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Can you be too horny?

i am a virgin and for the past monthish I have been extremely extremely horny! I have been masturbating every chance I can using a bunch of different toys. I thought if I would masturbate more I could get back to "normal horny me" hah but so far no. I want to wait for the right guy to lose my virginity to, but I'm afraid the only way to calm my self down is to lose it. Helppp The smallest things set me off. Like in my college class the guy sitting next to me is extremely hot, he readjusted in his seat by spreading his legs apart and did this deep sigh as he ran his hand down his thigh. I just wanted to throw myself on him! Not just him either its happened a lot! I have never been like this before. Am I too horny? ha ha I don't know if being this horny is normal
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  • Too Horny? Short answer is no. Too horny and a virgin? Short answer yes.

    Basically you feel all pent up and no amount of self satisfaction seems take care of the issue.

    I don't know your sexual history but clearly your OK with masturbation. You obviously are OK with getting off. But you clearly sound like you want something more. The important thing is progressively determining what it is that will satisfy you.

    You don't need to find the "right guy". Pretty much you need to find a good guy. Tell him that you need him to help you work some stuff out. Tell him that you want his help to experiment.

    If the guy is single, attracted and believes you; he will do what ever you need. It sounds like you need to fool around with a guy until you work out what it takes to scratch this proverbial itch. You established that your a virgin whom can get herself off. But how far have you gone with a guy. If a guy adjusting himself sets you off maybe you need to get into some guys pants and get hands-ons.

    This sounds like penis obsession. Plenty of girls have had penis obsession at one point or another. Most of them go a bit crazy until they realize that their boyfriends and or makeout buddies have no issue with them tugging down the guys trousers and handling the guys equipment. Set the expectation that there isn't going to be sex first and if you help the guy get off he'll let you do anything but take pictures. Curiosity sated; obsession abated; virginity intact.

  • Nope. That's just about the level of horny that every guy you know is. Always. Welcome to our world.

    Know that if you do end up throwing yourself on a guy, you will instantly be his dream girl. A girl who ALWAYS wants to have sex? Perfect woman.

    Also know that having sex will definitely NOT fix your horniness problem. If the man is at all skilled, it will make things worse. If not, it will leave you just as unsatisfied as before. So, if you really care about who takes your virginity, you would be better off 'bating and waiting.

    • hah your world is intense, I feel for you guys hah. I didn't even think about your last point there! But that makess so much sense! thanks mister

    • Isn't that a myth? About guys thinking of sex like 92% of the time?

Most Helpful Girls

  • it's normal, how I feel a lot. but I don't actually hook up so easily or often because I don't let myself be like that.

    but when I do hook up I get pretty into it and the guys have been quite pleased

  • I just reach this level of horny a few months ago. And it's sort of unbearable. I understand your agony. Thanks for asking this question. :)

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  • No you're not too horny, just have sex already!

  • It's normal given your age. You just have a very high sex drive. Masturbation will calm the urge for about 24hrs at best, then your horny again. Yeah I know the feelings. Sex won't be to much different then masturbation. It's like a drug. Once you get some, you have to have more. You won't be able to have sex just once and then not do it again for years, which is why, if anything, I would still wait to be in a committed relationship before you lose your V card, otherwise your going to watch to scratch that itch all the time but have no one to help you do it.

    • So right! Thanks for your answer!

  • First, good for you for waiting for the right guy to have sex with, keep at it! Many lose their virginity for the wrong reasons and spend their lives regretting it. Second, NO YOU CAN'T BE TOO HORNY! Well I guess you can if you really think about it but what you explained is perfectely fine! You're a young female and you've got powerful hormones coarsing through your blood, of course its natural for you to be horny. As long as you're not hurting yourself or letting this get in the way of more important things in your life, keep masturbating and have fun, you're completely normal.

  • Being horny is normal. If you masturbate it usually helps but if not, maybe try masturbating in a different place like in public of at the dinner table, or in the car or public transport. Do it in a stealthy way so there is little chance of being caught but you can enjoy the sense of risk of getting caught. Women are luckier than men by having a clit and vagina, if a guy does it , it is more obvious and risks people seeing his erection or wet spot on trousers if unlucky, girls can hide there hornyness better eg no bulge in pants, you could try leaving a dildo inside you while out, or could finger yourself quietly. a female friend showed me a dildo she still had inside her p****, she was pantyless and we were on public transport. The thrill to her was orgasmic but she kept it quiet as she wanted no one to know about what she was doing, except me of course, a bit like doing something forbidden but worthwhile. She enjoys it. Sitting there playing with herself and getting off on it secretly, if she had not shown me her p**** and what she was doing I would never have known, but it satisfied her big time. Just make sure to have a rag or something to wipe up any wetness left behind.

  • being horny is a frame of mind. I am in the same boat you are. I am a virgin but am so horny I want to have sex. The best advice I can offer is wait for the right moment so there are no regrets. You can't go back once you lose it so choose wisely.

  • Well how about you talk to that guy. I sometimes wish more girls should be horny in public. Because I would get a chance haha.

  • I just saw "too horny?" and came in to shout nooooooo! ^_^

    • hahah thanks

    • My pleasure.

  • Im like this. lol

  • omg! I'm the same way haha

  • I hear you! I am the same way! What I can tell you is even with someone it don't go away you just end up wanting to constantly do that person you are with!

  • It's normal, I here a lot of girls are like this on their periods aswell.

  • You can't be too horny! If it feels good then just do it, nothing beats a horny wet p****, even thinking about it gets me hard!

  • -What can I do to make you happy?
    -Just fuck me.
    NO girl ever! Would you want to be the first?

  • Yes you are normal. I like that everyday too.

    You are such a good girl! ;)

  • it will fall off, you will have stages of peak horniness and ones where you won't be horny at all

  • horniness can rise and fall continuously, not a bad thing if you're on a rise, perhaps I could help you release on snap?😋 hmu Chandler-john

  • Can you add me on snap chat : joe_isaboss


  • Have you ever completely put your toy all the way in

  • I Think its normal im horny all the time aswell haha

  • Hmm where you from? Lol ;)

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