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Big boobs at the beach? how to not look slutty?
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I am a 36d in bra size and my friends and I are going to the beach. they have small boobs so they can wear whatever, but when we went swimsuit shopping they told me to avoid a bikini and to probably avoid a 1 piece because it comes across as slutty when a girl with big boobs wears a bikini or bathing suit. my options now are to wear a tank top with my bra underneath and soffe shorts with panties underneath or to wear basketball shorts and a plain white hanes t shirt. which one would look better? or should I wear the tank top with basketball shorts so I don't show much leg? I don't want to look slutty, please help
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which looks better can you please help?
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What Girls & Guys Said
16 12Being slutty is an attitude. Just wear what makes you feel comfortable and happy :)
wear whatever you feel comfortable in. If your friends are putting you down, you should reconsider who you're calling 'friend'
they aren't putting me down they just don't want me to look like a slut. which would look better?
maybe link up photos? I can't tell what your body shape is. How tall are you? how much do you weigh? My advise is to wear whatever you feel comfortable in.. wear a bikini!
I don't have any photos of myself because I haven't bought any of the items lol but I'm 5'2 116 pounds and I think almost an hourglass but my boobs are too big!
there is no such thing as boobs too big on an hourglass figure. be as gorgeous as you can with what you have. personally I think hiding big boobs or baggy tops make you look bigger all over so cinch-in at the waist and be you. reassure your friends that at your age you can see for yourself you're not so there's no problem.
*not so = not slutty
lol don't listen to your jealous friends, you got em flaunt em.
which would look better though?
They're telling you to avoid a two piece AND a one piece? What jealous beotches, they don't want to be ignored. Now to your question. I've ALWAYS been partial to the one piece over the bikini.