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Big Muscles, Small Package. Am I Shallow?
RoCkStAR1985 Xper 5
So I was kinda dating this guy who I really nice, sweet and hot (big muscles). A couple months later we got Intimate and OH Surprise! His package was really thin and small. I felt like laughing because that was just so ironic, but like a good girl I didn't say anything and finished. I couldn't really believe it after that I just did not want to know much about him, so I did the guy thing and did not really talk to him for a while. Is been almost a month and a half and I'm starting to feel bad. He obviously got the message now and stopped being persistent. My reasons for my behavior are not only due to his small penis, but because I got scared that I was getting really comfortable with him and I have been hurt a lot and the fact that he has a small d*** didn't matter much to me was also scary. He actually did a really good job with his mouth but I don't know if putting up with his small package is something I want to do in order to have a relationship...am I being shallow? and if so how can I fix things? I feel like I did something wrong, or did I do the right thing?
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P.S. iS not like if I'm only into Big Packages, my previous boyfriend was actually not big, more like average. And Muscles guy had other things I didn't like(obsessed with money)Is not he repulses me like I said "I was Getting Too Comfortable with Him" and
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Why I Mentioned the"laugh"was because it was Ironic,I just assumed that a guy like him would have at least an average size package not such a small one.NO! I'm not into looks, but along with other personal traits,it was what made it easy 4 me 2 say BYE
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What Girls & Guys Said
13 36It's strange because the sick of a mans package has never determined to me whether I stay with him or not, you obviosuly don't like him that much so might be best to end it if his "small package" is something you can't get over.
You are not shallow ,you know what you want and what makes you feel good. BTW big muscles don't equal small packages...trust me. ;)
To simply answer your ?...yes, you are shallow.
Other people on this site already gave you a piece of their mind, & I don't have much to add to what has been already said.
But I will say this...if his "package" was the ONLY thing that made you not want to date him (as in you really liked him b4 this situation occurred), then I think you're simply being too picky, & will never find a good dude (focus on the word "good").
Your best bet is to let him find someone who prefers what he has and that person is not you. When reading your post, I keep hearing I'm not this or this or this. Actually, yes you are all those. Which is fine, but just admit it or you'll find yourself in a similar situation in the future.
thanks!
Sounds sorta shallow...
So wait... Any guy that wants to get built some time in his life has to be born with a 9inch penis?
explain your point...
So to you.. ANY man that EVER wants to work out in his life HAS to be BORN with a giant ass d***? What the hell is wrong with you? Seriously.
dont feel obligated to date him. if ther is something you don't like, then don't bother with him.
yes definitely this is the definition of shallow judging a person by what they cannot control, and women call me shallow when I say I would prefer to marry a virgin, something that is very well in their control, what a laugh
not saying its wrong to want a big d*** its just your preference and that's fine we want what we want and nobody should settle
thanks. You're right!
Very Shallow but so are a lot of people. You should of at least had the decency to call him and give him a lame excuse though.
i agree
His muscles were probably big because of the steroids that made his package small...
No you are not shallow, you know what you want.
well you can't f*** a personality . go for a guy who treats you good.
whats a good size to you then?
well at least like 6 to 7 inches and NOT thin. Like I mentioned before I'm not asking for nothing great but his was small and thin
6 around like the best you think?
yeah lol
Am I the only guy curious about how small he was?
Muscles guys usually trying to compensate something you should have know that...Omg if he has skills with his mouth and has a penis doesn't matter what size if you like it...i mean it's not the size is how you use it right?!
I just don't think you ever liked him for you to think like that...
You are shallow and you know that so are everybody some are more than others that's all...
I think sex is important but I had a great relationship with a guy with slightly smaller than average package. We just found different moves that worked better at times and other times he"d go down on me. I am a big sex person, it is very important but overall just because he was smaller than normal wasn't a deal breaker because I did care about him. However other issues broke us up and I went to a normal sized guy which really didn't make a difference.
Now I am with a muscled (very muscled but in a good way guy) and was surprised that he was actually larger than normal. Several inches bigger than normal and thicker which is taking some adjusting to because of obvious reasons, so not all muscled guys are compensating or using steroids... he certainly isn't and I got to be his first.
You probably didn't want to date him and were searching for an excuse.
yes, shallow is the word for you
muscle guy is muscley and obsessed with money because he's trying to compensate for his small d***. And women say size doesn't matter. Well it obviously mattered to that guy.
That is pretty funny! How small we talking?
You see, THIS is why I stay away from the gym and let myself waste away like an anorexic hipster. When I take my pants off, my 3 inch monster looks HUGE next to the rest of my body!
LMFAO!
LOL!