If you don't feel comfortable doing something tell him, he should understand and will stop. It may hurt since it is your first time, trust me it hurt a little for me. In the morning you may hurt a little but it goes away. For the positions I have no idea but I know what its like for the height difference because I'm 5'5 and he is 5'9.
If the guy is way taller, cowgirl always works well. Doggie style as well.
Dont expect to cum or find it pleasurable on the first time. Just focus on being with him and you too sharing something special
Being relaxed is very important, as is foreplay. Most important is that he uses a condom- no excuses!
Congrats!
Thanks for the MHO
Felicidades🎉
Be sure you wanna loose it, and with who.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!My strongest advice would always be to just not rush doing it and make sure you are with someone you love and trust. I have made that mistake sadly. My first time was with my best friend at the time who one night revealed to me he had been in love with me for years (I wasn't attracted to him but cared for him a lot) we ended up kissing and I was thinking "well I want to have this experience, I trust him a lot so why not" and we ended up having sex. I can't say he wasn't careful I mean first time is first time but it wasn't bad by any means it's just that I regretted having this experience with someone I didn't have feelings for. I got caught up in the moment, I guess the age- hormones played a part and only when I woke up the next morning I realized what I've done and wished it were only a dream. We did it two other times in an attempt for a relationship-friends with benefits kind of thing mostly because I was frustrated with this in a way but it didn't work out and it ruined our friendship as well in the end. So just do it when you are completely ready and with someone you love and trust.
Choose the right person.. make sure it’s love and not just a hook up.
Try the kitchen table :-) Him standings next to it and you laying on it. Make sure you’re warmed up enough with foreplay and all is wet enough on both sides. Make him go slow the first time. I don’t know if you already enjoyed yourself with a couple of fingers inside or a toy, that might help and make sure you’re all set re. anticonception, std tests and/or condoms.
Is this the female version of the guy's favorite question here "Is my dick big enough"? I see this question from girls quite often. on how to lose their virginity. What is with that anyway besides the best female troll question they can come up with? Maybe you would get a better answer out of a fortune cookie. :)
Is it that deep bitch 😂
Well you obviously think so enough to post it. Whenever I post a fun question ( people seem to think fun questions and not being serious is trolling) I get called out on it so I'm passing the buck.
How did it go?
It went fine. It didn't hurt during it too bad but I'm a bit sore now. Overall I enjoyed it.
Try having condom-safe lubricant available next time, and make sure you're in a very aroused state before penetration. It will help reduce the soreness. What are you doing about contraception?
The pill and he used a condom
Congratulations. =)
Are you happy with the experience?
I don't expect you to have orgasmed or anything but I hope it at least was positive?
Oh man the V card is worth so much today. I would hold out as long as possible. You're a unicorn, go do magical shit.
STFU!
Just relax, go with the flow and do what comes naturally. Try not to over think it an remember, you can always say stop, you dont even need a reason to.
Actually, missionary position works regardless of your height.
Missionary will work just fine and is the most appropriate position for first time couples.
Very true. Even a 13 inch (or more) height difference doesn't mean that missionary won't work. It might be harder to kiss but otherwise it should be just fine.
@CallMeDave my boyfriend is 13” taller than me and there are zero problems.
At least you got the first time over with. It should be better the next time out.
Height makes no difference at all, especially in the missionary position.
But I'd like to eye to eye with him, wouldn't his face be higher then my face?
He can always lower himself down on you with his arms.
@AbdKilani he's gonna help u
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You are so bad 😂😂
Deep breaths and let him take control. Missionary will still work with him taller than you.
How'd it go? Did people's tips help?
Yes they did. I didn't think we would be able to do missionary because of our height difference but I was wrong. I've never been good at physics I guess lol
That's good, hopefully you enjoyed it too lol. Missionary is one of the easier positions for just about anyone. Especially if you use the bed and he is standing. Don't need to be a physics major so no worries :p
That's the position we used the most. It worked to say the least lol
Keep your expectations low, this ain't no porn or Hollywood love scene.
Oh and condoms, we don't wanna see you on here in a few weeks posting "Help I think I might be pregnant?"
Wait! Big tip!
For the girl losing virginity, any girl, I'd say i know you're nervous but try to take the lead. You want to make him go slow, guide him in and probably use lube because your love tunnel will be very tight. There's going to be some blood on the sheet so I'd say have some towels laid out. Don't let the guy just slam you on the bed all unprepared. You'll be frustrated and later so will he. Make sure he really is important to you. You're giving him a tremendous gift. Expect him to give you a lovely gift before the act. If he's a virgin he'll be really clumsy but just whisper "it's ok darling" and avoid to laugh if you can at all. Sorry to tell you this but for the girl it's not that pleasurable the first time and the ejaculate may not even land inside you, it might end up on your legs, things like that. Don't worry though, the next time it will be better, easier and give you some pleasure and you'll be on the journey of learning which position suits you more and deciding if you like to start off with touches around the body etc.
Lots of lube, it WILL hurt, towel for the blood, make sure you guys talked about it, wear protection always and check to make sure it worked. And relax
Hmm. Tallest women I had great sec with was 5.11 only 5” taller then me. Just because guy tall. His pride not always porn hight but if you have feelings. He love of your life. And you feel ready. Up to you.
But even if it’s your first time and he haven’t been testing or booth you to go to see him get tested. Use protection. Sure words and nice. Trust is huge! But let’s be honest. Booth sexes will lie. And if guy say he in military. They don’t test for for all STI.
Unless you too got married and your post this just because. Then enjoy your night or day
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