Would you be okay with your partner watching porn?

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  • No of course not. I don't know what's the pleasure in watching other people have sex. Lol jokes aside, porn isn't as simple as it looks, it has very adverse effects on your mind which can result in degraded performance with their partner, pre mature ejaculation, not being able to last long and make proper sexual connections with your partner, make you have unrealistic expectations with your partner, memory loss and often make you too aggressive in other aspects of your life. It's so destructive.

    • Exactly!!! I love the way you put it 🙂

    • No problem :D Do you watch it?

    • What? Porn? No way

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  • Porn is inherently destructive. It rewires your brain and your sex drive to focus on quick dopamine highs instead of long-term sexual connection with a person. It can also have many negative consequences in other areas of your life outside the sexual. So no, I would not be okay with it.

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  • If my partner feels the need to watch other people or fantasize about other people then he can get on down the road with other people. No exception. I'm the only craving or nothing at all.. i don't feel the need to be in any other position but 1st and I don't share attention of my man in anyway. If he feels the need to watch porn I'm not doing my job right and if I correct it and he still watches then I'm out.. he can have all the porn he wants

  • I'd be fine with my future partner watching it so long as it's nothing illegal and they're not addicted to it. As for me, I'll stick to my steamy romance books, like the dorky nerd I am. lol

  • I better be out of town or super sick if he does.

  • Yes if she is ok with it but i prefer the soft safe porn . Moreover, if she is curious and has fantasies or even want to explore more by watching porn , it’s important to join and satisfy her and make her fulfill it with me and I expect the same from her.. because denying will not help in this relation and the other partner would definitely try several ways to fulfill his fantasies individually and most probably “secretly” because of the lust and your partner has the priority to be satisfied by you.. and IMHO by this way it would never be escalated to be an addiction

  • Of course not, porn is for the mentally ill and degenerate.

    • according to which morality "degenerate" ? watching does not harm anybody.

    • Being mentally ill is not harmful? Classic addict

  • Yes, but if he watch too much it's a turn off. Porn gives unrealistic fantasies/expectations for people, it results to damage in relationships mentally and sexually.

  • Yea why not? just hope that she don't watch weird stuff, it pretty cool if a woman watch it.

  • Not really, if you need to watch other people having sex onscreen to turn you on, then is it not almost like cheating in a sense?

    Maybe I'm a prude, if you can't get turned on with your actual partner in the flesh and be creative yourselves in the sex department, then where is your relationship at?

    • to ofm, content need", the topic was not "turn you on nor you" it was about your lover.

    • @strateguy632 It is written in the context of "you" being anyone (a generalization) that is a partner that watches porn. For instance, if you are the type of person... I guess I could have said "they".

  • I always wanted to explore that with my previous partner but we never got round to it- I have fear of rejection or that he might think I want that all the time.

  • No. Porn is toxic.

    • Indeed it is

  • she can watch so she will allow me to watch. honestly tho' i tried n dont like any of the types i saw.

  • Yep. I'm okay with it.

  • Studies have shown over and over that pornography is detrimental in everyway. Reduces intimacy. Increases violence against women. It creates unreal standards of partner performance and decreases relationship sastisfaction. Hard no.

    • to der, content detrimental, like watching action films makes people shoot each other...

    • sarcasm. i dunno why that word wasnot included when i wrote it?

    • to derm such "studies" were about addiction like need every day. see veryWellMind dot com, but not scattered watching.

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  • I watch porn and we sometimes watch together.

  • Sure. It's porn, he's not fucking strangers in an alleyway.

    • to ag, good distinction

    • I've done both

    • Okay, good for you?

  • As long as is not an addiction I'm okay with it. I also watch it once in a while.

  • Yes, it is totally normal.

  • I would dump his pathetic ass in a heartbeat.

  • Yes, but not anything interactive with a person.
    So porn videos or pics or games sure, but not cam sites or porn chats.

  • I've done P0RN in the past, so i'd let her watch my p0rn vids

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