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Sexual Health Why don't younger guys believe women in their early 30s have a high libido?
vickiezalez Xper 6
Let's just say now I know what 18 year old males go through.
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2 36There's a common belief that women in general have lower sex drives than men. Notice too how men who get a lot of sex are praised but women who do the same are shamed. It's all part of these beliefs.
Yes. No one warned me... not even my mother. I'm talking to older women who already went through that. One of them said that men go through this in middle/high school but women in their 30s. How unfair.
It is unfair I’m sorry that this is happening.
I mean how unfair of mother nature to spike each gender's libido at different times in their lifetime 😂
I don't know about that lol. There was this one girl I used to be close friends with (it was completely platonic but we were close). We were at the bar together one night and these two guys sitting next to us told me that my friend was nerdy. I laughed and said that I was nerdier than her. She misheard me and thought I said I was dirtier than her. She had her mouth wide open and had this giant smirk on her face. Me and the other two guys corrected her and told her I said nerdier not dirtier. She got embarrassed at first but then got prideful again and with a smug look she said: "I was going to challenge you." We were both 22 at the time but we were both turning 23 later that same month (our birthdays are both in May 1996 but 2 weeks apart with me being the older one).
She also whispered something in their ears lol.
That sucks. I know what you are talking about. 😅
I can believe it
Then you ARE prepared for what's coming 😂
Oh I plan on it
I dated a 35 year old when I was 22. Good things happened. lol
I bet.
guys are dumb
Because like a couple of people said, some men have a hard time believing that women enjoy sex just for the sake of sex and just assume women only do it for some sort of personal gain. The idea that women genuinely enjoy sex just for sex's sake is a foreign concept for a lot of men.
Wow that's sad. I'm glad this question is opening up the conversation to slowly tear down a stereotype. Most younger women are still learning about there's sexuality when they're young. Then most become entitled, once we realize how much of a hold we have on men because make it easy. As we age, our hormones start getting the best of us and finally we start to realize in our 30s (maybe 40s) how men felt in their teens.
Yep from the base desire to bang to the feeling of being unwanted
Cuz they don't make it known
They just think they lost their sexual groove.
sounds like a fun time
No, I am thinking completetly different, my idea matura women are so hot and attractive, because they know their job very well and they can handle things very good..
Yep. We'll adapt :)
I think you are one of them ☺️
I could be ;)
Can you follow me ☺️
Thankfully for me, I got to believe by finding out first hand. :3
Congrats 😂
that is dumb if they want sex and foreplay just do it
To be honest I used to think like that and then when i was about 20 I hooked up with a 32 year old woman and it changed my mind haha. After that I knew about 30ish would be my target age and that still stands true now even thought im older. A confident, horny, down to earth 30yr old is so much more sexy than a awkward, shy 20yr old who thinks the world exists to please her.
I still need proof, I never find them
Almost all men know women hot their sexual peak at 30ish... we just simply don’t want it. 🤮
*hit
She's baby crazy at that point
@EyesOfGod and desperate to find a guy to get her through her expired years
some of us are married... but since our 30 year old husbands can't fuck more than 2x a day, we need men under 30 to make up what 30 year old men can't do.
ha nice try.
no need to try when it's a fact 💅
Women vary a lot. I’ve know women who spiked in their 30s and other women it vanishes. My wife’s went to zero by the time she was 40.
Wow.. lucky her! I wish I wouldn't want sex right now. I even get mad if the "craving" is too intense
Yeah I’m not enjoying it so much. We have t had sex in years