You are judging yourself WAY too hard here.
Lots of guys don't finish from BJs. For a long time, I didn't/couldn't myself. That didn't mean I didn't really enjoy them; the problem was ME being completely comfortable with them, because in the beginning, it didn't happen super often, and I didn't push very hard because I was more concerned with pleasing her. But I never felt like I was being cheated or that sex was bad or anything like that because of it. I knew it was MY issue, not HER issue.
I mean, let's be real: he was getting to have sex with you. Sex is kind of the ultimate, like riding the biggest roller coaster in the amusement park. When it's good, it's GREAT, and when it's bad, it's still pretty good. I'm sure he meant every word he said. Plus, sex is always exciting when you have a new partner, and a new body to explore and admire, and new things to try and new reactions to enjoy. What's not to like?
I'm not saying everything every guy has ever said during sex was true, but this guy had zero reason to lie: you were already willingly having sex with him!
Guys really don't judge girls very harshly on "skill" or "technique"; enthusiasm and fun are FAR more important, and it sounded like he got those things from you in abundance, so he was good to go.
Don't be so harsh a critic on yourself, and don't overanalyze what guys say so much. The vast majority of the time, guys say what they think and mean what they say (for good or bad). We don't get a lot of practice with subtlety or subtext, so it doesn't come naturally for most of us. We prefer our communication simple, straightforward, and honest.5 0 0 0He might have, but those comments sound very immature and over the top from him. I personally don't mind a few words getting thrown out during sex, but I do not make an effort to talk unless some even occurs during the moment. My longest conversation during sex was
Me: "Are you on birth control?"
Girl: "No"
Me: "phew"
Also the whole bj thing. I had a girl that I really enjoyed spending time with, but for the life of me I couldn't get an orgasm during a bj from her. On one occasion she got obviously frustrated that I couldn't finish and she left visible damage upon my penis from her teeth. Girls that use their teeth during a bj obviously do not realize what kind of ill advised stunt they are pulling.
Anyways, the whole bj thing, I wouldn't get flustered after one bj with him. After 2 and he still struggles you might want to move on to using hands or just simply talking the whole thing over with him.0 0 0 0
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1 2Genuinely yes, if he's complimenting you, he likes what he sees and trying to get you hotter/closer to cumming. If he's too talkative, then it could be a turnoff. Usually If I ask my girl something once and she likes it, I'll keep doing it or variations. A guy that's half good at sex shouldn't have to talk because he can read your body language and breathing.
0 0 0 0Perhaps you should be less easy and wait for someone special to come into your life to have intercourse? It's already to late for your virginity. If only you could have saved yourself for your husband...
4 0 2 1lol
Laugh now. It really is a shame and when your older you will regret it. I can guarantee you that.
I won't regret it. Whatever, you troll.
Sometimes.
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