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This is for people who are the opposite, who aren't happy with it but have an... addiction.
Alright so let me start off by saying, yes, straight people do like transexuals.. It sounds complicated but let me explain how I ended up liking them.
Manly figures did not, and do not look appealing to me, period.I love a woman's figure, but in lesbian pornography they use objects such as .. strap ons right? When I watched this, it was fine but I only had 2 problems.
1. A lot of girls pretend to be enjoying themselves in porn, because they really just do it for the money.
So when I was watching it, I could spot when a girl wasn't really enjoying it.. When she's doing too much over every little thing. When I watch pornography I like for the people I'm watching to actually enjoy themselves and not just put on a show for people who are watching.
2. It wasn't realistic. They had purple, silver, pink strap ons and the girl with the strap was moaning as if it was real or something. You know she really couldn't feel anything and thats another reason you could tell they were just putting on a show.. The other girl might've felt something but the girl with the strap was really just faking it all.
So here's what i did: I discovered transexual pornography. In my mind, I see a female figure. So I basically see lesbians having sex, but they can actually feel it. They can't fake anything because ... well nothing's fake, or strapped on. They're really orgasming, and you can see it.
But here's the problem with that.
But you soon come to realize... women.. don't have male genitalia.. at least women who were born women. Only men have male genitalia, or transexual women. So you start questioning yourself.
"Am i gay?"
"Am i bi sexual?"
"What am i?"
You get confused and start wondering what you are. I can't speak for everyone because everyone's different. But no, you're not gay. You're perfectly straight. You just like lesbian pornography so much, you take it to the next level. You actually try to see if a male figure starts to look appealing to you and it doesn't (for some), but you still like the genitalia so it's so confusing.
But actually I got so deep into this thinking I was turning gay that I looked online and there was a survey saying, gay men DON'T like transexuals, they only find male figures attractive. Although, bisexual men, pansexual men, and straight men do. So at the very least, you're not gay.. you may be bi or something but not gay. Other than that, you're a straight male who has a fetish for penis, that's all.
You're not gay.
A woman liking other womens breast doesn't make her a lesbian. She just likes breasts.
So you can keep watching the transexual pornography, and don't feel guilty. If something gives you pleasure.. then.. give in to it, you only live once why hold back all that pleasure give in to it...I did and I'm happy with myself.
Also, if you find penises attractive on male, female or anyone, believe it or not, it really doesn't make you gay. There's a high chance you may be bi, but gay? No. You still find women attractive, so you're not gay. Gay men don't find women attractive, well sexually attractive. It just means you like penis which is fine. Put it this way, how girls like big butts on guys... we all know that, but majority or girls have bigger butts then men, doesn't make them lesbian.
Some guys like penises on women, but.. majority of penises are on men. Doesn't make you gay
I hope this helped. I wish I was told this when I first started watching transexuals and penises. If you have any questions or something you want to talk and are too embarassed or something, just tell me to message you and I will. I looked a lot of this up, so I know a lot about it.
Men liking transexuals is a lot more common than you think, and its nothing to be ashamed of or worried about. And women, if you found out your man has a thing for transexuals and are worried, you can ask me to message you and I will or I'll tell you here it doesn't matter. But life's too short. Do what you love doing to what you love doing it to.
What Girls & Guys Said
21 41I dont believe there is such thing as being bisexual, you either like a man or a woman how can you be attracted to both genders? Fo rme that is the person is confused and disoriented.
Maybe you need to meet bisexuals and learn something. I have a bisexual friend. He's perfectly normal, intelligent and hardworking. There's nothing wrong with him. He likes both men and women. He can have serious, loving and intimate relationships with both men and women. He's in a loving relationship with a woman now and he has dated men in the past.
"how can you be attracted to both genders?" Why not? I like both chocolate AND vanilla ice cream ! How can it be? Why can't you love two different almost opposite things?
@JuicyBrain For me therei s no such things. If you were to choose between the 2 you will always have t pick one not 2
Maybe you can't picture yourself being like that, that doesn't mean it doesn't exist or that it is impossible...
"For me therei s no such things. If you were to choose between the 2 you will always have t pick one not 2" The sentence doesn't really makes sense. If you have to choose one between two things, then of course, you have to choose duh! If you like both vanilla AND chocolate then you still have to choose once you order an ice cream cone. Unless you have two scoops. Then you don't have to choose, you can have both. Which is also true in a relationship. There are couples out there with more than 2 individuals. It is not really common, but it exists. The fact that you have to choose one is only because you are either limiting yourself or your partner is. It is not impossible to have both at the same time. Look at all those people who have tried threesomes. Time to open your mind my friend. There is more variety in this world than you seem to think.
@JuicyBrain I know there are rans, lesb gays and bi out there in the world is not that I know such things does not exist, simply that for me im heterosexual all the way
Ah, then I misunderstood you. Have a nice day !
Wanting a dick makes you gay.
i already have one specify what you mean
If you want a penis, like to look at a penis or if you think about someone else's penis other than your own you are totally gay.
penis is a penis what if girls naturally had penises and guys didn't then id be straight for liking penises but penises re just organs
But women don't have penises. We live in a world where only men have penises and women have vaginas. No point in playing the what if game.
Life is what if That's all life is Even after life is what if
It's a weird concept to explain
The best way would be to flip the switch and talk about trans men (guys with vaginas)
The implication would be that if you're attracted to a "guy with a vagina" you're still gay... but it's really a woman?
It's a catch-22. If you date a trans woman, you're gay because she has a dick, but if you date a trans man, you're gay because he LOOKS like a man, even though he's still biologically a woman
No. It's NOT a "catch 22." A catch 22 exists ONLY when there is no viable option. In our world there is. You can go with a girl who looks like a girl and who is blessed with a vagina. There are lots of them around.
@Intraluminal What I have to say has nothing to do with dating trans vs dating normal women
It's about dating trans vs if people see you as gay or straight for doing it. It's about how you can be seen as straight to others if you're dating someone who's TRANS. In that case it is most definitely a catch-22
It seems like people do whatever they can to shame people as much as possible, like they use the biology argument to still see trans women (MTF) as men, but when it comes to trans men (FTM) they use the external appearance argument even when they're biologically a woman
It's crab mentality at its finest
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Choose one logic mindset. Either you look on the outside, or you look into the biology
I was referring ONLY to this part of your statement: "It's a catch-22. If you date a trans woman, you're gay because she has a dick, but if you date a trans man, you're gay because he LOOKS like a man, even though he's still biologically a woman." SPECIFICALLY, I was referring to your use of the term "Catch 22."
@Intraluminal I put my use of it in context I don't necessarily share OP's sentiments. I just don't agree with the logic people use to call him gay on every corner
He's attracted to dick. That's pretty much the definition, unless you're a girl, in which case it's NOT gay. The thing is, there's nothing WRONG with him being gay, but it is what it is.
@Intraluminal There seems to be a misconception here. There's a difference between liking a trans woman DESPITE them having a dick, and liking her BECAUSE she has a dick If a man doesn't give a shit whether or not she has one, he's still straight. He's attracted to her female form and beauty, and is willing to work with whatever she has. You can spout skeleton, chromosomes and genitals all you want, but that's not what you'll see when you look at her. If a man likes her BECAUSE she has one, then he's essentially a tranny-chaser, and probably gay. I've read articles on tranny-chasers and they're probably gay
The OP clearly states..."eventually you start developing a craving for penis." Gay or not gay?
@Intraluminal In that case, it's pretty gay. He likes them because they have one
The definition of all the orientations, is being SEXUALLY attracted to whoever you like. So... you aren't straight if you like them. Have to disagree.
You are bisexual and thats nothing t be ashamed of
but im not i dont find men attractive
Rejoin reality. There are no chicks with dicks, there are just guys with tits!
wich doesn't make you gay, if you were gay... you wouldn't want the tits there they'd be unappealing to you
If you were straight you wouldn't want the dick, either, lol
dick isn't a male its an organ liking an organ doesn't make you gay doesn't matter who its on, its an organ
"There are no chicks with dicks only dudes with tits" Ted 2?
No. Liking a Steinway organ doesn't make you gay, but liking DICK does.
You trying to convince yourself or us?
Why not both
Trans and hetero don't mix. Trans can't be hetero, finito.
You have to admit you are at least curious. You wouldn't be turned on by a transsexual if there was no penis there. That means you are at least a little attracted to the male figure.
its not the male figure im attracted to actually i only like transexxuals if they have big breast if they are flast chested its not appealing but curious isn't an invalid statement
You keep telling yourself that lol...
its research
I think you're just confused. Liking the dick on a "woman" is the most unheterosexual thing ever.
I'm attracted to the feminine body and voice. If she looks like a woman and has the voice of a woman, then I'm down, no matter what parts she has down under.
Fuck, I'd suck a tranny dick if I could.
Some are hotter than regular girls.
some yeah
It's NOT ok to like transexuals. Faggots are faggots. There is no such thing as "gender change".
I am not attracted to transwomen at all. No straight man is gonna date a woman with a penis.
nah im good they can go screw themselves
"Some guys like penises on women"
Yeah the guys with a penis fetish. Sexuality is plastic and exposure to porn can give you a dick fetish. Why do you think blowjob porn is one of the most watched genres by men? Why do straight men look at straight porn with big dicked porn stars? That dick fetish is being molded into their sexuality right there in the process.
Due to the hormones they take, they don't really get erections, it becomes nonfunctional, the dick i mean (eg Sarina Valentina) and very few like a dick on themselves, plus they, mostly want to bottom and not top.
Damn, she has a long dick.
Lol...
no, you're gay... duuh.
who is that on your profile picture