Why would one guy be timid and cautious during sex with one girl but animalistic and dominant with another girl?

Assuming they never discussed their sexual preferences. Is he wilder with women he only finds semi attractive because he is not scared to fuck up?

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Superb Opinion

  • He's advancing from "beginner" into "amateuristc" Player.

    Yes, with previous girls, he's "not sure" as in whether what he did will screw up those relationship.

    After moving on, he's "good enough" now. Hence with you he's trying new methods he saw in porn that turned him on.

    Yes, be cautious.

    Soon you'll be heartbroken because he'll move on after perfecting his skills on you. Let's hope it'll heal quickly.

    Take care and best wishes.

    • So you think him being more dominant with me means that he doesn’t have romantic feelings for me?

    • Many Players are romantic and confident, but do so for sex. And I define a guy as a Player if he can get sex with girls of all sorts, and move on soon after the girl slept with him. Since you mention he has many ex and just got you to sleep with him. TBH, he's good. Romantic or not, he's got what he wanted. And I deduce he's likely a Player.

    • I don’t think he is a player at all

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Depends on the mood and the girl. Some girls like guys to be slow and caring, others prefer dominant, aggressive men. Some of us try to adapt to that in order to turn our partner on and satisfy her

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • The girls dictates how the man treats her

    • I didn’t dictate anything. He told me his exes complained about him being too shy but with me he was kind of an asshole

  • Because he’s a liar

  • He respected the one he went slow with

    • Why does he disrespect me? And why does he claim he loves me when I already told him I don’t want a relationship and don’t mind meaningless sex either?

    • He is immature and doesn't understand love. He doesn't respect you because you let people use you like a cum rag. Meaningless sex= no self-respect. People don't respect people without self-respect.

  • it depend upon how she is.