Why the virginity of a girl is more special than the virginity of a men?

[Anonymous]

[Artesian]

Because if she gives birth 7 months after her "virginal" wedding to normal healthy child, the child is probably not a rightful heir, and the man gets cucked to raising someone else's baby. Questions about parentage are much harder to determine on the male side than female.

[andreasderjuengere]

The disparity: It may have something to do with role-thinking in a society.
Virginity has no other than a social function. Mankind has come up with all sorts of rituals and standards that make no other sense than manipulating or controlling certain 'wanted' behaviour.

[Duckysback]

It isn’t, they are both equally worthless.

[SarahsSummer]

Because men’s bodies are not violated.

[CamilaP]

just because we have hymens

[AkkuTheLove]

Hypocracy

[normalice]

Worth is ultimately defined by what people are willing to pay for. And the plain fact is some guys would be willing to pay to be a girl's first time whereas far fewer girls (if any) would be willing to pay to be a guy's first time.

[R4vedave]

I don't think it is, I place no importance on virginity.

That being said, the double standard comes from puritanical ideas about women, sex, and purity. It's outdated and antiquated.

[slatyb]

Historically? A virgin woman can't be pregnant with another man's child, not can she be infected with an StD. Today? Just a way to control young women. We have pregnancy tests and blood tests and paternity tests so virginity has no practical value.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Because girls can have babies.

[outside_Toronto]

it's not. it's a social construct

[oncpl]

In some culture virginity of girl is considered a matter of honor, prestige, also worth of girl.

[Shamalien]

cause men don't get completely emotionally destroyed for life from having sex with a partner that then leaves them.

[Plitty-Tank]

It's not. People just deem females are more precious.

[Anonymous]

Once a guy been inside it is never same

[Anonymous]

Men prefer it, women care less. That’s all. Men and women are different and like different things. Simple as that.

[Anonymous]

I guess because with a guy you really can’t tell if he ever had sex or not since there’s no Hymen

[SueShe]

Allow me a comment on that misconception. No hymen does not mean that she is no longer a virgin. You can practice sports like horseback riding or gymnastics and have a perforated hymen from that type of exercise.

[Opinion Owner]

@SueShe Yeah I knew but that’s only proof to go by normally so if it’s broken then all they can go on is your word but with guys you don’t know except for inexperience