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WOMEN F*CK WHO THEY WANT, MEN F*CK WHO THEY CAN. Agree or Disagree?
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32 96I will make this short it's a mans world... #drops the mic
Gross
Did somebody Fart?
@sydneysentinel ok boomer
@ChrisTheAlpinist You are so lame! Get lost squidward.
A fart on humanity, I guess. @ChrisTheAlpinist please tell me you're being facetious.
Seen this guy keep commenting the same "OK BOOMER" on many posts. Doesn't even understand you aren't a boomer.. he did the same thing to me.
Poor thing can't think straight because it's so far past his bedtime.
Only true for some.
You didn't think I meant ALL WOMEN did you? There are many answers to my questions that basically just say "well not everyone" ... I guess I could always put that disclaimer on the question that I mean... NOT EVERYONE... but would it give you the ability to give me another answer or would you still reply the same?
No need to restate the question as such. I'm having a hard time stating my opinion. Saying men "fuck who they can" feels like a cop out to me, as though women are somehow keeping men from having sex with them or something? Men have the same sort of choice in who they fuck, they just need to ensure they are attracting the types of women they want. Same as women have to attract the ones they want. Basically this is a self defeating mindset for a man to have
I was asking you... if I said... I know it's only true for some but in general... Women fuck who they want and men fuck who they can? Would you agree?
Nope, I still disagree. And next time you snap at me like that, Imma need you to pull my hair a little too
Ha Ha Ha ooooh la la... but seriously.. should I use a disclaimer on these types of questions because seriously your response was.. only true for some.. which duh we know this right? I want deep answers so what do you thing?
think
I think most people can and do elaborate their thoughts, but maybe ask "agree or disagree, and why?" Only true for some is a duh response, yes, but as bad as me say agree and not having a reason or further response why. I was gonna collect my thoughts and come back later because this statement bugged me. Not the language, the thought process behind it.
Okay I gotcha... maybe I will add a bit of a caveat to the question. Then I just have to hope they read it.
Or you could just yell at everyone. Seems effective 😉
I have done that.. felt bad the next day lol
Yeah, yelling doesn't seem your style. Generally speaking, you do a good job following up. Maybe adding a caveat to the question will encourage people to explain themselves preemptively.
Yeah I will give it a shot.. thanks for the input!
Anytime!
Oh, and another thing, just asking "agree or disagree" is kind of limiting in the language. It doesn't compel one to elaborate. It's a true false question and not a multiple choice, if you get what I mean.
So instead of agree or disagree use True or False? I have used both.
No, I think they're both limiting. Maybe add why on your agree/disagree or true/false questions, so we can't just give a one word response. Or ask in such a way we have to explain. For example, the makeup question asked what people thought, and people elaborated on their ideas of beauty and makeup.
Oh I got ya.
"Men have the same sort of choice in who they fuck, they just need to ensure they are attracting the types of women they want." Men don't have choice. We have the ILLUSION of choice. In every animal species, its the male that has to impress the female. The males compete with each other and the female decides who will be her mate. "Same as women have to attract the ones they want. Basically this is a self defeating mindset for a man to have" Its not self defeating, its reality. If you honestly think that women work just as hard to get attention as men do, do this. Create a tinder account as a guy and see how many messages you get. Then create a tinder account as a girl and see how many messages you get.
@Hunter7754 You really think women don't have to work hard to make themselves attractive? Nobody is dying to talk to the shy plain Janes of the world, not at a party. Maybe at a library. Furthermore, humans are not animals or polyamory would be more popular. Lastly, you go into any situation thinking the odds are stacked against you, that is a self defeat. You put yourself up there to be chosen by someone, instead of presenting yourself as the obvious correct choice, you've killed your game at the door before she even saw you. The Tinder experiment wouldn't work. I'm much too charismatic a personality. I could get a date with a woman on wordplay alone. My profile would be much to irresistible
"You really think women don't have to work hard to make themselves attractive? Nobody is dying to talk to the shy plain Janes of the world, not at a party. Maybe at a library." Compared to men? Not at all. And also plenty of men talk to shy plain janes. Put a plain jane on tinder and she'll get tons of matches. And men talk to women regardless of who they are. I've seen plenty of average to below average women complain about getting hit on or asked out. "Furthermore, humans are not animals or polyamory would be more popular." Wrong, we are animals and as civilized as we may believe ourselves to be, we are still driven by our primal urges/instincts. Also we aren't monogamous creatures. Monogamy is a social construct. "Lastly, you go into any situation thinking the odds are stacked against you, that is a self defeat. You put yourself up there to be chosen by someone, instead of presenting yourself as the obvious correct choice, you've killed your game at the door before she even saw you." Its not 'self defeating'. Self-defeating would be saying "Well the odds are against me so I may as well try at all". I'm simply saying, when it comes to dating, men have to bust their ass a hell of a lot more. Its practically a full time job. My advice to men isn't to say "Hey the odds are stacked against you so just give up". Im telling men "Hey the odds are against you, so if you want success when it comes to getting dates, you're going to need to give it 200%". "The Tinder experiment wouldn't work. I'm much too charismatic a personality. I could get a date with a woman on wordplay alone. My profile would be much to irresistible" Of course it would work. If you create a tinder account as a girl and you create a separate one as a guy, and you honestly believe that they will get the same amount of messages, you're not living in reality.
@Hunter7754 I'm gonna gloss over the polyamory thing because I don't care about that, and I don't have research to back it up. I'll come back to the Tinder thing in a minute, I know an article I want to link. I said men have some responsibility in choosing how to attract who they want to attract. Believing that women will always have the upper hand defeats that belief in oneself. As it applies to the initial statement above, women fuck who they want, but men do too. I've been a duff too long to believe for a minute men fuck who they can. They are equally as selective/picky.
https://youtu.be/lY8rzo4Ik4M
This wasn't what I was looking for, but definitely interesting. I wonder how much is because women are conditioned or predisposed to let men make the first move? I've never taken Tinder seriously, more like an algorithm experiment because I've swiped right on everyone and still only gotten limited responses with my average looks and sparkling personality.
You're not living in reality if you think men are as equally picky as women. We're not really as picky as magazines like cosmopolitan would have you believe. We don't care about issues concerning things like social status, status in general, money, social skills, etc. For men, the bare minimum is just for him to be attracted to the girl. And even lookswise, men aren't that picky. We have an ideal of what we want but most men end up settling for less than what they want. Its one of the reasons why men often stay in shitty and abusive relationships because dating is exhausting. We go through as much as 20-30+ women before actually finding one to date and have a relationship with. All of what I'm saying has been backed up by anthropology. Look at our species along with other animal species. The male is the one that has to compete with other males where as the female chooses which one is most suitable to be her mate. Humans are no exception to this phenomenon despite how much we claim we're much more advanced.
Ok, dude. I'll take your word for it.
"Men have the same sort of choice in who they fuck" You really are delusional if you believe that.
You men in these comments act like if a woman offers you pussy you HAVE to accept. You don't seriously expect me or anyone to believe that availability of pussy dictates that a man has to fuck it. But I'm the delusional one. 🙄
@Hunter7754 I agree with almost everything you have said, except the part about humans being animals that are not monogamous. People who say that humans are not monogamous just use that as an excuse to cheat and sleep around rather than being faithful. Having a moral conscience is what makes humans different from animals.
The problem is women like you don't pay attention to what is actually being said, but instead twist everything. So I'll try again. Nobody has said that if a woman offers a man pussy he has to accept it. What we're saying, if you bothered to pay attention, is that in general men are the chasers and women are the choosers. In other words, women in general have a lot more choice when choosing to fuck a man, whereas a man doesn't have much of a choice because it's much harder for a man to get sex than a woman.
The problem is women like me are able to think for ourselves and not just go along to get along. If sex were such a hard thing to acquire for men, they wouldn't degrade women for being "easy" or "sexual" or "slutty". They'd encourage them to level the playing field for those wanting it and those getting it.
If you were a man and started contacting random single women asking them for sex, you would know that 99% of these women would get offended and say no. But if you're a woman who is at least average looking, if you were to contact lots of single men and ask them for sex, I would say at least 90% of them would say yes. Like I said, you are delusional and are just making yourself look stupid and ignorant. Women always have been dumb.
@Iron_Man200 Do go on telling me about contacting random people for sex, because that ever happens. I'm glad you think I'm dumb. Means my logic is sound you numbskull
Yes, you are dumb and retarded if you truly believe the horse shit that you have posted.
Wow, really? You're getting me hawt baby. Tell me more
I think we're done here. Obviously you're a immature child.
Oh yeah baby 😘😘😘😘
I really love the type of man that will call me dumb, stupid and retarded AND still think I'm the immature one. What a winner!
Has it ever crossed your tiny brain that sometimes it is justified to call people dumb and retarded because they are actually dumb and retarded? Duh!
You're not even a good troll 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Goodbye, buddy. Keep it light
I’ve definitely turned down a few women who wanted to bed me 😂😂. And I definitely only have had sex with girls I wanted. I don’t believe in getting what’s easy or what’s “in my league”.
I will say there are men out there who only go after what they believe they can get but so do women. It’s like those girls who stay with guys who they openly call losers.
I won’t lie and say I’ve had sex with every girl I wanted to. Play the game enough times and a few loses are inevitable. But i definitely have always went for girls who I WANTED even when I initially thought they’d turn me down.
I disagree. You get what you believe you deserve. If you want and believe you can get a 10, you will. If you think you can only get less than what you want, you will.
Sounds fair enough to me.
I've never had a problem finding one that I want. 🤷🏾♂️
On my short list of who I want to fuck, are just three women. I may not be able to right now, but that doesn't mean I won't. ;)
For the most part, that's true
I think if you're hot you fuck who you want. Doesn't matter wether your male or female, you just have more options in general.
Ah, but women are hotter than men on average.
You dont think women hold a higher standard for social skills/confidents? You dont think men have to prove that a little? While on the other hand, men dont need women to prove anything but that they need him in bed now?
@User_Friendly Please don't argue I just wanted to tell a joke.
@Boppy sorry m8, i was replying to alpha09
I got that. It's just I've been getting notifications from other people arguing in an answers I commented on, and didn't want to delete my comment to avoid. Sorry, I probably jumped the gun on this one.
Absolutely. Guys get what they can and since girls basically have the utmost power over men they can get it when ever they want.
to an extend yes I would agree. mostly boils down to primal urges though.
Men - are typically less selective of there sexual partner (s). due to our brains and hormones urges us to breed. with just about anyone that is willing to have sex with us.
women - are typically more selective of there sexual partner (s). due to their brains and hormones urging them to breed. with the best possible partner they can find at the time.
as for being bi / gay or other. well that is a whole other story in itself.
The world is a ducked up place so honestly find a girl with the same values as you and keep her is how I see it
But you also gotta be attracted to her
Yep. This is where womens' power comes from. They aren't as horny as men so they have sexual power over them. Men are bigger and stronger, but women balance that out with their sexual power. Women can be picky about who they have sex with, while men have to take whatever they can get.
In any deal, the one who needs the deal more has less power. Men need the sex more than women. So women use that to get what they want from men. When it comes to sex, women are in control.
Yeah the amount of desperate pathetic simp men is insane. Just look at the amount of loser on Gag who call any girl that post a picture a perfect 10/10 and call her baby and post kissy emojis after and shit. It’s embarrassing how pathetic men have become just for sex for random women on the Internet they will never meet. You seem to get a lot answers you should make a post about men being way to pathetic desperate and creepy nowadays
Disagree, I am way too picky for this statement to be true 😁
There are ones that want me and that want me back and they "ain't" getting me. So, that blows that out of the water. I only go with the ones I can tolerate and I quench any foolish lofty far-reaching attractions for no-starters. Disagree… 馬鹿
I agree as long as its not a byproduct of psychological issues. Having 10-15 + frivolous sexual partners is not a sign of a psychologically healthy person. Excluding that I think we should leave people the hell alone.
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I bet ypu are just an easy dude who just accepts every woman lmao, no judgement. Your choice
Disagree
I get what the point is here. Women have more options than men because men typically are willing to lower their standards for sex and so there are no shortage of horny men willing to have sex with her. However, women do not tend to lower their standards for sex. In fact, they raise them.
Men can also choose not to. Just because they want pussy doesn't mean they'll accept it from just every woman, regardless of what she looks like.
The thing is, women have to be concerned with getting pregnant so, they HAVE to be a bit careful who they fuck, unless they just don't care! But, men are ALWAYS horny and don't exactly have to worry about pregnancy so, they just drop a load into her and run and never see her again. Two of my ex-guitarists were great for that!!! Have dick: will travel!! Any pussy in a storm!!
Lol thats funny