Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Orgasms are great but some girls struggle to have them. Usually the guy gets the blame for being crap in bed or having a tiny dick. But a lot of the time it's her fault. So relax and enjoy the poppy guide to the female orgasm.
A lot of the graphs in this mytake come from
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5087699/#!po=5.50847
Which is a long term study on female orgasms. It's worth a read to see how much you agree with the survey results.
HOW EASY IS IT TO ORGASM
Google claims less than 50% of girls can orgasm through sex. However a closer look at figures shows it varies not only by age group but by when the survey was done. Looking at the graph it seems every year less and less women under 34 are orgasming. MILFS have a higher orgasm rate which explains a lot while teen girls and grannies seem to be getting a raw deal. So if you want to orgasm discuss with mother and not granny.
IT'S HER FAULT FOR NOT SLEEPING AROUND
The more skilled a woman is in bed the more likely she is to orgasm. Therefore if guys want wives who orgasm easily they should choose experienced women over virgins. The important thing to note is it's real sex experience that counts not masturbation, so get out there girls and get as much dick as you can, your husband will thank you for it.
WOMEN DON'T ORGASM EASIER BY MASTURBATION
It's a common myth that we all cum easily with a few wiggles of a finger but can't get off no matter how hard he tries. The truth is for most women there's no difference. So ditch the dildo and get dicked.
THE VAGINA ISN'T INSENSITIVE
I hear this all the time, guys think it's a dead tube we feel nothing in and only the clitoris matters. Not surprisingly this argument tends to come from "smaller" guys. Yes the clitoris is very important but don't neglect the rest of the vagina
MASTURBATION DOESN'T TRAIN YOU HOW TO ORGASM
We're often told that girls have to learn what feels good through masturbation so we can guide guys to give us orgasms. The fact is even if you never masturbate or your fingers always white and wrinkly it has little effect on sex orgasm potential.
AGE YOU STARTED MASTURBATION DOESN'T MATTER
Similarly it doesn't matter when you first started masturbating. You might have spent half the night exploring or slept in boxing glove it has little influence on your later orgasm potential.
IF YOU CAN'T ORGASM TRY CHEATING
Biologically women choose longterm parters for their "good genes" and their potential to support a family, I.e. their financial ability. Of course other factors come into play like political and religious beliefs, shared interests etc. All of which water down the gene factor. The problem is a guy maybe a great provider but if his genes aren't up to much it's worth cheating so your kids aren't held back by them.
Now this might sound awful but biologically it makes sense and women are programmed to cheat. Now there's a down side to cheating, you might get caught. Luckily mother nature has a solution, you will orgasm faster and easier with a good looking stranger. It's how nature allows us to maximise our pregnancy potential in short sneaky quickies.
HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS
Remember how I said only real sex counts when it comes to learning how to orgasm? Well there's no better way than getting in some practice than with one night stands.
Guys vary enormously not only in size but in stamina, style, and ability. When a guy just wants to unload and go it's up to YOU to learn how to orgasm quickly. Once you've learnt you can guide men better in bed.
THE BIGGEST SEX ORGAN IS THE MIND
That's why it's important not to drop us on the head and why safe sex means wearing a crash helmet.
OK that's a joke (I have to point that our for some of you lot) but it's true. The wrong mindset will kill your ability to orgasm and simply learning to let go will vastly up your chances. This is why real sex is so important, it builds your self confidence so you can let go when it comes rather than fighting it out of embarrassment.
So there you go, stop whinging you can't orgasm and just get more practice, there's plenty of guys willing to help.
What Girls & Guys Said
21 54I do somewhat agree. My girlfriend told me that me talking to her during helped calm her and helped her relax leading up to her orgasms. I had no idea before that women are constantly overthinking during sex it’s crazy
Great MyTake. I ddin;t know a lot of this stuff. I always thought the female orgasm was just automatic and happened every time we had sex.
Nah some dudes just suck at sex and care more about their own pleasure then to learn about womens body’s and how to please them.
And I really think telling people that having a bunch of sex and cheating on their partners is stupid ass advice. It doesn’t even make sense. Even if a woman is really experienced in bed and has had a lot of partners, if the man she’s sleeping with isn’t putting in the effort himself, that what difference would that make?
that’s just dumb af!
I honestly have never had sex without my partner coming at least once. This is out of 35-40 different I've read that only a small % of women are capable- anatomically- of coming just from fucking. Those that do seem to have cultivated the enjoyment of getting their g-spot massaged which is stimulated by fucking but many feel like they will pee because ag-spot orgasm starts with the same sensation.
Another reason is that what keeps arousing a woman changes as hey get more turned. Just starting most can only handle a minimum of friction on their clit. As they get more turned on they can take much more sensation including direct contact with their clit. S I lost my virginity at age 13 and even then knew enough to go down on her first which she loved and of course made her much wetter allowing her to enjoy fucking sice she was wet with her cum.
I am not making any claims to being the world's greatest lover, I just happen to think that an attractive woman aroused and coming is on of my biggest turn- ons. Frankly everything else can be accomplished just as easily as staying home and jerking off to porn. The main thing I didn't know about with the first few lovers were multiple orgasms. When I first slept with a girl who could come anywhere from 8-12 times it was like going to disney world. I'm not sure why some women can ride through the deliciously oversensitized post orgasm feeling but when my first came she gave no indication that she was done for the evening and was capable of coming about 10 times. Amazingly she told me that each one after the first was much easier to attain and was more intense than any of the previous a guy who gets turned on by a woman during orgasm - or esp. edging her right on the brink, it was a wet dream cum true.
Anyway, just one guys thoughts on the subject.
Interesting read.
The thing your missing about good providers and cheating is that good providers especially if they're not ideal physical specimens outwardly tend to be pretty intelligent and will almost certainly catch you. If they do there goes the gravy train.
Tantric yoga/sex is another way to figure it out without hoeing about. But to each their own.
If she feels safe she's gonna cum
It seems like my wife already knew all this.🤔
Decent take except for the promiscuity part. Granny doesn’t orgasm as much because she’s gotten older. That’s nature. MILFS have no real choice but to sleep around if they have a promiscuous mindset and it takes it’s toll on their bodies. I bet when MILF reaches the same age as traditional Granny, the contrast will be strikingly in Granny’s favor.
You should get practice. But you only need one dick. Not a thousand.
Mother nature is more clever than you think. Word gets around. Humans talk. They know who the cheaters and backstabbers are. That too is built into our brains. So, you can try to outrun the rumor mill and leave town if the community shuns you, but that’s more of your time and resources. And the new communities will be suspicious of you if you come to them covered in tattered rags and drenched in semen.
White and wrinkly fingers? What the actual fuck? Do you hate your skin color? Why?
why does society keep seeing things as fault based, like being single, they think there's a fault for that, seeing things as faults doesn't help anyone, it only makes people feel more insecure than they already feel
Hehehr
The formula (to keep things runnin'): keep being interested and be willing to explore eachother. Learn yourself and teach your partner without using words:Acta, non verba. Docendo discitur.
I don't think so at all, whether it's some sort of mental or physical cause, it just means that I have to try harder. Maybe more foreplay before sex, more emotional, mental or romantic buildup or talking about what she likes and where she likes to be touched. Watching her masturbate can also be very helpful too. I had a previous girlfriend that had problems orgasming and we talked about it quite a bit. She was the victim of rape in college and so she did have problems orgasming from any type of sex most of the time. I think opening up about it to me helped quite a bit, and one day we decided to do mutual masturbation. I think doing this and opening myself up a bit to her and also seeing how and where she enjoyed touching herself was beneficial in a big way. I think she was able to heal a bit of her mental and emotional scars a bit and trust me more, and it wasn't as much of a problem after a month or two.
Encouraging people to cheat makes your whole post look like a joke. Cheating, One night stands, sleeping around? Is this a personal experience that has actually helped you?
Worst advice ever. Telling people to be whores. Shame in you.
Aaaannnd girls like you are why every smart guy will get any kids paternity tested ASAP, so the cheating hoes get busted and kicked to the curb.
I'll be totally honest. In my whole life... I have made about 3 women orgasm through sex. With using my hands.. I made every one of them have.. vaginal orgasm isn't easy... just my opinion
Ok, so I listen to a lot of erotic audios. The thing that make these easy is they walk yo7 through the act.
They say what feels good, what to do next, ask if you like what they do, snd do what you say you like. All scripted of course there isn't any interaction but communicate for God's sake. I always said I would learn her body and play her like a tuba but she's gotta let me know whats good and what isn't for all I know she could get off by having her small toe wiggled.
How poppy justify her behaviour in a post.
Ooh, sensitive topic. I have a lot to say about it, but first - you don't happen to have seen me on a bus 300 recently (29th Dec 22, just before noon)?
I am looking for that girl from the bus
It’s because most guys get defensive if you try to guide or teach them. They’ll get frustrated or give up; making you feel just shitty
I agree with some of the points and not others. For example, I don’t think not masturbating and exploring yourself isn’t the answer. You need to know what you like otherwise you will still get stuck. Orgasm is a climax of the physical and mental stimulation that’s been built up. Going out and cheating won’t help you achieve better orgasms. That’s a funny sentiment tho. But here is my final take on your MyTake (and the most controversial one): it’s not my fault a woman orgasms, right. Nor is it for me to make sure or care if you do. Let me explain, if a woman doesn’t do her sue diligence to figure out what she like to make herself orgasm and consistently. It’s not my problem to figure it out for you. That’s her problem. May sound insensitive but it’s just facts. If she communicates and says she wants my help in figuring it out. Sure. But if she doesn’t cum, doesn’t communicate and says I’m shit in bed because she can’t get a nut off, it’s not my problem or my worry.