Would You Rather Get A Massage From A Female Or Male Masseuse?

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Would You Rather Get A Massage From A Female Or Male Masseuse?
Would You Rather Get A Massage From A Female Or Male Masseuse?
Would You Rather Get A Massage From A Female Or Male Masseuse?
Would You Rather Get A Massage From A Female Or Male Masseuse?
Would You Rather Get A Massage From A Female Or Male Masseuse?
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  • As a Massage Therapist for almost 30 years, I would use the therapist who best meets my needs for that particular massage, whether that would be muscle pain from over-exertion, general relaxation, erotic relaxation, hot stones, etc.

    Historically, I've had one male and three female "regular" therapists, which is very consistent with the sex ratio in the profession: about 24/76%. The male was one of my teachers and the most knowledgable, in my opinion, about massage modalities that can actually fix achy muscular conditions, of which I have several. The three females were most skilled in Swedish relaxation; "tool-assisted" techniques such as hot stone, muscle scraping, bamboo, etc; and erotic massage, respectively.
    Sadly, the third lady moved. :- (

    I noticed that many have said they prefer females because they are more "soft" or "gentle". Might I take the liberty of suggesting the terms "smoother" or "more fluid" in delivering their massages as being a bit more accurate?

    A therapist can give a massage that is very "gentle", but it can still be very "choppy" as opposed to "smooth". One can also give a very forceful, deep tissue massage yet do it extremely smoothly. In fact, most DT that I do IS smooth because I am continually feeling for certain changes in the tissue, and I can't feel that if I'm wiggling all around. Overall for relaxing massages of ANY pressure, I prefer females because most of them massage more smoothly and provide a more fluid experience than most males. On a final, personal note, one of my instructors was a tiny wisp of a lady, possibly 92 pounds, soaking wet! Her extensive knowledge of leverage and anatomy allowed her to put incredible amounts of pressure onto a client when needed. It was amazing! Yet, she could still pull off lymphatic work which, at times, requires about 3 grams of pressure- the weight of a dime- for extended periods of time.

    • Ahahahaha it's in your username 🤭🎀🌸

    • Have to try that Mike and Dave swing, though!

    • Ahahahaha 😆

  • Females only. LOL. I don't want a dude touching me and feeling on me. LMAO. A while ago, I used to see this girl at Massage Envy and we became pretty cool with each other. I would see her twice a month. After a couple months, she gave me a hand job on occasions. Lol...

    • That's where I go too!!! I loveeeeeeee it!!!

    • Did she charge u for HJ she gave?

    • But I don't get freaky with the therapist... Yucky 😆🎀😆

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Most Helpful Girls

  • I would say male because I think he wouldn't do small talk like women do and I'm the worst at small talk, I'm completely unable to do it.
    I first I thought maybe women cause having a guy touch me would make me uncomfortable but then i thought of my doctor who's a guy and there's no difference than with a female doctor since they're professional so

    • I would be uncomfortable with a man touching me but I would be even more uncomfortable if I had to do small talk so

    • Thanks sooooooo MUCH for the detailed feedback 🌸🎀🌸

    • I think it's better to give detail, it's easier to get my true opinion then ^-^

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  • I would prefer a female masseuse over male, coz i want to be relaxed during that time.. and its more about relaxing ur body and not being tensed or worried about anything.. I think woman tend to be more safer and gentle

    • That makes sense!!! Thanks for the feedback 🎀

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  • I love feeling a woman massage me because women have softer skin. Receiving a body-to-body massage is wonderful with a girl just because female skin is soooo soft. However, when a guy massages me naked the feeling of a hard cock sliding between my thigh gap and not penetrating me is a wonder feeling.

    • Don't u feel want to be penetrated when that happens?

    • All in good time. 😘

  • I’ve had one massage from a guy. And that was after an injury. Every massage after that has been by females. I remember one from overseas that had some really strong hands... literally had me on the table drooling but she knew what she was doing. She warned me before hand and I accepted the challenge. Walked out of there like a new born baby calf, wobbling and holding onto the wall for balance. Made sure I saw her once a month.

  • I don't care. A massage is usually done by a professional trained to give them. Either male or female will be able to do the job properly.

  • Male of course. I like to feel their strength and big hands. Feel protected then

    • Love the feedback!!! Thanks 🎀

  • I've enjoyed both, guys are stronger and I feel hit my tension more but not as hypnotic. Girls got a softer smoother flow feel like they relax me more.

    • Agreed

    • Love this!!! Thanks for the feedback 🎀

  • From 4 females

  • female.

  • It doesn't matter to me as long as they know what they're doing. I rarely get massages, only when on vacation and my wife and I go to a spa. I've had male and female masseuses in the past, and their gender didn't make a lick of difference in the experience.

  • Female.
    Male if attractive and handsome😄

  • Female, women have that caretaker vibe when they want to use it that not all men have. Plus I can lie to myself and pretend there's a happy ending even though I'm sure their wouldn't be.

    • 😇🎀🎀

  • a woman of any shape and size... but, had to have been born a woman, not "a woman in a man's body"

  • I want to say male, but might not be as relaxed then

    • Totally understandable 🎀

  • I'd prefer a woman. If I'm getting a massage I want to relax and I'd be too nervous to be undressed around a man to relax. Even if I'm not even attracted to him. With another woman I'll feel much more comfortable.

    • Thanks for the feedback 🎀

    • you are welcome :)

    • Of course! :p

  • I'd rather a woman, not that I'd be caught dead in a spa/massage parlour

  • It doesn't matter.

    • Thanks for the feedback 🎀

    • 🙂 The best massage I had was from a man. Nothing sexual... Just knocked me right out to sleep. He had magic hands.

  • My husband gives me relaxing massages. Unfortunately, I can't return the favor 'coz his muscles are too firm for me to massage with any significant impact.

    • That's beautiful 😍

  • Males only. Man hands!

  • I would like a guy to do it so they can really get really deep into the muscle.

    • Sameeeeee 🌸

  • Female.

    Although my partner has good large strong hands

    • Thanks for the feedback 🎀

  • My feet: male.
    Everywhere else and my feet too: female.

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