For single girls who want sex

[Anonymous]

would you rather sleep with your friend or get drunk and have one night stand?

[the-love-guru]

Hmm, tricky one. I lose either way. If I sleep with my friend, I've just compromised the relationship, and made it a completely awkward situation. On the other hand, a one night stand means sleeping with someone whose sexual history is completely unknown, putting myself at risk. Also, you've just lost the respect of a complete stranger. Not sexy.

I'd have to say friend. At least they know my character, I'd likely know their sexual health, etc. Yeah, it would be awkward for a bit, but I'm good at confronting an awkward situation, and call me naive, but maybe it could even lead to a relationship. Hey, it does in the movies! :)

[Asker]

Protections helps for stranger

[the-love-guru]

Yeah, but the condom isn't made out of iron. You still put yourself at risk... it's not worth it.

[when-the-rain-fall]

Neither. It would be extremely awkward to sleep with a friend and I couldn't bring myself to sleep with a total stranger. If there is even a sudden hesitation, vibrator is always the answer. No awkward mornings, no unwanted pregnancy, plus guaranteed orgasm. Did I mention guaranteed orgasm? Several times. in a row. until you don't want it anymore? lol

[Asker]

But there is no passionn during it, is there? a guy cud at least offer you on orgasm

[when-the-rain-fall]

I don't think there would be any passion behind having sex with one of my friends,and if I do end up sleeping with a stranger, I know I must have been drunk unconsciously. So, my answer still sticks to neither. :)

[Asker]

Lol ok, I preciated ur answer, seems like no1 will get you into unless its ur bf, isn't it?

[when-the-rain-fall]

Yeah, it's just not my thing. Why, is there a friend that you want to sleep with er something?

[Asker]

I do hv one, just want to know wot other think of it we both dnt want relationship and find each other sexually attractive

[rajfullmasti]

hi

[cheerangelcharity]

well neither but if I had to choose I would choose sleeping with a friend as long as 1) I find him attractive 2) he's of legal age [I'm almost 21 but I have many guy friends who are younger than 18 and one new one really seems to have a crush on me now] and 3) somehow I know that things aren't going to get awkward for us because of that.

[Asker]

Cool cool, tths good =]

[gravygirl]

When I was single I always preferred friends. I guess I need to be flattered a little. I always liked the idea of giving a guy something that he'd wanted for a long time.

[Donavin]

Hey message me back

[giggy]

This is a good one for girls but to be honest-me speacking for guys- its only wrong and would ruin the friendship if the person you slept with actualy wanted more of a relationship, but if it was just a friend one nighter and it wasn't anything more. it wouldn't matter and you could do it. and if you were doing it drunk then you have an excuse

"i'm sorry I didn't know what I was doing-" says women.

"it's okay you were drunk"

but if you weren't drunk and you just did it you have a good chance of being called a slut.

[smilezz]

one nighter

[3cheersfor5yrs]

the thought of having sex with any of my guy friends makes me cringe. ew, no thank you.

[Asker]

Wit if you find him sexually actrractive?

[3cheersfor5yrs]

Yeah I guess if I found one of them attractive and I was desperate I would. but I can't have sex with someone and not get attached... so I think our friendship would be ruined and awkward and weird. and I wouldn't want to do it with a total stranger. I would just please myself until I got a boyfriend.

[Asker]

Oh I know, its not easy for girls to not to be emotionally attached, its biology ^^

[Linsey]

oh and I forgot to add, to not be too drunk because then you would most likely forget about protection etc:)

[Asker]

Hvnt once forget abt it =]

[Linsey]

Lol that's good! ill admit I have forgotten to mention it if the guy forgot too, once or twice....whoopsie

[Asker]

=O lol at least ur alright from it too be honest I cudve forgotten if the last girl not kept saying abt it so dnt all rely on teh guy to remember =]

[Linsey]

LOL I don't think with a friend, I just think it would be so awkward. so I say get drunk and have a one night stand! lol

[studmuffin-perfect10]

Drunkard!

[adorkabletmtm]

Friend

[Sheryl]

dunno, it's all the same if theyr'e both ugly

[Asker]

If they both hot?

[beaubaby1]

uhm. one night stand. you probably will never see them again. you will def see your friend again. lol. how awkward!

[nicolebuffalow]

friend

[shy-gurl32]

i would rather get drunk and have a 1 nite stand plus it sounds like more fun

[hotlittleman]

I would just rather get drunk & have sex with someone I don't know

[sammy1]

sleep with my friend

[Anonymous]

i would rather get drunk and have a one night stand because you or less likely to face that person later on knowing that's all you used them for...and that way it wouldn't ruin a friendship...

[Anonymous]

with my friend of course (: if it's with a friend and it's good sex you can always do it again. but if it's a one night stand you won't ever see the person again.

[Anonymous]

both!

[Anonymous]

You don't have to be drunk to have a One Night Stand, if fact if you do it with a clear head and are sure about your decision then you won't feel bad and guilty about having one!

[Asker]

I know that but some people are too shy to be fun, rgith? alcohol helps

[Anonymous]

haha I always wanted to do the drunk thing but now that I look back I'd rather have sex with my friend.I know him, trust him, and for what I know is STDless. beside's I kind of like him.

[Anonymous]

I'd rather sleep with a friend. For the basic reason that I can probably trust him and that it's safer since I know him. =]