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Lady like
It's simply not lady like. I know a lot of women reading this right now are boiling in their seats. Well, that's one of the main reasons, it's not lady like at all for a woman to want sex with multiple men. It's like she's chasing after penis which is very unattractive. People believe women are supposed to be like butterflies, you chase after them but never catch them, until one day a butterfly lands on you, and you know that butterfly is yours to keep. That's how it is in books, movies, fairy tales, and just in general. It's not very lady like to have slept with over 10 men. Imagine this discussion with a bunch of other females, telling them you've slept with over 10 men, and the rest of them are probably virgins.
Overused
Men don't like women who've had sex, because they believe the vagina would be all used up and worn out. I know it's been proven that vagina's are elastic, but think of it this way. I'm pretty sure you all know what a mouth guard is right? A piece of equipment athletes use to protect their teeth from being damaged. Would you want to use someone else's mouth guard? That they've had all in their mouth for such a long time? They've got their spit all on it and whatnot, would you want to use that? Even if they wash the mouth guard, you still wouldn't want it? No, you'd just prefer to get your own brand new, never used mouth guard.
That's how men feel when it comes to vaginas, why would we want it when we could just get a fresh brand new one. The only difference is, another mans penis was actually in the vagina, so it's even worse. Would you put a mouth guard in your mouth that's had some guys penis on it? Even if it's been washed... no, the fact that some other man has put his penis there is not attractive, especially if multiple men's penises have been down there. With penises, you won't be able to tell the difference, no matter how many times a guy has sex, his penis will still feel the same. Vagina's on the other hand do stretch, and the feeling slightly changes after she's had sex a few times.
Experience
Men like to impress women, believe it or not we do. That's why men show off in front of women, we like to make them smile, giggle, and just impress them. Well, you can't impress a woman who's seen and done it all. Men love to see a woman's grimace, or just to hear her say "Wow". When a woman has had sex with a lot of men, most likely you're not going to be the best she's had, so nothing you do is going to surprise her at all, she's already done it. Also, it makes it even worse when she pretends to be surprised.
It's very easy to make a man say "wow." Literally, you can make a guy say wow just by flashing him, even if he's seen your breast a billion times, he's still going to be impressed.
What Girls & Guys Said
42 56Um, my society does NOT prefer virgins. I personally have never dated one, except Asian women (the lower age limit for dating is 18).
Well, you can't impress a woman who's seen and done it all.
Disagree. There are endless ways to impress a woman. All it takes is for a guy to be unique, which a lot are. A woman who's seen and done all is either few and far between or a ripe old age.
Pleasure is pleasure, honey. It comes in all different personalities, shapes, sizes and ages.
i remember at one point i used to talked to women about sex, penis, they were so curious about it. It was so cute. now i have women telling me about my penis. its not easy to impress an experienced woman in bed at all unless you like last 4 hours, there's nothing you can do to impress them
Sounds like someone isn't very confident in his bedroom skills.
@snowangle What does anything I said have to do with my personal skills in bed SEe that's the thing with women lol Once you prove them wrong they don't have shit to say so they try & get personal like it's going to hurt your feelings I'm on vacation right now, nothing you say is going to get to me but you can try again if you'd like.
You're literally the one who said the only way you can blow a girl's mind in bed is if she doesn't know any better. If you were confident in your skills, you would know how to impress a girl who isn't totally ignorant about penises.
Snowangle has a point.
Lol, this guy...
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Its like you've lived in a brothel your entire life.
I like virgins sometimes since it's nice to go where no man has gone before when exploring. Why do you think Captain Kirk didn't mind getting all the alien pussy?
I don't know what the hell you're talking about but I agree with you
well that's not true at all,, i would feel nervous if i was going to have sex with a virgin girl,, i will not enjoy the sex instead i will keep asking my self is that to rough is that too gentle,, why would i do that to my self.
also I've never met a virgin girl after 20 so it's a rare thing except if you are a Pedophile then that a thing you talk about it in jail.
I was a virgin until three days ago, when I turned 22 and I wasn't shy at all. Of course I was nervous, of course I wasn't quite sure what I should do, but I wasn't laying there like a corpse waiting for the guy to do all of it. I even told him I want him to eat me out. I know its a rare thing, but I dont consider myself a freak for that one. I am not above a girl who has had sex but I dont think im below neither. I was quite scared because of guys like you, who would run away because i was a virgin. The reason I remained one was because I had a septate hymen which needed surgery and couldnt break the normal way. I was scared of needles si I postponed it until two weeks ago. I dont judge you for not sleeping with virgin its your choice, but I am just saying not all virgins are the same. And judging by your name... I lost my virginity to an arab guy. He is a medical student, here in my country and was very happy to see that not all western girls are easy girls.
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@Lana05 well dear let me tell you something about the Arab guys,, they are so obsessed with the idea of a virgin girl,,, in our communities a girl who is not a virgin is called a whore>>>so it's a fucked up society. and an Arab guy reaction to you being virgin is not the ideal nor the most common.. still am very sure you are a nice gal but you are the exception not the rule dear.. being virgin is not something you should feel insecure about it but it does simply create specific aura around you. i do really admire your ability to ask the guy to eat you, it sure does make thing a lot more easier than action as a dead corpse so i salute you for that,, i have some inner feeling whenever i rarely meet a virgin girl that she is innocent and i'm just too fucked up to sleep with her.
and what is the most common reaction from arab when he find out a western is a virgin? He is from North Africa by the way, so not as extreme as a Saudi:)
why would we need a mytake on this? all girls know why virgin hunters want virgins.
Virgin hunters... really More like why men don't want sluts
so you're saying that once a woman sleeps with you, then she's a slut.
did i not just say i want to be with a virgin? so what that means is once i sleep with a girl she will be a virgin, which will not make her a slut how can virgins be sluts?
She means that you seem to claim that if a girl is not a virgin, she's a slut, meaning that the moment you've slept with her, she's become a slut, since she's then lost her virginity.
It's something that some childish people care about. Mature people have better things to worry about.
I don't agree with the myTake, but I don't think it's right to call someone childish for something life that.
@WholefoodsLol And it's your right to not think it's childish for people to care whether someone's a virgin or not.
I'm not talking about what your rights are. I was simply disagreeing with you.
@WholefoodsLol And I'm saying that it's fine that you disagree with me.
Thanks, I'll tell my town hall I have been given the necessary authorisation to disagree with you.
@WholefoodsLol Did what I said register as sarcasm? I figured that I was being respectful of what you were saying.
@404filenotfound I'm actually on my way to the Town hall, I was not previously aware it was my right to disagree with you. I hope that's not coming off as sarcastic, I also hope I'm not heading down there after opening hours.
@WholefoodsLol I promise I'm not being sarcastic. I get where you're coming from, that behavior just seems childish to me.
It's not possible to keep virginity nowadays. It's not healthy too. Our bodies are designed to have sex and have babies in late teens. The people in the past married between 15 to 20. But we marry after 25 now. Some even marry many many times in their life. If this is not your first marriage, virginity iiis
Not I. I prefer women that put out the goods. :)
Not sure I would phrase it exactly like you did but I do think dating a virgin is preferable. The only downside is the higher likelyhood of a virgin past a certian age being asexual or having a low sex drive. However, if she has a normal sex drive then I can't think of any reason why dating a non-virgin would be better than dating virgin.
Biological reasons men may strongly prefer virgins.
- Microchymerism, she will carry the LIVING DNA of every man whos sperm enters her body, her entire life! even passing it onto her children. So women's DNA literally becomes contaminated by having sex with other men. I dunno about you but I don't want the thugs DNA she fucked in the bathroom at a bar, or some other guy she dateds DNA floating around in my childs brain stem.
- STD's. /duh
- Evolved psychology to avoid being Cucked, raising another mans offspring is #FUCK NO!!!
- Most likely relationship will stand the test of time if she only ever fucks her husband. Odds of successful relationship drop from 80% to 50% after only 1 man before her husband, and continues to drop to 17% at 6 men. It fucks with a woman's psychology in a negative way.
Regardless of how logically or morally you can argue this point, you'll never persuade people in this hedonistic world that denying yourself pleasure in the moment is better for you in the long term.
Studies show that the more sexual partners you have, the less able you are to maintain relationships in the future.
Historically, promiscuous women were dangerous because child-rearing takes so much time and resources. Unless you want to bring up street urchins.
There are cultural and religious traditions that place special value and significance on virgins. Virginity is associated with notions of purity , honor and worth. it values sexual abstinence. It is connected to moral or religious issues and has consequences in terms of social status and in interpersonal relationships. it has social implications and legal implications in those societies too. the bible says , that marriage partners need to be virgins on the wedding day. Both male and females are expected to e virgins. Sex means a holy thing to such people. Having sex means knowing the other person from the inside. That is why bible views sex as the physical , the biological , the ethical , the spiritual , and the romantic connection. When two people connect through sex , the come to know themselves from the inside , Previously they were incomplete and separate. Now they are one united being (whole) as the two parts of their souls get connected through the most pure energy transferred during sex. So morality ethics and spirituality behind the concept of virginity is important and still relevant. Here sex cannot be thought of without having a lawful married partner. That's why virgins (both man and woman) are highly respected by those who know the value behind this concept.
It's a secual preference just like women preferring more experienced often older men when it comes to sex. That may seem unfair to the opposite sex that find themselves in those boxes but it's human nature.
I'm a proponent of this... I'm saving my purity for a man who values me enough to marry me:)
I don't think this is true.
it is, men don't like the fact you've been with other men that's why we don't like hearing you talk about them we don't like anything about them... especially the fact that they've had sex with you... what part of that would we like?
@myTakeOwner Speak for yourself. I'd rather be with an experienced women whose slept with 100+ guys than a woman who has no experience. Only an insecure guy with low self esteem would get jealous when women talk about other guys and their experiences with them
@AaronTupaz Lmao, worst comment in my whole life
I'm a virgin and I still don't know why.
I never quite understood this.
It's like with a guy I'd prefer he has more experience so he knows what he's doing. Wouldn't be it preferable say if you've had sex before to want to be with someone kind of experienced at least. so you don't hurt them.
women want men to be more experienced because they know he's going to get them off better.
Frankly, this sounds like a response from a fifteen year old, even though I'm not a proponent of girls riding the cock-carousel for 15 years and then trying to find a suitable mate.
But I'm more with @ArabianPwincess197 - if you want a virgin then be a virgin. It all makes more sense if it's for religious reasons. Otherwise it's simply an unreasonable expectations because when couples date and become intimate there is usually sex involved. This does not degrade a woman unless she does it over and over again. But 30 years old most people, both genders, have had a hand full of partners and I don't know anyone that thinks that's bad.
A lot of people call me bull shit but none of you have disagreed with my reasoning You may hate the fact that my reasoning is true, but none of you disagree with it.. & trust me if I was 15 with the knowledge I have now.. about women, I probably would be gay.
LOL. Made me laugh... :)
Unfortunately I'm on the train that goes straight & there's no exiting.
Fine. Just this once, I'll waste a little time in the hope of some payoff. You're a retard, OP. 80% of the comments disagree with you, and you can't even see it. Your take reeked of a closed mindset based upon being a male yourself, and then generalizing it to just "men".
@RedVulcan - Hmmm... pretty astute there! :) There's hope for this one...
Thank you :)
@RedVulcan How does it feel to be a suckup? would you like a sticker? a big bright yellow sticker just for you
pretty much all men agree with me besides all the men who are "whipped" those men are whipped and there's no getting to them. What man gets off to the fact his girl has been with other men? i'll wait.
Sorry to keep you waiting. I had something to do in the real world. I'll keep it simple: no man should really EXPECT his woman to AUTOMATICALLY not be with other men. I'm told women like fucking as much as men do, and to control how often they do that is, well, controlling. Outside of religious or personal reasons to save oneself, I'm gonna call out your bullshit that all men agree with you. You have no proof, and no empathy.
Mr Anonymous, what you’ve just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone on this site is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.