Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

Why women like and prefer older men

Very often young women are after older men for relationships and not men in their approximate age range and here is why:

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

1. He has an established career, money and a high paying job

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

This is a no brainer. He can spend money on her and pay for the dinner out of his own pocket because he can. She has to doll up, show up and order from the menu.
Yay today's capitalism, biased social conditioning and double standards.

This is the main reason why. It's also the only header here. The other reasons next are just minor factors and even if a young man may have them all but the first one, women will still prefer the older man. The reason can't possibly be any more obvious.

2. He matured and is serious about life

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

Well I'm young and just as serious about life but I couldn't find young girls being as mature. Many of them are still stuck up on high school drama.
However the older men are more likely to find repeating the word penis everywhere to be boring and immature and pointless. Or watching twitch livestreams during university lessons or practical labor.

3. He has his own place

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

He probably lives alone or has an upper class home for himself. There is enough privacy and it's a proper home without any bug infestations from poor maintaining landlords and janitors and the sanitary utilities are in working condition compared to students tiny dormitories. That means undisturbed sex is easily possible. And it's comfortable.

4. He has a car and a drivers license

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

But so did Elliot Rodger actually and he died a 22 year old virgin. His reason for being unsuccessful with women however was very different - it was his terrible attitude and his feeling of being entitled to women and sex.
Women love to get around between places and having their man driving her around. Sorry to disappoint you young guys, who don't have any wheels.

5. Older men are experienced

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

It's like applying for a job. Women prefer men with experience. Even I wonder why they don't like the journey of both being young and inexperienced virgins. In my opinion this is where romance really starts to bloom because puppy love.
Older men know when, how and what without her saying a word. Women love it when they can be readen like that.

Inexperienced virgin guys in their 20s can only get jealous and the pressure adds up with each passing time interval. No wonder why men watch porn.

6. Less video games and he is already educated = more time for her

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

Although young college/university guys if not employed have all the time in the world they have other areas, where the older man has the upper hand. Read this one again and you will see: Not employed. The older guy is employed.

7. Older men's physique are usually in good condition

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

Since young men are normally financially poor and even worse busy working a hard, minimum wage job draining him from his time and energy (I mean its still better than being unemployed), results in fatigue, partial starvation and being skinny and weak, women are turned off by that. That's how life fucks with us all. It's a bit similar like the concentration camps in nazi Germany.
It just shows, that the young, starved guy is already beaten by his life duties and he can't protect nor provide for her.

8. Older men have stuff

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

A fancy smartphone, a powerful and cool computer, a pair of blasting speakers, a wide range of clothing… you name it. That shows he can afford it. And maybe even give her gifts. Turn ON!

9. Age

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

It is just a number but there is a reason why some say, that men age like wine and women age like milk. Some Women just prefer, that this number exceeds their own. It's just their preference.

10. They are past the partying wild stage

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

Or at least they're not as active anymore as the typically young men. I get it why partying everyday until the morning and fucking bitches is a turn off while not studying for the upcoming exam. I really do and understand it and all but not all young men are this type or are so lucky to be part of it. Me included.
But guys in this wild partying stage can't be taken seriously for LTR. Some Women are bewaring and it's good for them.

Why Women Like and Prefer Older Men

It is what it is. If you happen to be a young man like me and are looking for a serious and committed, long term relationship, odds might be you're luckier with older women starting from their 30s. You might even really like them because they are likely to be as mature as the older men are. And also more likely to be mentally stable and less to deal with stupid drama. I also heard, that women start getting sex crazed in their 30s like men in puberty would. You can only try. Good luck!

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  • seems like good enough reasons

  • I agree

  • I don't like men and women.

    • Humans are a terminal disease to this planet.

  • Laughably wrong lol!!! Especially No. 7

    • But girls love money 💵

    • You're victimizing yourself with this stupid myth. Everyone loves $$$. You just can't live life without it, yet alone stay alive lol. Women like men and vice versa. Physical attraction is independent of money. And many girls prefer slimmer and cuter guys.

    • For them money alone makes men much more attractive. It's the older ones, that have them.

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  • My guess is your a horny old man

    • No but I'm a horny, young, frustrated and deprived man.

  • I agree

  • pathetic

    • fyi-you proved that they are not past the partying wild stage by using hefner

    • Age doesn't equal maturity

  • I kind of like older women, you know the milf type. I knew this guy in high school whose mom was pretty dam hot lol. She was in her mid 40's I think, but she was fit and had a nice bod and a big rack hahah. Good stuff

    • Me too dude. But men unlike women don't care about money.

  • Because the perfer more mature guy for sex... Girls want thier first time not to be painful.. They thought older men can do that...

  • Interesting

  • nah, old people or sugar daddies aren't my cup of tea.

    • So you are not gold digger, and you don't have daddy issues? good to know. :)

  • for those girls who didn't have a daddy while growing up, dating an old man makes them feel like they have a dad

  • wealth is why most of the time kinda like a sugar daddy

  • Not necessarily, not all older men are rich, not all older men have drivers license, not all older men are experienced (even some 40 years old guys are virgins, not just in the movie).
    One of the reasons might be - some women are gerontophiles.
    Of course if the guy is rich - money is the main reason.

  • Due to their experience, matureness and wealth

    • older doesn't equal maturity

  • Maturity and $$$$ count!!!

  • I do like older men myself... Coming from experience.. I have dated a lot of guys around my age and they were quite immature (at least the ones I dated not saying all are here) and I just had enough of the games that they played so I said the heck with it and just an older guy. He was immature, the first one, so I went a little bit older. Got together when I was 21, I am now almost 31 we're married

  • Not all women like older men

    • Thanks

  • I like women younger than me (16-21 particularly and whoever thinks 16 is a kid, they just live 60-70 years ago) but I don't feel/look/behave my age, but much younger. And I want to be like that forever.

    But the fact you mentioned driving license, makes me not taking your post seriously. Public transit exists and it's wayyyyyy more convenient whether you are young or old.

  • My Age Range Is 11yrs Under. I Don't Really Look At Younger Dudes Cause... I don't know When I Look At Em I Don't See Them As Some1 I'd Ride Allday & Night Lol It Feels Wrong In A Way & When I Do Think About It I Feel Like A Pedo Lol

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