Why some men have reverse rape fantasy (being raped by a girl)?

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For what reasons some guys fantasize about being raped by a woman?

According to 80s research by French sexologist Couture M Crépault:
45.8% of men in a 1980s study reported fantasizing during heterosexual intercourse about "a scene where [they had] the impression of being raped by a woman" (3.2% often and 42.6% sometimes)". Apparently, such fantasies were common in lots of men during the history, even in antique times. Modern men like it too, in the east as well in the west, because it often appears not just in anime, but also in western sex-fantasy literature.

Why some men have reverse rape fantasy (being raped by a girl)?

ScottieO · Accepted Answer

It's definitely a turn on for me. I'm turned on my orgasm control in the first place, and girls using their sexuality against me. So this kind of fits right in. I have no choice but to cum and she has all the power to make me do it, and she des.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it's very exciting for submissive men to be overpowered by sexy & dominant girls, especially if they are athletic and sporty.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's because most men are secretly submissive, they like to be dominated by women who are both strong and attractive. But I don't think they would like it if the woman who attacks them is ugly or fat.

maiave · Accepted Answer

It wouldn’t be rape then because they’d like it.

nightdrot · Answer

Not a big fan, actually, as I much prefer being sexually dominant.

That said, that sense of being controlled can be, in a strange way, liberating. You are being used as a thing by an aggressive woman for her pleasure. You are helpless and your penis is her toy.

You are not worried even remotely about pleasuring her and there is a psychological separation of sex from anything but the most primal sex. It is a kind of variation on the kind of primal animal sex that a man needs - and that my girlfriend likes too.

My girlfriend and I have tried "rape fantasy" sex - both ways. Again, not huge fans, but that combination of animal sex - two animals breeding in a field - and the fear of being totally helpless and submissive has its exciting side. I can see where it might be popular with some men.

SusanColleen · Answer

I have the fantasy myself. The helplessness, my clothes torn off, no guilt because I’m being attacked, several new men to experience, the raw nakedness, unprotected sex, I’m ravaged, filled, and sent home to my husband…. I secretly enjoyed it all, and hubby wants all the details , revealed slowly, as I strip for him

InfoBot · Answer

I have no idea, I've never had that fantasy so I can't relate.

bang678 · Answer

Why does anyone have any fetish or fantasy?

TalynMere · Answer

Rape fantasy is a big thing for both genders. If you are a submissive person who is open to that kind of thing and don't have an intense traumatic violent memory associated to it, it can be very intoxicating to have pleasure forced on you. It's confusing and overwhelming.

You just have to do it safely. BDSM exists for a reason.

dropkicknj13 · Answer

2 things:
1, it's probably just based around the desire for women to be sexually aggressive for once.
2, why question this? People have fantasies about being shit on and just all kinds of awful, rape fantasy is down right tame lol

NewGuy45247 · Answer

Well... Because as a reverse rape person like myself would say...
We're pretty much desperate or we are waiting for *that* woman to ravage us
Co'z if I would rape them, I would feel gravely guilty of what I've done.
In short...
If she takes my V-Card
She'll steal my heart
Leaving me wanting for more

GingerGuy · Answer

I think because it shows her raw desire for him, which women tend to hide. It's really a turn on for us. Makes us feel physically desired which we don't usually get from women at all.

Celtero · Answer

Probably because it gives the man impression that he inspires so much lust in women that they go to drastic measures to have sex with him. "Wow, I'm so sexy, that hot girl wants to tie me up just to have a taste of my dick!"

Women have rape fantasies very a lot too, more than men I think.

Cuintan · Answer

Why do many women have the same fantasy? Why do any of us have any fantasies? It turns us on. Why does it turn us on? Who knows? It just does. Why do you like your favourite food? Why do you prefer writing with one hand over the other? Why is your favourite colour your favourite colour?
Feel free to get back to me when you've figured out what kind of answer you're looking for.

Quentin_ · Answer

Reverse rape isn't a thing, its rape. But not me tbh. I've actually had a nightmare where I was rapped by a girl. Woke up scared as hell. I'm not trying to be forcefully fucked in general.

Finchie40 · Answer

Because men are always considered the dominant ones so it's hot knowing a girl is being dominant

nodnol32 · Answer

Its not really "rape" in the fantasy since the guy is hard and the girl will dominate if she really wants to have sex.

Reycool1997 · Answer

definitely a turn on for me and i really just couldnt control my feel when such thing happens

MrMilti · Answer

"Reverse rape"?
WTF!

Its called "rape", there is no "reverse", for fucks sake! Do not pretend, that raping a man is somehow something completely different.

Like "reverse racism" is also not a thing, its just "racism".

humanearth · Answer

Oh yes i do as well. Im the always in control. While i want to see what it like the other way.

Dzokson00 · Answer

"reverse rape"

tk42jm · Answer

I've never had but thought of raping ex for dumping me I tried hitting them up to see if they wanted to come over to f*** I always need consent

taleswapper · Answer

For the same reasons so many women have rape fantasies, I'd guess. Sex without guilt ("They made me do it!") and/or the idea that they're so desirable.

Harsh_5299 · Answer

I think you're indirectly asking why some men have a fantasy of being a submissive... I don't know, as I'm a dominant myself

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