Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Hi all, I'm a late boomer who just started having sex.
My boyfriend helped me to overcome my insecurities and overcome my fear of being with another person in bed. And he's been very patient and caring... never pushed me to try things that I do not enjoy and feel uncomfortable with.
We now had sex about 10 times.. and I think i'm getting used to having him inside me (?) finally...
However I'm not sure sex we are having is normal... or not.. something that I need to worry about..
So basically, when we have sex... he enters me and moves back and forth about 2-4 minutes in one position (missionary) and cum. I mean.. I can cum within 1 minute as soon as he enters me and moves around a bit... so I feel like it is not a problem. BUT I've read questions here people saying they tried several sex positions during the intercourse... which I think would take more than 2-4 minutes to try different positions..
I googled average time of sex.. and it says actual penetration is about 3-5 minutes...
Could you share your experience? Do you think 2-4 minutes of sex is.. something I should concern about? Thank you x
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7 32tsll him to ' unload his rif5 " about 3 times a day, anf and in a 9ish weeks, he will be lasting way longer
its really too poor when it comes to penetration, google is not answer for everything, how can you be happy? anything less than 10-15 minute is worse. you not getting sex well.
Since I just started having sex. Even if it seemed short... I was pretty excited and overwhelmed by it... lol. I guess I'd try and figure out a way to have a longer sex with my boyfriend.
He needs so much practice.
2-4 minutes lucky you
45 min
I don't know
Please tell me, How does Vaginal Penetration feels like for You?
Gotta say the prime goal is to cum and the sooner the better = a very good fit between you both
thereafter, many enjoy longer penetration sex sensations until the next cum and longer the next session, et al.
7-10 minutes average. 30 minutes for long sessions.
1 hour is enough
You lost your virginity recently?
yes few weeks ago
At age 30 I'm guessing?
Lucky. I'm 31 and still a virgin.
at age 31. actually...
You were a Virgin by choice I assume?
You chose to be a virgin this long? Because that's normally how it is for women
I play a little game. Every time one of us is close to cumming we stop and let each other know. The build up is incredible. Eventually we cum at the same time and it feels fantastic.
It varies. With my previous boyfriends, withou foreplay it was abou 15-25 minutes thre or more positions. As log as you both enjoy and achieve orgasm it is fine whether 4 or 14 minutes. It is better than no orgasm at all.
My current guy is not able to cum at all even after 40-45 minutes. That is more frustrating than 5-10 minutes quick cum.
You have ever cum from Vaginal Penetration alone?
No reason for concern.
It's long enough for both of you. It's slightly below average, but working. However it's still newish. The more you have the more if he likes he can probably draw it out, but it's highly questionable whether you'd have wanted it drawn out till now since you were still getting used to it.
Thank you
It's a variable.
Sometimes it lasts a minute and sometimes it lasts almost an hour or more.
It all depends on the level of arousal, the last time he came, etc.
On average I last about 20 minutes.