure young dumb me probably would have had fun and liked it if an pretty older woman did that too me, but it's still wrong and I would never sit by and let it happen, that kid is going to be messed up now, I'm sure he had fun but he's gonna need so therapy to straighten out his messed mindset now.

triff · Answer

Its quite a scarey line for guys So easy to accuse the male of Sexual Assault Rape and Pedophile Where a woman can deny doing this to a male and may often be believed to be innocent From a male point of view Maybe this 14 year old boy is scared to report this or talk to anyone about it as he could be accused of forcing himself apon her and told no one will believe him So some guys it will touch a raw nerve of defence

Jjpayne · Answer

I honestly don't know myself 🤔 doesn't make sense to me

CYNICAL_CRYPTIC · Answer

Well, some people, men and women both have anger issues.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I agree with you Men shouldn't get mad cause any underage Male having sex with a grown Adult Woman is being taken advantage of and police need to get involve

JosyJosy · Answer

Because it's like one of their fantasies

bowenw · Answer

They probably don't get mad because they wish it happened to them regardless of whether it is legal or not.

JakeS00 · Answer

Because you’re right and they’re wrong and they don’t want you announcing it’s wrong to do so. They are only teens and it would be wrong using them.

hellacray · Answer

Ok... Well let's flip the script.  If an underage girl has sex with an adult man. And I say the underage girl was taking advantage of the adult man does that make sense to you?

Hydrogen · Answer

It's abuse but everyone is entitled to their own opinion

JKingOff · Answer

No idea.

morganlove · Answer

Supposedly it’s the same as an underage girl being used by an older man. Just don’t know many boys that would complain. It’sa lot like the slut vs stud double standard.