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Every single society has erotic depictions of women in media, art, entertainment etc. Whether it be a Victoria's Secret model, or even a simple fast food advertisement that depicts women in an erotic manner. Men are never depicted like this, why?
Well, because it's assumed that nobody wants to see a partially clothed man showing erotic mannerisms. It's been stated by many women that men don't look as good as women do, especially naked. I can't think of one instance when a man is depicted in such a way.
https://dumbscientist.com/archives/are-women-really-the-fairer-sex
We straight men get extremely nervous around random beautiful women because we find women physically attractive even if we don't know them. Women don't feel nervous around men because according to various people and so-called experts, women don't find random men visually attractive. So why would they be nervous around men? Even if it's a handsome man, she still won't find him attractive. She needs that infamous emotional connection.
When women call men "sexy", unfortunately it's not based on his looks. They only find his personality, mannerisms and scent attractive. I hate that so much because it's deceiving. The farthest they seem to go with visuals is to find his smile and jawline attractive, nothing else. They don't seem to find the rest of a man's face or body attractive because according to various "experts", men have no beauty.
Even straight women find women better looking than men. To them, even the most unattractive woman is still more attractive (physically/visually) than the most handsome man in the world. When's the last time you noticed a woman ogling or checking out a random man on a street? Oh that's right, it probably never happens. People say; "they are more subtle about it" or "women have better peripheral vision than men" and while it's true that women have better peripheral vision, I'm not sure if they use it to check men out.
We straight men get so happy when a random woman flirts with us; women on the other hand, will feel offended or creeped-out. They will say, "ugh get away pervert" or "stop looking at me". It doesn't really matter if he is considered handsome by other guys. This is why I wait for women to make the first move.
Something else I just loathe is how a woman needs to know a man to be sexually aroused by him. Women don't get turned on by looking at a random man in swimming trunks. Even the media goes along with this; commercials and movies show men checking out women in two piece swimsuits while the women don't even care if a guy is shirtless, just like in real life. Here is a picture of what I think of this infamous emotional connection.
While I'm not sure if one gender has better-looking bodies and faces, people sure like to think that women are more aesthetically appealing than men. Don't forget a lot of women use beauty products like makeup to make themselves more pleasing to the eye. I'm a straight man so I wonder if that's why I don't think men are pleasing to the eye.
While I can still appreciate both genders as a piece of art, I still think women are more beautiful. It just seems that women only care about what men can do with their bodies more than how men look. I don't want to date a woman that only likes me for my personality or what I can do for her. I want her to like me for how I look as well. I'm still skeptical that women even find men attractive (physical/visual).
What Girls & Guys Said
19 26As a man, I don't care.
Can you stop hating on women already. Just because no woman Let you put your Dick in her, doesn't mean they all suck. It is you who is the suckey one sir. It's so easy to blame someone else, or heck, half of earth's population for your problems. But you and you alone are to blame. If you'd spend half the time you spent writing this take on actually working on yourself, you'd get laid more often.
I'm not hating women white knight.
The reason why I haven't gotten laid yet is because I'm too nervous to flirt. If you want to be a white knight then that's your problem. I think you're the one that called me ugly on one of my earlier takes.
White knight? Seriously? Man what kind of pussy are you? You're too nervous to flirt? Bullshit. Grow some balls or be forever alone. And I'm 'the' one? With your attitude I doubt I'd be the only one.
Do you realize how often women accuse men of being creeps just for talking to them? Of course you don't. It's called taking precautions, I'm sure you know nothing about that. White knights are laughing stock.
Let me guess, you don't know what a white knight is. A white knight is a man that always defends women in conflicts without knowing anything. They betray their own gender.
I have to wonder, how did you become this... thing? This pathetic bundle of bitterness? Just because you're a puss and the ladies don't like you because of it? Trust me, if anyone's a laughing stock, it's you. Of course I know nothing about your so called precautions, because girls never find me creepy. But I can understand why they would think so about you. And I'm not defending women, I'm confronting you. Because you are wrong on so many levels, and you just keep posting. You seriously think that will make girls like you more?
Typical white knight, I am actually respected by many women and men. You're not the one that's confronting me, I'm confronting you!
All you do is defend women and yet you deny it. Believe me, guys like you are laughing stock. I'm actually very polite and I also have morals.
Throw your morals away. That's when people really start to like you. You're not respected by anyone. You're a pathetic basement dweller. And of course you're super duper polite. Hating on women is so polite.. you're such a weirdo dude.
It is you that needs to grow balls, I have balls. You're the kind of man that doesn't care about men, you focus too much on women. If a man suffers an injustice you laugh, if a woman suffers a injustice you show concern. You expect people to respect your biased point of view? Only those that are like you will respect such a preposterous mentality.
Hahaha! "Basement dweller" how original. All you do is throw insults, clearly you're too stubborn to admit that you are wrong.
You can stop responding with your bitterness. Have a nice life. As if that's possible with your attitude 😂
It's you that insulted me first, all I'm doing is being defensive. I don't like conflict, I like to keep things civil.
Are you done ranting yet😆?
Women dress better, smell better, they have boobs, they have ass, they are better at accessorizing.
Well having boobs and big ass on man would look ridiculous, men have different beauty standards, in many areas, like being tall and muscular, but having an pretty face is good for both sexes.
@Berethor Women are tall, too. And, muscular if you're into that.
I can be into that to some extent, but like most men, I am not willing to be with a woman who is taller then me and/or more muscular then me, so it's not the same for women, also men tend to be more taller and muscular as part of their gander, that's why it's seen as manly, very tall women is much more rare then very tall men, and the same goes for women with a lot of muscle mass, it's naturally harder for women to get more muscular, because of being smaller and because women have much less testosterone.
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@Berethor Ok great. Go write on your own post, please.
Remember... looks = personality.
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So a guy like this can still be hot?
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I think you missed the point of the chart. The better looking you are, the higher your personality gets rated.
Ah, now I understand.
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No, I just worry a lot.
Yooooo why the downvote? I'm cryinggggggg
Because that face is creepy on the meme is creepy😰.
*That face on the meme is creepy.
Wow are u for ceral? this is all 100% bs i known girl who wouldn't date a guy unless he had 6 pack abes.. shit i got co workers who check man out. girls do find man attractive but not many wouldn't date him just base on that only has to be a emotional connection as will. Its just that girls bodys look better
Men are never depicted erotically? Where did you get that?
I don't remember any advertisement like that.
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🙄🙄🙄 Exposed
Not really, I mean it's not a sexual pose.
Yes it is, you can see his dick.
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I"m just going to leave this right here
@beccaboo2 The thing is, it doesn't really catch the attention of women, it's gets more male attention.
Same reason why Playgirl failed😆.
It sure caught my attention! lol
i have a feeling this guy is really depressed for some reason
I just worry a lot.
I want my future girlfriend to like me for both looks and personality not just personality.
Don't expect that unless u look nick Bateman tier. She will always want better
beauty is subjective. there is more variety in female beauty ideals and they are more represented than male beauty ideals in our society thus people put a bigger emphasis on female beauty thats why you think and keep making questions about male beauty, because it is so underrepresented that you think men aren't beautiful at all.
Interesting theory. But there is really no certainty in life.
What do you mean?
Women DO find men sexually attractive. And what? We find the ugliest woman more attractive than the best looking guy? Are you insane? The only reason women are sometimes viewed as more sexy is because half naked women have been pushed on us since childhood and it's messed up how we see things. Women do check out men and honestly men in my opinion are way more attractive than women.
"Even if it's a handsome man, she still won't find him attractive. She needs that infamous emotional connection."
"When women call men "sexy", unfortunately it's not based on his looks. They only find his personality, mannerisms and scent attractive."
So you really think you know women better than they know themselves?
"When's the last time you noticed a woman ogling or checking out a random man on a street? Oh that's right, it probably never happens."
Except you see it LITERALLY ALL THE TIME. It's impossible to go through a day without seeing it happen.
This take is just really offensive and filled with generalizations. It seems to me like you know absolutely nothing about women so you're assuming stuff about them to make yourself feel better.
No, I just worry a lot.
But it's true. How often do you see women staring or whistling at men in the street or getting aroused every time a young man goes out in a pair of shorts? It's extremely rare. You're way out of touch with reality.
So you are going to deny that women don't think that women look better? Don't lie to me, I've never seen a woman check out a man.
@Love_Is_Eternal Read what I said again. You see it literally everyday. You'd have to be blind to not notice it.
Women are usually more subtle when checking out people. My girl friends talk about hot guys all the time
So not true. It happens very rarely and I go out an awful lot. You're just lying.
@Love_Is_Eternal actually, you're lying. You never go out and are only saying this so you have a good argument.
Nope, you're lying because it hardly ever happens.
@Love_Is_Eternal keep believing that
No woman check out random men all the time-lol. Apparently I do it too although I've never noticed I've been yelled at-lol
@Love_Is_Eternal it happens to me all the time, you are just blatantly lying lol
People are dumb. I am more pleasing to the eye than most women are.
cos you're a poofter, that's why.
I don't speak slang.
well yeah, i called you gay. and slang? well yes, many use it. possibly you're asperger's too, since non-asperger's people get social looseness.
I'm not gay you white knight.
I think men have ugly faces yet you think I'm gay. I'm as straight as straight can be.
I think you suffer from from a disease called SJW.
because you post about how men look as good as women. and yes, i do think that. tell me why it's wrong, and why i cannot? lol.
SJW? never, i don't need any safe space.
Well it's usually SJW men who put down other guys. If you read my previous takes and questions you'll see that I made it very clear that I'm straight because I want people to know that I'm straight, I even state in the about me section that I'm straight. No offense to people of other sexualities.
excuse me? ok, a human trait in diminishing people is something SJWs do? haha... wow, i've heard it all now.
SJWs only care about certain people.
haha.. what? ok, i can see you have aspie disease... good for you.
I don't have that, what I do have is OCD.
I'll say it again, I'm straight.
What? Your myTake is right to some extent. But I actually caught myself looking at some guys and admiring how they look even tho I don't know them. So that means that there is a part of us that's visual too and that is why handsome actors and singers are popular with girls. But that doesn't mean I'd be in a relationship with them just based on that.
So you think women are better looking?
Also why did your admire how the guys look? Is it physical attraction or is it just appreciation as if they are pieces of art?
I think some men are better looking than women and vice versa. But even if a girl was more good looking than a guy, as a straight female, I would have sexual feelings for the guy while I don't feel anything for the girl. I'm not sure but there were some few instances where I found some guys really handsome and I felt nervous around them. Some of these times were just me admiring their looks and some of them I actually thought they are hot. But I still didn't want to do anything about it because the emotional connection matters to me more. I need to feel relaxed and comfortable with him.
So you think both genders are equally attractive?
Of course there are good looking people from both genders.
However in general, which gender looks better to you.
I am not sure 😂 maybe guys ❤
Thanks for clarifying it.
Your welcome ☺
hey asker, women are just as visual as men. they are human. if you aren't visual than something is seriously wrong with your brain.
@Bobbyhill1 thats true!
Well I agree with you mostly about women not being visually attracted to men, the only part I raised my eyebrows is when you say that they like certain kinds of jawlines. Like... what?
Unfortunately being a man sucks :'(
I'm not sure about that but i doubt women even care about how guys look.
I like looking at women for their soft features. I ain't gay but i can appreciate a mans jawline or nice muscle definition.
Dude, where do ya live? XDDD
In the U. S.
Maybe you need to get out more or somethin'. XD
you are delusional lol
i find men attractive to the point i want to jump their bones. i could stare at some guys all day, i even fantasise about guys. we are just more discrete (apart from now) about it than men are with their attraction for females.
personality is important, looks are important. for some people more than the other, for some both go hand in hand. why do men on this site always want to make things a battle of the genders i really don't get it lol
you need to understand not all women are like this but there is a group of them that are that's why you hear this from guys so much cause its true where not complaining we just speak the truth
Wow , for real?
Why is it that women are never seen ogling or checking out men? Why is it that women don't really make a big deal if a man is shirtless? Why is it that women think men are not as pod looking as women?