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First of all I am not being hateful. I want to simply explain my points of view and I really expect you to give me rational responses. Yes I am a virgin who wants to please her future lover very much. 🍌👅 Please don't make any remarks about my "INexperience". If you believe in female sexual experience then explain details by details WHAT A NON VIRGIN GILR CAN DO THAT A VIRGIN GIRL CANNOT DO. I have asked this question to my non virgin friends and none of them gave a concrete answer. They have said:
1. Virgins are a dead fish
OKAY. But non virgins can be dead fish too. AND virgins can be passionate and active and they don't have to have a dick inside them for being able to touch and kiss the guy's body. IF you ❤ someone why won't you show affection to them?
2. Virgins get attached after you take their virginity.
This is funny. What does being attached have to do with experience. ANY woman who ❤ and has feelings for the man gets attached to him after having sex with him. And is there anything bad with being attached to your bf? Should she be cold after the sex? Would you like her to act cold after you banged her? I am sure any guy would feel insecure if a girl you had sex act like a stranger to you. You would think you are a bad lay.
Guys complain about frigid and cold girls yet they also complain about girls being attached to them? Please explain why wanting to have sex with you again is annoying. 😂
3. Virgins bite your 🍆
Seriously, biting is a choice. You don't bite accidentally.
ANYONE knows biting genitalia is not pleasant. And you can always use your lips in a way that your teeth won't meet your partner's sex.
4. Virgins can't deep throat
Sure. Like all non virgins deep throat. 😆 Some people have a good gag reflex. And bj can still be good without deepthroating. Am I right, guys?
5. Virgins don't try new things
Yes like you try new things everytime you have sex. 😂 Have you never repeated the same sex position? If you are really that into new and different things then you will like sex with a virgin as it IS indeed different compared to sex with non virgins.
6. Virgins are not kinky
If you are only for kinky sex and not into passionate lovemaking then you are a bore. Kinkiness in mind, non virgins are not necessarily into kinkiness. Many adventourous women have had wild kinky fantasies in their childhood (before losing their virginity). Some women get less kinky after having actual sex. So virginity doesn't stop a virgin from having kinky mind as well as losing virginity doesn't necessarily arouse interest in kinkiness.
7. Virgins don't go on top
Actually I have heard many women losing their virginity on top of the guy where they control the depth and speed for they don't feel pain.
If I am wrong then enlighten me. 💖 I am always eager to learn. 👍
What Girls & Guys Said
22 24As a virgin myself, I think you listed pretty much common sense.
I'm confident enough to say, that a person doesn't change between before losing it's virginity and after.
You're trying to say that a person gains no sex-related experience after having sex for the first several times, and has the same level of experience and practice as a virgin (that is, none)?
@Dragonflyby just because you sucked when you were a virgin (and maybe still do) doesn't mean other virgins are shitty at sex as you were/are ✌✌✌. I fucking slayed just now ☝👏👏👏
Owner - you really didn't. Are you literally 13? You're behaving as such. It's not a matter of being "shitty at sex", it's a matter of simply lacking the experience that someone who has been active has, and the improvements that come with that.
@Dragonflyby I don't value your "sexperience" at all. THIS DROVE YOU CRAZY
@Dragonflyby That was meant personality wise and in other aspects exlucing sexperience and life goes on.
1. Virgins are a dead fish
"OKAY. But non virgins can be dead fish too."
Virgins are dead fish more often because of the initial pain.
"AND virgins can be passionate and active and they don't have to have a dick inside them for being able to touch and kiss the guy's body. IF you <3 someone why won't you show affection to them?"
What does this have to do with the concept of being a dead fish?
2. Virgins get attached after you take their virginity.
"This is funny. What does being attached have to do with experience?"
A lot, actually. I'm a bit baffled I had to say that.
"ANY woman who and has feelings for the man gets attached to him after having sex with him. And is there anything bad with being attached to your bf? Should she be cold after the sex? Would you like her to act cold after you banged her? I am sure any guy would feel insecure if a girl you had sex act like a stranger to you. You would think you are a bad lay.
Guys complain about frigid and cold girls yet they also complain about girls being attached to them? Please explain why wanting to have sex with you again is annoying."
Those guys are talking about casual flings and one-night-stands. That's common sense.
3. Virgins bite your *dick*
"Seriously, biting is a choice. You don't bite accidentally."
So? They still do it.
"ANYONE knows biting genitalia is not pleasant. And you can always use your lips in a way that your teeth won't meet your partner's sex."
Apparently they don't, though.
4. Virgins can't deep throat
"And bj can still be good without deepthroating. Am I right, guys?"
Depends on the guy so I can't agree with this.
5. Virgins don't try new things
"Yes like you try new things everytime you have sex. XD Have you never repeated the same sex position?"
So because we do the same position a second time automatically throws this out? Logistics fail, right there.
6. Virgins are not kinky
"If you are only for kinky sex and not into passionate lovemaking then you are a bore."
I don't know about that. A lot of girls consider a guy a bore if he does things passionately only once.
"So virginity doesn't stop a virgin from having kinky mind as well as losing virginity doesn't necessarily arouse interest in kinkiness."
There are a lot of virgin girls out there who have all these unhealthy expectations and ideals about kinky sex only to get incredibly turned off when they see how many precautions there are.
(cont'd)
7. Virgins don't go on top "Actually I have heard many women losing their virginity on top of the guy where they control the depth and speed for they don't feel pain." She must have had some kind of sexual experience beforehand, if they knew to do that.
Why did you copied and pasted?
My opinions on what you said are under the quotes.
I was on top for my first time. That bit of advice came from a cosmo magazine, and much research beforehand lol. If a girl seems adventurous or good at something sexually, it doesn't always mean she is experienced. It might just mean she knows how to read XD
I'd rather have a clean virgin anyway.
Sexperience... bleh. Guys who are sluts also won't take care of you. Be wary.
most of those are stereotypical objections or characterisations. And while they can be as true for experienced women as for inexperienced ones. the inexperienced ones simply don't have the knowledge to draw upon to significantly change it.
Experience changes the experience of sex. it's a simple reality.
Some of the characteristics you suggest there actually are pluses for the inexperienced side. for example, trying something new, sharing a new experience vicariously through a partner can be a lot of fun.
It's up to the couple experiencing it to decide if the sex was better before experience changed it or after, or if they were both good just different.
Virgins dont have to have sex for faining knowledge about it.
Argued with the typical insulation of inexperience. A person can certainly learn a certain amount from books, conversations etc. But that is simply not comparable to the real thing. I speak as one who learned every scrap about the topic I could after I learned it existed. None of it really prepared me for the real thing, the experience is something different to the books or porn or conversations etc.
Virgins this virgins that. Someone who hasn't had sex before naturally isn't experienced. So what?
I love your post. When I was a virgin, I did go on top for my first time. Sure, I wasn't as wild and hot as I am now, but I needed to get there.
I am glad you liked my take. i thought I would get lots of hatred from non virgins
Guys not liking virgins has to do with virgins don't put out IE promiscuous. I'd prefer one.
Sexperience... is the chronicles of being a (slut) , void of relationship or marriage.
Glad there's some sanity on the subject
Im agree with u 😊
Just how men are trained by the loads of porn they watch. They assume to get spicy sex stuff that girls must watch and read sexually based stuff.
I always thought that it's the more experienced girls that get flak for being "used" and whatsoever... I never really heard a guy say "Nah, she's a virgin." But I definitely heard "Nah, she's a slut." many times.
Lol this perfectly described me at the time 😂😂😂
I agree with pretty much everything you said. I don't understand why so many guys always want an experienced girl. I am a virgin as well and the ideal way that I want to lose my virginity is when I find the perfect girl who I want to be with who is also a virgin or at least not very experienced. I mean if you want an experienced girl who has been with several guys then she already knows everything that's gonna happen mostly and its not really a new experience for her. Same thing, just a different guy. That's why ideally I'd want to be with a virgin because we could learn and experience it together, and I think that special bond would bring us even closer together in the end.
You are on point with all topics... dont give it up until you are ready... most guys just "hit it&quit it" thats why sexwith a woman twice sucks... they expect another brainless bimbo who has no self respect, dignity or honor to hop right on it... dont fall to that level... let some other hussy do it, its yours, dont get sick for a lying, manipulative man...
I feel some jealousy / bitterness for virgin...
I don't get why so many girls feel like queens just because they are virgins. It isn't a big deal 😂 I had sex with my boyfriend of four years for the first time... waited for two years before we even did it. It wasn't anything special and I was over twenty.. like it doesn't mean anything. So stop making a big deal out of it. GIRLS ARE SEXUAL BEINGS!
And if you are under 20. You shouldn't be having sex anyways.
I am a sexual being and I will have sex when I want. What is your point?
That is great for you. It is just this "I am a virgin" mark that so many of you keep showing off. It is annoying. Everyone has been a virgin before so I don't see the big deal
Everyone has been a virgin. But not all non virgins lost their virginity after marriage like I want to
Here's the thing. . . Everyone was a virgin at some point in their life. They all had to start sometime. So even if a virgin wasn't kinky or doesn't go on top. . . That doesn't mean once she starts having sex she won't experiment. If that was the case then no one would ever become kinky or get on top.
I think you're right on all accounts! My first time sucked but I don't think I was the dead fish, the guy kind of was. Also I was kind of confused because it was over in about 2 seconds and I was like wait.. what? But um.. if you're a sexual person, just because you haven't had sex doesn't mean any of these will be true! I don't have a gag reflex, and after that first guy I had a great boyfriend and he thought I was lying about having sex with only one person before him because I was pretty good at some things. I didn't lose it on top though, I was on bottom and but it actually didn't hurt. I'm a pretty tiny person so I thought it would. Other than that, I wouldn't believe any of the things your friends said. :)
Also "I didn't lose my virginity because I never lose" is hilarious and I think you should tell people that if they ask too many questions :D