I had my hymen popped by a finger when I was 17. The hymen CAN grow back if left alone completely for a few years, but it usually grows back thicker and lower making the next time much more painful, or it will be thinner and a bit higher making it almost painless with much less blood. Mine grew back thinner. The guy was being very rough, though. It's not about how gentle you are, or how wide you stretch the vagina, it's about how deep you go. The "G Spot" is beyond the Hymen. The hymen is a protective layer of skin that is supposed to keep out dirt and other contaminants. Once we reach sexual maturity, and our reproductive organs are fully formed, the hymen is no longer needed.
cute...lol
our vaginas are built to withstand babies !
they are made of steel...or just some really strong muscles haha.
anyway, losing your virginity can be defined any number of ways depending on your beliefs.
but for me, it is when a penis enters into a vagina.
the most you can do to it with your fingers without causing any damage is stretch it out [ if the girl is a virgin ].
i remembered when I got fingered the first time [ I was a virgin and still am ],
my opening was the size of the guy's fingers. that's all lol
so don't worry, cut those nails if they're long, and have fun :]
Some will argue that the term "Losing your virginity" is when the hymen, or cherry, is broken.. If that is how you see it, than there is a very good chance that you will break her hymen.
BUT, most people will agree that you are still a virgin until you have penis vaginal intercourse, which I think is completly accurate.
I mean some girls, like me, can have their hymen break while working out. Activities such as gymnastics, horseback riding, bike riding, ect.. can all break the hymen, and that for sure does not make your virginty gone forever. :)
I was about to write pretty much word for word what you did. Honestly, some guys are completely clueless about female anatonmy
It is possible.
And as "smarter than me" said, it is also possible to be a bit carefull and not break the hymen, and still have real vaginal sex.
And if anything gets broken, there are plastic surgeons that will put everything in place, so "the next guy" won't know the difference. ;)
If you ask me, beside that being "narrow" or anything else physical, being a virgin is a state of mind... When you see that "she" doesn't have a clue what will happen, when you see those shy reactions, that uncorrupted behavior etc etc, that's more of a value...
Virginity is a state of body, mind and spirit and is intercourse, whether a minute or an hour. A finger is masturbation no mater whose it is and does not affect virginity.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!oh man funny funny. Listen to the guys answers - its fairly straightforward.
Basically , if you break the hymen you break the hymen. If a penis enters a vagina it is sex = loss of virginity. Breaking hymen with anything other than the penis, is not intercourse- - therefore not loss of virginity.
But does not mean it will not hurt like a bit*ch. Be gentle! Don't jam it in.
Virginity, like what sugashawtie said, is what people think of it. And people's thoughts on this vary. Personally I don't think that I'm not a virgin if I'm being fingered (I'm not a virgin btw). I think once you have sex, your not a virgin. Some people think when the girl gets her "cherry popped" then she's not a virgin, which you could do while fingering her.
Relax, fingering does not mean loosing virginity.
full sex with someone once, and that is virginity lost, playing like that, don't worry its not counted. lol
It depends on how big your fingers are and how many you insert into your vagina at one time. I fingered myself when I was a virgin and I was fine. When I lost my virginity though-the sh*t hurt like a muth&f*&%^ But everyone's different and reacts to pain differently.
Fingering a girl's vagina cannot cause her to loose her virginity. She only looses it when a penis is inserted into her vagina.
Fingering cannot damage her virginity, though it can make it less painful. When someone fingers her, or if she fingers herself, she or he may break her own hymn or her hymn can be broken due to the fingering.
I'm pretty sure it depends on what the girls beliefs are with virginity.
sometimes if a guy fingers her too hard tho, he can break her hymen. but she can't ultimately lose her virginty until she's actually had vaginal sex. at least that's how I see it.
Someones virginity is whatever that person thinks it is. One girl may believe that she has lost her virginity if she has been fingered, another girl may only feel she is not a virgin if she has had intercourse. So if she feels that if you fingered her, she has not lost her virginity then she hasn't.
I have taken girls virginity just by looking at them, that's how gorgeous I am.
it might slit her hymen...but that's not considered as loosing virginity!
Virginity no. Hymen yeah.
technically no, you are still a virgin until you have actual sex
I don't consider fingering to be sex. I think you are safe. Then again, I am a complete virgin.
Is it possible for a guy to finger u with 2 fingers n pop ur heman?
It isn't considered losing your virginity, unless you pop her cherry. But I still wouldn't consider it losing your virginity. Depends on the person I guess. She won't lose her virginity unless you shove like 5 fingers in there. But it all really depends on who it is.
no, the only way a girl losing her virginity is from a penis, not a finger.
oral is sex and you can lose you vriginty then so no penis isn't the only way to lose your virginity
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