Will a man still respect a woman who gives him a blowjob on the first date?

Will a man still respect a woman who gives him a blowjob on the first date?
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  • I would not and I would decline it.

  • No and yes.
    Basically, I don't judge.
    But I found that the longer you (or 'we') wait to get into physical action … the better the chances for a longer relationship.
    Not advocating 'virginity' (what is this?) or 'waiting until getting married' , though.

  • It's possible, but it might make him less likely to respect you. Even if he does, it might make him less likely as seeing you as anything more as someone to have fun with.

    It really all depends on the guy.

  • A men needs to respect a women who have him Blowjob on first date..
    Because if she doesn't..
    She can always bite

  • Hell yes!
    She would go to the top of my most favoured female list.

  • I woudn't

  • Hey sometimes it gets hot and there's an intense attraction between them. We all know in that case once you start touching then you wanna make them feel good is all. I love hearing bout people having feelings for each other

  • If the person was a good person then you know do you, now if its just a one night thing, looses my respect

  • I would probably think that she's done this lots of times with many different dudes if she did that on a first date. I would still respect the lady

  • If only that and nothing else happens i would most definitively not. But context context, if it was part of bedplay its all good. Only a bj however makes me think she doesn't want sex for whstever reason but is afraid ill lose interest if she doesn't give me something. Snd since she has learned guys love bjs she just does it to keep me interested. Kinda demeaning to herself, not to mention makes me wonder if she's slutty when she's that insecure. These would be speculstions ofc, but thats what i would think.

  • If this is the first date, what will she do for an encore? I would think that- while happy with the oral- that a guy would not be all that happy about the relationship.

  • No, probably not.

  • I don't think he will

  • If that's Ur first blow job. Yes. But if you have a habit of giving, a no

  • Probably not cause I think it would be weird. And I'm pretty sure she's either desperate or looking for something.

    Cause no girl just offers a bj out of nowhere especially on a first date. I'm sure she wants something in return.

  • Depends on the woman and the guy and the type of relationship.
    Me sure I'd respect you. Somewhat

  • Probably not, because it likely means that she's done the same thing for a bunch of other guys. Now, if she has only done it for ME, then yeah sure I'd be pretty happy.

  • Useless question it depends on the maturity of the guy.

  • If you hit it off, you have the attraction levels, and you're expressing feelings with physical outlets, it's not a big deal. I've had good (and bad) relationships come from sex on the first date/meeting.

  • Respect yes, second date no purely out of experience. Every date that ended up in bed/ foreplay always turned out terrible on escalating things.

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