Are there ways to tell if a man is turned on BESIDES an erection?

I always hear guys say that they get hard ons at inopportune moments all the time but they've learned to hide it or girls just don't notice. So my question is whether there are any other physical signs besides the actual erection? Say you just hugged the girl you like at school and got excited. How does the REST of your body (not your penis) react? Does your skin flush, do you shake, do you tense up? Or is it just business as usual with no obvious signs?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • i think that really depends on the guy, but usually there is a noticeable thing with his actions: if he's trying to act normal, so look for signs that he's a bit too normal, if you know what I mean

    everytime someone the guy feels attracted to is around he will get a little nervous ... usually he will try to conceal that ... but a few things can't be hidden as well as other things ... for example heart rate, blood pressure, etc ... are harder to controll than breathing, but are not that easy to recognize

    if you are turned on by someone, and try to hide that, besides of the erection, you have pretty much the same things you want to hide, so what do you try to hide?

  • It will depend on the guy but you may notice things like his breathing quicking, his hand shaking, his pupils dilating, sifting around (uneasy body language). Pretty much the same signs as non sexual excitement. Chances are he'll also be staring intently at the woman of his desire.

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  • I always notice that a guys breathing will change like when I sit next to him close I can hear heavy breathing. I can only heard it when I sit close to him so that's a sign. Maybe if he puts his hand near his d*** as if he's covering it or touching it or if he fidgets around in his sit could b signs.

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  • It all depends on the guy. I Think for a girl to notice in may case, can be a little difficult, because I will just not stand up or do something to hide it. Unless I want her to notice, now that's a different story.

  • Flushing.

    We stutter a little.

    Even a little heavy breathing.

    • This.

  • a smile :)

  • typically, our pulses also quicken. so just grab his wrist and monitor his heartbeat for several seconds.