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Hey guys! With the results of poll here is the take as promised. I got so close to equal response for two takes I decided to do something different. This take was most requested by men. I will be writing the one most girls chose later today.
First things first I have to make obligatory credits for the voters:
@LouisvilleGirl826 (Huh I wonder if she actually lives in Kentucky. Maybe she knows my ex-fiance :P ) @Fathoms77 @Spiorad_Aisce The rest are anons or didn't comment so I don't know they're usernames. I'm sure they'll find their way here.
So let's look at why I find women who dress conservatively attractive shall we?
First we need to determine what a woman who dresses conservatively even looks like.
Jeans + shoes + T-Shirt = conservative.
Women, when men say they want conservative they mean that. Not this...
That's Amish for those wondering. That isn't attractive girls. You know that, I know that. That's not what men want you to look like when they say "Dress conservatively"
The want you to look like this...
That's what we mean by conservative. It's really not that hard to accomplish. If you look like this...
...You may attract more attention but then you can't complain about only being seen as a sex object. That's why I say "If you dress like a slut prepare to get treated like one" this particular model isn't going to be seen as a person. She's advertising her body as something to be desired. Therefore people are going to desire it. They aren't going to enjoy her body and personality equally because to me dressing like this screams "I slept with every boy over the age of 14 in a 10 mile radius!"
Now don't get me wrong, I like to look at women but I find the conservative more attractive. Some of you who came here for an opinion from me instead of a brief lesson in social misconceptions this is the part you're here for!
So why do I find women who dress conservatively more attractive?
1: It shows self respect and confidence
There's nothing more sexy to me than self respect. Enough said really. I can't honestly see Girl 2 having high self esteem and I wouldn't believe she would remain faithful. I can see Girl 1 being confident, successful, loyal, mature, and parent material. Girl 2? Not so much.
2: It gives an air of mystery
Let's face it girls. When someone sees you or you see someone else you judge them by appearance. It's not demeaning. It's not sexist. It's just how people work. When the girls are hanging out of your top and your shorts are so short they should be considered underwear it's not as exciting. You can already basically see everything. When she's standing in Wranglers or Silvers and a blouse or T-Shirt on with a beer in her hand? I know what I want to see but she's dressed conservatively so I go nuts. Mentally undressing her then dressing her back up before I go talk to her.
3: She immediately looks like you can bring her home
Get your mind out of the gutter! I mean bring her home to meet the parents. Contrary to popular belief men care about family a LOT more than we let on. Usually more than women. Having your Mother and Father approve of your girlfriend is make or break for most men. A woman who doesn't walk around half naked with her ass and tits shaking looks like a more viable candidate for passing mum and dads testing.
So how do YOU dress Jarhead? Can you live up to your own expectation?
Some of you might be thinking "He's throwing a lot of things out there and he seems to expect a lot. Can he meet his own standard?" The short answer?
You tell me :P
(Yes, yes I can meet my own standard. That's me in the picture if you couldn't tell)
Anyways guys, this is me stating my preference. I'm not trying to speak for all men or start some kind of flame war over this. Just stating my preferences and giving my reasons for having them.
Cheers!
~Jarhead
Mods: This keeps getting put in Sexual Behavior. Please put it in Guy's Behavior or Relationships when you can, thanks! ~Jarhead
What Girls & Guys Said
51 35Maybe women dress "scantily clad" often because it's really hot outside. It has nothing to do with self respect or self esteem, a lot of the time
It's not something you're supposed to agree with. You aren't supposed to take it as advice. My word it not law. Don't demonize my preference. Besides I couldn't give a fuck what Americans look like. I'm Canadian. I don't care what Americans look like or what their women prefer to wear. My preference is my own. No need to get offended.
Clearly its for the weather, that's why men show so much skin all the time. Also make up is worn because its hot outside as well right?
On those hot summer days I sometimes look at girls wearing skirts and tops showing their neck and shoulders with a bit of envy. =) At the same time they banned wearing shorts at the place I work. To be honest, I ignore that rule and started to wear shorts to work even more often but... that damn matriarchy :D
@hellionthesage I agree with you about the clothes, and that hot weather is not an excuse for wearing almost nothing, but makeup is a hobby for most of the women. We're aware that men don't like it, but makeup is fun xD
@Heera many women wear makeup because they have to in order to appear socially acceptable
Putting words into people's mouths is beneath you hellion.
You don't need to wear makeup to be socially acceptable. Where did you get that notion?
@hellionthesage have you seen men in the summer? There is a lot of skin shown by most. You are a tool
Actually you should be covered while going out in the sun... reduces the chances of sunburn and heat stroke.. just saying!
@Heera Yeah but your not wearing it inside your house by yourself, your wearing it so others see it. I'm not going to wear nice clothing out and about for me I would do it to look good and if your doing it to look good your doing it to look good in the eyes of others. And yeah I know a lot of women like their makeup, but again lets not pretend its because of some kind of desire to cake color onto your face for no particular reason, its very much for a reason. Its just when women pretend otherwise "Oh I do it for myself" which means either she is lying or she is narcissistic.
Again you make up things that are not true. How can you lie so frequently about stuff like this? We all live in the same society your not fooling anyone men do not care, in fact you will hear men frequently talking about how they don't like makeup, no one expects anything like that and you know that. Do you really think people are that stupid that having lived their entire life in this society that they are going to just believe something that is blatantly untrue?
@TakeMaker I didn't put words into any ones mouth she made a claim that is illogical and provably false, I called her out on that. You wear plunging neck lines and push up bras because you want some one to look period, their is no other reason for it what so ever. When you wear shorts where half your ass is hanging out you wear it because you want some one to look, you do not see men doing that so clearly its not because "its more comfortable" that's simply not true. Stop trying to pretend its for something completely different. Its painfully obvious just admit it and move on.
@Nothanks700 A tool in colloquial terminology means some one who is getting used for another's benefit without being able to figure out they are being used. i. e. your using the term wrong. I see men in summer wearing clothing, every once in awhile you might see a man shirtless but in general they usually wear something. I can absolutely tell you that their not wearing shorts with their asses hanging out of them. So maybe you can take your ad hominid attacks elsewhere since clearly you can't use logic or reason to express your views only insults which are not worth arguing.
@hellionthesage No, it's actually very true. I wear makeup inside the house because I like to put it on, again. Sure there are women that wear it to get more attention from guys, but believe me, they are pretty rare. Again, men don't like makeup, we know that, if it was for you we simply wouldn't wear it. I understand your point of view, but don't pretend to know more about the opposite gender than the opposite gender itself. Sure we have things we do for men but makeup is not ne of them, and there is no reason to lie about this
@hellionthesage great. You're still a tool
@Heera I'm not pretending to know more about the opposite gender then that gender (though women do that literally non stop so that aught to be directed at women (men are the ones who fully state they don't understand women)) I'm stating that if one is concealing flaws and highlighting features then logicly their is no other reason to do so accept for attention. Grooming in the animal kingdom is specificly due to to mate acquisision that's its function so when women do that and claim its only for themselves then that is illogical and counter to everything we know. In animals obsessive grooming with no intent to find a mate is viewed as a bad thing, it was in fact one of the many symptoms that occurred during the infamous "mouse utopia" experiment (things didn't end well) so when women say that it seems more like an issue then something they just do.
@Nothanks700 and your still proving my point, how sad and pathetic do you have to be to just insult some one simply because you disagree with them? You could debate what I said, you could try to point out flaws in my reasoning (not that I believe their are any but you could try) but instead you just throw out puerile insults because you have nothing else, because you can't argue back and you can't handle what was said so you attack me because you obviously are incapable of attacking my argument. I could sit here and insult you all day but what would the point be? Would it resolve anything? No, so why bother the only way to impact anything is through discussion and debate and have an open mind not a closed off mind that's to fragile to handle being questioned.
@Nothanks700 And your still using the term wrong.
@hellionthesage ok... tool
@hellionthesage I wear waaaaaaaay more revealing clothes alone in my house than outside Why? Because comfort
@hellionthesage no, usually women don't pretend that about guys. Also I trying to say that makeup is these days a form of art rather than a grooming behaviour. Especially that, again, women are aware most men don't like it. But I'm tired and I'll let you believe what you want cause I couldn't care less anymore
@hellionthesage Maybe you should consider actually hearing the other person's argument, instead of telling them they're liars. Otherwise you could have the entire conversations with yourself only. . . Actually most women do make-up for themselves. That doesn't mean that they are lying. (Although you don't seem to understand this, which is alright considering you most certainly don't wear it yourself). Secondly, not all, but a lot of times it does make women more socially acceptable. What I mean by this is: My face looks pretty much the same with and without make-up. If I chose to go out without though, people will assume I started caring less about my life and getting lazy, that I've partied hard all night, or tell me how incredibly tired I look.
@NanaXXXX First and foremost I have heard the arguments, I have heard them so many times its sickening, "oh I wear thongs and clothing that has my ass/tits hanging out of it because its more comfortable" no. That's moronic beyond belief no one believes that because its not true you know that and I know that. If she stated she wears sweat pants and a tshirt because its comfortable that's believable but not when wearing clothing that is designed, specificly designed to enhance and focus on secondary sex characteristics I. e. those that are designed specificly to get people to look at said characteristics. So that is a lie and nothing any one can say can really prove otherwise. Might as well claim that men don't like attractive women while your at it. Its a stupid argument. As for makeup the goal is accent positive features i. e. make yourself look better. Most guys don't like girls wearing a lot of makeup so where the hell it being socially expected is beyond me.
@NanaXXXX As for stating that its a lie, when you blatently tell something that is so painfully untrue then yes I'm going to have to state that its a lie. If your half naked don't tell me its not for attention, men seem to get along just fine not being half naked so clearly its not for comfort. I can telly you I have never worn shorts so small that my ass hangs out of them, or have worn shirts so low cut that you can see my nipples, nor have I worn clothing so tight that it leaves nothing to the imagination clearly the claim that this is just more comfortable is incorrect, it has a very specific goal and that is get male attention (and it works) now it may not be the males that you want but that's what it does don't bitch and whine about how your being ogled when your going out of your way to get ogled its stupid and every one knows whats happening, just own it and move on.
@hellionthesage Men also don't have such a large choice in what to wear. They still wear no shirts most of the summer (which women just cannot do - so why shouldn't women wear something more low-cut?). "I can telly you I have never worn shorts so small that my ass hangs out of them, or have worn shirts so low cut that you can see my nipples, nor have I worn clothing so tight that it leaves nothing to the imagination" Then it might be that we just surround ourselves with different people, since no one I know dresses like you've just described. You might think I am full of myself (and I could understand that), but I do have the same opinion about you, since I fail to see how someone would assume most fashion choice a woman makes would be to attract male attention. But I guess that's just having a different point of view.
@NanaXXXX I can't speak for all countries here but I'm pretty sure anyone being in public without a shirt on is considered public indecency. I can't speak for all places but that's how it is here.
@NanaXXXX Listen I don't care how women dress what I care about is the blatent lying. You dress like that because you want attention, no men do not dress in revealing clothing, yes women very much do. Its to get attention their is no way around that stop insulting men by acting as if they are too stupid to figure out that when a woman is wearing clothing that is incredibly revealing that its because its "comfortable". No one buys that because its not true. www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...-unsettling-answer.html
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@NanaXXXX Maybe you live in a place that doesn't have these things or push up bra's or all the many other products meant to make a woman look "sexy". But in the US and in most of the western world this is a reality. Again I don't care that women do it, I care about them lying about it when you literally can see it everywhere, when they make up excuses for it that are blatent lies. That's the part that irritates me the hypocrisy and the lying. I don't know how you can rationalize that to yourself but that's pretty impressive considering the overwhelming evidence.
@ThatJarHead ... for men though. In summer. @hellionthesage I guess I can see where you're coming from. Maybe I've got a different perspective to this, because I am female. I think most women on here were rather referring to a type of clothing similar to picture B in the question. "Now its possible you live in some world where women don't wear thin spandex that's frequently see through" This. Literally the only time I've seen this was in the UK amongst 18 year old, who were about to have a party night. Other than that, no girls I have met within the countries I've lived in ever chose to wore this type of clothing...
@NanaXXXX Yeah here not being fully clothed is public indecency. Men have to wear all clothes just like women. Wet nursing without a nursing blanket is considered public indecency too.
@NanaXXXX Well then perhaps these clothing styles are limited to the US, I doubt it but its possible however its common place here. As for reffering to picture B, that was his argument that is a reasonable style of dress, the comment we are on was arguing for why everything I pointed out was not "scantily clad" but for "comfort" which is what I am arguing against it is clearly not. No one has a problem with the woman wearing regular clothing, hell most don't care if she is wearing revealing clothing, the only thing that irritates me is pretending that the revealing clothing is for some reason other then to be provocative.
@hellionthesage Yo dude. I know I'm late, but I just wanted to say: It's amazing how these girls (western) will lie (or just outright deluded) until they turn to bones about this stuff. It just shows you how narcissistic and feminist our women has really become these days. They conveniently lack a shred of logic when it comes to a concept or topic that doesn't support their narcissistic ways. It's sad. Just know that you're not alone. There are level headed people out there who understand everything you're saying, women included. Don't even argue with these "princesses"
That's not what he means, and you know it.
@hellionthesage You're a legend. That's a lot of insecure women out there. And they look bad doing it. They should know that. It's about showing your heart, not your tits.
The Amish dress looks so feminine and traditional. Besides, I don't like form-fitting clothes. :P
I'd say it's far prettier than the tshirt and jeans girl/mom look.
Meh, a girl could be wearing a full length maxi dress which shows off her figure and clings to every single one of her curves. Being scantily clad is not the only way one can look 'skanky'. What a woman wears has nothing to do with how much she respects herself or whether she'll cheat or not.
At the end of the day, I'll wear what I want. I'm proud of my body and am not afraid to show it off. If I'm labeled a 'skank' for it, then so be it.
It's not something you're supposed to agree with. You aren't supposed to take it as advice. My word it not law. Don't demonize my preference. Besides I couldn't give a fuck what Americans look like. I'm Canadian. I don't care what Americans look like or what their women prefer to wear. My preference is my own. No need to get offended.
I'm not offended, I wasn't demonising your preference and I'm not American either. This is a really lazy way to silence people from expressing their views. You wrote a take, you should expect other people to share their opinions, instead of pettily copy-pasting the same response onto everyone's post -.-
I don't care about what you wear. Wear whatever you like. Simply say "I don''t agree with your take" and move on. I'm copy pasting not to silence people but to say "I don't care what you wear so quit complaining it's just my preference" getting offended or saying "I'll wear what I like you slut shamer!" Wear what you want. I don't care.
The day you find me in a button shirt and jeans looking like a bad imitation of a man ill shoot myself.
Hell no. Nothing wrong with the girl in a crochet top and shorts
There is nothing wrong with it, but it may have consequences you don't really like. Just saying :)
@Dipsy consequences? See if you become weirdo he end uo fighting. My daddy didn't raise me to be a little bitch
I just meant that people may see you as easy. just saying
@Dipsy I mean thats cool. But lol Im not.
What makes an outfit conservative?
not showing a lot of skin.
@anonman32 but what's the limit?
If I may , I think the limit for conservative out fit is like not showing your waist , not wearing short shorts , etc
@elissadido i would say that that would depend on the place, time of the year and peoples opinions. like if you are at the beach in the summer on a hot day it would be normal to wear a bikini or a bathing suit. in other situations like maybe in a professional setting it would be not so conservative to dress really revealing. also it would depend on peoples opinion of course.
I showed you what a conservative outfit would look like in the take.
So legs should be completely covered and only forearms can be shown?
Every country and culture and mindset and ideology and individual thinking is what determines what's conservative or not 😛
It's not something you're supposed to agree with. You aren't supposed to take it as advice. My word it not law. Don't demonize my preference. Besides I couldn't give a fuck what Americans look like. I'm Canadian. I don't care what Americans look like or what their women prefer to wear. My preference is my own. No need to get offended.
I had to go back to your question to remember my logic - Yeah you did a good job, I wanted to see what you would call conservative and your reasons for your preference. I am pleased to say I totally agree with you and your reasons. The more racy look may be favoured by some girls and appeal to other guys but not to me that much.
I am glad I picked this option.
I enjoyed sharing some personal knowledge as well. Thanks for the suggestion!
Everyone wears belly shirts now. Not only because of sex but because they're comfortable and super cute. Same with booty shorts. Girls don't dress "provocatively" for sex (well I sure don't at least) we dress like it because it looks much cuter and is much easier to withstand heat.
You can withstand heat without your tits and ass hanging out.
Again it's not just because of the heat we look much cuter in those clothes. I for one am not even looking for sex anytime soon I dress like it because it is visibly prettier than anything else.
It is to some men yes. Personally if I saw a woman dressed with her T & A hanging out I'd likely holler at her to put some proper clothes on but that's because I'm an asshole. The definition of cute varies. What you see as cute is different than what I see as cute. You dress to portray who you are. I'm a laid back person who doesn't really care about all that much but I'm pleased with who I am and confident as a man. Hence I dress in a T-Shirt and jeans to portray that I don't care and that I'm laid back despite my profession and carry myself at full posture with a stupid grin like the cheshire cat to put across that I'm entertaining and confident. I have a poor sense of style sure but i don't care. If I'm with a woman and she wants me to dress a certain way I'll do it. i don't care. If it makes her happy why not? As long as it isn't demeaning.
Which is the reason I don't understand why girls get so upset when their boyfriend tells them to wear something different. If a girlfriend asked me to change my outward appearance for her happiness or comfort I'd do it no questions asked. Within reason of course. That's why I don't understand why when a man asks his girlfriend to not wear things like short shorts or mini skirts she gets so offended. It's a relationship. Your job therein is to make sure the other person is happy and comfy. If that means changing your wardrobe a tad I can't see a problem with it.
I'd be fine to change my wardrobe but to what end? I know I'm supposed to change in a relationship but there are changes that are big. Could I now not wear shorts? Not wear anything that shows my belly? Even a tank top? There's no stopping what a guy could determine provocative! I have some guy messaging me asking me about my sexy feet or something. Could I not show them either?
Well if some random guy asks you about your feet you probably shouldn't show them your feet no lol Change anything that's within reason. If you're wearing something that's a little too flattering and he asks you to change then change. If you're just wearing skinny jeans and he asks you to change that is just irrational. I shouldn't have to explain this. Compromise. Moderation. Balance. Change. These are the things needed in a relationship. If a guy or girl asks you to change your wardrobe then do it. If he asks you to dress like a Nun? That's different. I really shouldn't have to explain this. it's all just a matter of protect yourself from bad things. if he gets out of hand put a stop to it. If he's just asking you to dress a bit less revealing? That's fine.
Psh # yolo, naw but in all seriousness I can't dress conservatively. It just doesn't make logical sense to me
I like crop tops and mini skirts. My husband likes when I wear them too. I've always dressed this way, but It is nice that he appreciates my pastel goth / hippie style.
Like most women, I don't care what a guy thinks, I dress for myself and depending on the weather. If he's not into it? His loss.
That is a fair way of looking at it. I don't understand your logic entirely but you're entitled to your opinion.
You don't understand my logic? That I can dress how I want and if that means a man isn't into me then it's his loss? Cause it is. I'd rather he not waste my time actually, I dress for myself, I don't dress for any man. Men do not control my personal choices and I don't change who I am for a man. If that means I'm single then so be it.
I don't understand the logic of dressing for yourself no. That hits me as a bit narcissistic. I don't dress the way I do to look in the mirror and go "damn I look good" so I don't understand the logic of dressing for yourself. Dress to look nice, be comfy, or for an occasion. That's how I see it.
You still dress for yourself though? You dress for comfort? Is that not dressing for yourself? Is dressing to look nice not dressing for yourself? Everyone dresses the way they dress because of preference. I wear the clothes I wear for comfort, to feel confident and to express my personality. I don't think that makes me a narcissist just because I happen to not give a shit if a guy does or doesn't like my dress or shirt or whatever?
You're missing the point and you're just another butt hurt girl who thinks I'm trying to dictate what they wear. I'm going to block you now so good bye and good luck.
When women put on clothes I don't think they're trying to attract guys like you so you just wasted your time typing all this up.
Lmfaooo that was mean
@vnmc1231231111 Lmao 😂 His mytake was mean
I'm not meaning to demonizing your preference. I'm saying when people get dressed and try to look cute it's not for your kind. Canadian or American. Lol
stop it already @PrettyBama :-D
All I was doing was sharing what my preference is and the reason it is that way. If you don't like it there's no need to be antagonistic. You don't like it? Move along.
I'm not trying to be antagonistic. I'm just telling why this is a futile mytake.
Hmm.. that was rude.
According to this poll: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2063049-what-take-should-i-write this is what people wanted to see so this is what I wrote.
People claim I'm mean so I'm not gonna say anything else lol
They're saying you're mean because you're jumping at my throat when I've done nothing wrong. I was stating my preference. That's it. You have no idea how I am as a person and from what I hear I'm an attractive man. I get plenty women just they aren't my type. They don't line up with this preference so I tell them to piss off. You don't know me. Don't pass judgement. That's why they're saying you're mean. You're insulting me for no reason.
Personally I don't care that's why I didn't take offence to it. You're just some random girl on the Internet. Why would I care what you think? I'm sure when men dress up they aren't trying to attract judgmental women like you either. I just don't voice that because it is unnecessary and I don't know who you are as a person so I can't judge.
"from what I hear I'm an attractive man" 😂😂😂😂😂 "I'm sure when men dress up they aren't trying to attract judgmental women like you either" Oh but they are 💁🏾😂😂😂😂😂
Alright Ma'am. I can see here to start shit. You aren't worth my time. I'm blocking you now. Goodbye.
And everyone is entitled to their own preferences! Hope you find whatever it is that works for you!
Hmm. Why shouldn't we be able to wear shorts when it's hot outside without being seen as someone you can just take home for the night?
And confident girls often show off more, insecure girls try to hide their body.
I don't know what it's like in your country, maybe girls don't dress like girl needs 2. Here in Sweden almost every girl dresses like that; until the age of 27+. No one thinks it's slutty. I just hate slut shaming.
when everyone above the age of 10 has had 10 sexual partnerts iam pretty sure no one is going to shame anyone
It's not something you're supposed to agree with. You aren't supposed to take it as advice. My word it not law. Don't demonize my preference. Besides I couldn't give a fuck what Americans look like. I'm Canadian. I don't care what Americans look like or what their women prefer to wear. My preference is my own. No need to get offended.
@IceCubedude Lol. Age of consent here is 15. @Asker : "... whatAmericans look like" , did you even read what I wrote?😂
My age? What the fuck has my age got to do with it? You're the one acting like a toddler, by saying something and then covering your ears and start singing.
My preference is my own. I don't care what your opinion is. You don't like it? Then carry on. My preference doesn't impact you at all.
you're 16 stop acting like you know anything , you are literally trying to make guys like what you want them to like but it doesn't happen that way sweety, guys like what they like and soon you will realize that the kind who like their women to dress slutty are not quality themselves to begin with.
@IceCubedude damn dude. A little harsh much?
just telling the truth the way i see it, guys who dont care about what their women dress are usually players, unemployed not to mention personality wise are not exactly charming... the guys who have a good job, are respectful, attractive and decent and dress nice want similiar women and thats why most people marry those who come from a similiar background with similiar views.
Sure. But my age is still irrelevant.
I wrote that to @asker. To @IceCubeDude, You have absolutely no fucking idea who I am and what I've seen and been doing in my life. How old are you? 21? That's the age of my ex boyfriend. Don't be so cocky and act like you know so much more about relationships and how guys think. You have no idea how guys think where I come from. And you're judgmental, narrow minded, and immature. At least @asker/mytakeowner is reasonable.
Well thank you @Swedgirl it's @ThatJarHead not @takeowner or whatever you were putting just for future reference. I'm not tell women how they should dress. Only that I prefer women who dress a certain way. I don't care what anyone in particular wears but if you're wearing short shorts and a low cut tank top it's likely you aren't going to get attention from actual men but rather the playboys and the unemployed players. And to be fair @IceCubedude likely does know more than you about how men think as he is a man. Not saying you're wrong but it is likely guys know more about guys than girls.
Well, he has no clue what guys in my culture think as he and you are American and Canadian. Im pretty sure I know more about how European/Nordic/Swedish guys think than the two of you do. I'll end it here, don't have much more to say and I know I won't convince you anyway, and you won't convince me either.
Again, I wasn't saying you're wrong. Just pointing out his logic.
in rl face to face girls dont act like that very few do actually fight you the most just listen and try to learn more about guys to attract them in a better way but of course it is the internet and every single person on this site thinks he's a sex/relationship god... iam no expert and iam 22 by the way not 21 but as @Asker said iam a guy and i know much more about guys and their preferences than you, not to mention iam the kind of guy who actually has girls giving him lots of attention and admiration, and i notice every single detail unlike many guys , iam not here to brag or anything just telling the truth the way it is. you are not obligated to follow our advice but if you have been here for a while then you know that plenty are asked by girls who wonder why guys dont take them seriously, never approach them for something serious and just for sex, and how their hot boyfriend who never complains about anything has be unemplyed for years and can't spell his name.
@IceCubedude babahhah. "In real life very few girls fight you they just wanna learn how to attract guys". That's a pretty screwed up view on girls I must say. I myself is a girl and just as you think you know everything about guys' preferences I sure know most girls wouldn't want to be with a guy with those kinds of views. Just look at all pink opinions here. Don't write here then, go answer those questions instead and write to girls who actually want your advice. "Not to brag" like you say, I don't have issues with getting nice, intelligent and attractive guys who respect me either.
if you think you know guys better than a guy then good luck you're destined to a life full of misunderstandings and disappointments. as for your statement about girls avoiding guys like me, i have to disagree with you they prove over and over again that what they truly want is this, a guy to lead and let them be girls, they want someone with this kind of mentality it works and keeps working with lots of guys, i can easily express these views and still have girls like me , why? because i have learned from my mistakes, never ever ask a guy how to treat her, it doesn't work , girls will always say something and act the opposite of what they say leading to many frustrations amongst men.
The pink opinions here are all chauvinistic crap. You wear what you want. Not everything is about women you know. If anything this was to explain my purpose for having my preference. The fact that most women who commented took offence is their own problem and just shows that some people need to play the victim. If I wanted to insult you I would have. All you have to say is "i don't agree" and move along. You don't need to put on a big theatrical performance saying "women can dress how they want it's not your place to tell us what we can and cannot wear!" I didn't say that so quit. The point you're arguing has no place here and is just plain stupid.
It's plain stupid to just say "I disagree" without explaining your point of view. And if you two can't handle it then that's YOUR problem. I'm not going to reply on this take anymore. I feel like we're changing the subject and I don't have the time nor energy to sit and argue with two internet strangers who refuse to listen to anyone with other opinions than themselves. Have a good day. @ThatJarHead @IceCubeDude
You don't have an opinion. Your opinion is "my country is different so shut up"
Nah. Your opinion in that case is "every country works the way my country does and I'm too narrow minded to think of any other culture or point of view."
Some people in my country have sex in the middle of the day in their car infront of a kindergarten i dont think it makes right but they do it anyway, we are stating a preference shared among men, and even in sweden your men are still men (I sure hope from what i hear theyre closer to girls) so what we say should applay to a large number of them, also keep in mind guys will respect you, treat you nicely and act cool around you til those panties drop then good luck getting him to commit, we're not dumb we know if a girl is easy she is not girlfriend material, and girls who dress a certain way tend to be easier than others, . this is not an advice so dont even read it if you dont want to.
My opinion is my own. I'm not sitting here insulting people who don't agree with it. My opinion is you're a brat who needs to be spanked by her parents more often. I'm going to block you now so that you will stop antagonizing the good people who read my posts. Good day and good luck.
I really like this Take. It's a nice way to show young women that you can be sexy+conservative. There's nothing wrong with covering up, you don't have to be half-dressed to be sexy. I wear maxi dresses in the summer and my boyfriend loves the look of it on me and they're pretty conservative, but it's also hot. In the winter I wear jeans with tunics and boots. It's conservative, fashionable and also very trendy. Ladies, lets stop letting these men get a free show already.
I'll say again, this isn't something you're meant to agree or disagree on. It's merely my preference.
Okay good.
One thing to remember is that "conservative dress" has changed in definition quite dramatically over the years. :P
Me, I like a woman who cares about her appearance and how she presents herself to the outside world (as we ALL should), and I want her to look nice without being slutty. That whole balance thing again. ;)
Okay we've established your preferencd, thats fine. I have a question though
Would you consider this conservative or showing too much?
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Keep in mind, that is accepted attire at a semi-formal function (black tie event). Although naturally one could wear it simply out shopping too, getting a coffee etc.
It's not too revealing. A bit high class for my person tastes and I wouldn't call it conservative but I wouldn't see a problem with it at a black tie event no.
Thats a fair enough point of view. Was just trying to see exactly where your boundaries were, since obviously there are different settings and climates to consider.
Anyway the reason you rustled so many female jimmies is becuase you picked a conservstive outfit that very 'hardware store' ish. Few women want to dress like that. Here is an example of conservative that women do like, nothing special, jeans, boots and a shirt. But the style of them makes all the difference.
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Women are all thinking this is advice. I'm just blocking the women who think it is at this point because they're just dumb and obviously didn't read the whole take. I didn't choose the example because I'm personally attracted to that women but because it gets the point across and the other pictures I chose G@G wouldn't accept.
its from fitting #asker. though you didn't like form fitting.
Good mytake, but wrong title, you actually like girls who dress casually, not conservatively.
I often wear t-shirt, jeans and sneakers, but that's obviously not conservative.
This is conservative way of dressing for women:
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Personally, I never liked conservative clothes, for any gender.
You missed the whole point dear. It's not a matter of the definition. It's a matter of what I see as conservative.
Ok, but you could call it modest or something, cause people who wear casual clothes are usually not conservative ;)
The title is unchangable once you post otherwise I'd take your advice :)
Ok, cool :D
I don't really care if women dress conservatively or not.
good take!
i dress covered lol
Be prepared for the swarm of pink dislikes dear.
to each their own bruh
20 years ago, conservative means not wearing jeans because those are considered men's clothes.
I believe the correct term is modestly dressed rather than conservative. Or simply practical.
And now jeans are considered conservative because you ass isn't hanging out when you wear them. But this should not be taken as advice.