Does squirting create more friction than regular (being wet) vaginal fluids?

[arriba]

I am 7 1/2 long and 6 1/2 thick. Before this I had never hurt with sex, only the girls I have been with hurt after many hours of it. I have a great girl that I've been dating for about a month and after the 10th time we had sex in the same weekend my penis started hurting. Now it hurts whenever we have sex. I have abrasions where my shaft and head meet. They close a day afterward and appear again after sex. THen I can't have sex anymore...This sucks because we started excellent and now she thinks I'm cheating on her or something because my sex drive doesn't seem the same. I am used to holding myself because girls start hurting while my sex drive is still going. I am not used to being the one hurting. I feel like sh*t now. I think it's due to making her squirt. Maybe I've been hitting the g-spot area to hard? Does a woman's squirt create more friction than regular vaginal fluid (getting wet fluid)? I was thinking of taking time off when she goes on her period to hopefully recuperate. Any suggestions or insights would be helpful. Thanks

[selfishstars]

The fluids are different. I'm a squirter, and I notice that when I squirt, it sometimes washes away some of my natural lubricant. The fluid that I squirt is a "thinner" fluid than my natural lubricant, so things are less "slippery" and sex can start to become uncomfortable. It's never caused abrasions to my partner though.

I would suggest talking to your girl about it---be honest so that she has no reason to think you're cheating. Explain the problem you've been having and maybe suggest incorporating artificial lubrication into your sex life (Astroglide or something after she squirts; or maybe even try a silicone-based lube---it doesn't "wash away" as easily as water-based lubes).

[jacquesvol]

I don't think squirting could cause this: if anything it would give better lubrication.

But is it squirting or a urine leak? Some girls leak when orgasming. This could cause irritation since urine is acid.

Maybe you've been hitting the g-spot area to hard indeed. ("only the girls I have been with hurt after many hours of it. " & "because girls start hurting while my sex drive is still going. I am not used to being the one hurting." )

[debsman]

No they aren't the same fluids. When a woman squirts it is not a lube-type fluid rather it is more like water. That is probably why you're having the problems you're having. Ya might wanna keep some KY-Gel on hand from now on.

[arriba]

I think you are right. I did have lube but she made me throw it away because it wasn't new...haha

[debsman]

I've been through the "fluid" experience. My wife squirts every time she cums, so I know the difference. We keep lube handy all the time.

[johndugan11]

Definitely check with your doctor. Continue to use condoms, continue to get tested, continue to shower best and continue to use a penis health creme if you want the best below the belt area! Cheers.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

... Since when does increasing the fluidity of something add to the friction. That's just a basic misunderstanding of physics. It would lead to less friction. So chances are if you gave it a rest for a week it would get better because it's probably just due to exertion.

[arriba]

Plain water makes more friction than Lubricant does right?

[arriba]

I know physics...You would be right unless they are different fluids. Are they the same?

[longrodvonhugendong]

Squirting fluid is thinner than normal vaginal secretion. I don't know if it does, but it could wash out some of the normal secretion. That would cause more friction. Masturbate with lotion or really soapy water, then masturbate with plain water. You'll see which has more friction.

[TheGoodTheBadTheHOT]

okay, admittedly different fluids will have different values of friction, but I doubt they would be so different as to effect your penis to such an extent. let me reword my answer and forgive me if I f*** this up, I'm tired; Increasing the fluidity of something will generally lead to less friction -Unless the fluid added is more viscous/coarse than its predecessor, for those of you who wish to be pedantic- so the chances are that you're exhausting your penis, if you want you could try lube.

[Nizzzzzz]

I'm a woman and I go through the same thing. If I have sex without reaching the squirting climax, I feel normal afterwards. However, if I have sex and reach a squirting climax, I feel like I have rug burn down there and sometimes have to stop before my partner finishes. The reasoning is that the consistency of squirting is mostly water based and washes away the woman's natural lubricant. Water absorbs very quickly and leaves direct skin on skin contact. The amount of fluid is insignificant if it's water based (the reason no one in their right mind would masterbate with water). Since your girl is a squirter, she'll know the exact feeling that you feel on your penis, she's probsbly gotten just to it. I would explain to her. She'll definitely understand

[Anonymous]

I would get checked for a std just to be safe.

[jacquesvol]

Indeed +5 !