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GUYS. If you put a girl's hand on your crotch while making out?
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Do you EVER just expect her to stroke it? Would it be too frustrating , having her stroke it then moving away without you cumming or without it going towards sex... Would you ever JUST want her to TOUCH it- NO STRINGS ATTACHED? Inversely, if she seemed OK with YOU PUTTING IT THERE would you expect a hand job , blow job, or sex? Would you loose interest in MAKING OUT in general, after putting her hand there, if none of the aforementioned were provided? Would it be a deal breaker , if you did not know her very well yet? I.E it would seem like she had a hag up with sex , or sexual things etc. & sex , was something that you are very comfortable with, & would only want to date people who are comfortable too... ?
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WANACOT: "Pretty much any guy is gonna be disappointed if you just stroke it a bit then move away." What if you stroked it fora loooooooooong time? Do guys ever like there penis to be stroked Lightly, or just Hard? What about Slow Vs. Fast?
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1 25Slow isn't too bad but if a girl starts touching my crotch its going to lead me to believe were about to have sex. Just saying don't be a tease. if your going to touch you might wanna finish the deal.
Yeah, I would probably not want to do that unless meant to OFFER. lol I wonder if you could tell me tho, if YOU were to guide HER hand to your crotch, would you still EXPECT sex, if she did not remove her hand? Would it make a difference if you were dressed or not? ( I mean would you expect it more if you were half dressed rather than fully dressed? _ boxers instead of jeans, for example? Do yo think it is ok for a guy to do that, if you are already making out? Does it make it cheep?
Well if I was the one to guide her hand, I wouldn't exactly expect sex but if she didn't move it away that's pretty much a sign. Being dressed doesn't make that much of a differrence becasue your still touching his crotch. It depends how comfortable you are with the guy to make it ok.
I'm glad you made that point. - " It depends how comfortable you are with the guy to make it ok. - An hour ago " I do not think their is anything inherently disrespectful about it but people seem to.. & Basically if a guy thinks you want have sex, he probably figures you're ok if you touch him - on top of boxers too, so that is like a warning. " wouldn't exactly expect sex but if she didn't move it away that's pretty much a sign " You mean if she does not move it you think she WANTS sex?
I love it whenever my girlfriend touches it, no matter when or for how long. Once we watched a movie at her parents house and we had a blanket over us. That's when she did it for a really long time and I cummed, but usually we don't have enough time together to make that happen. It's okay though cause I really love her and I just want to be with her.
yes stroking is good
It iust not like just teasing you because you want sex?
No just feels good while making out, you don't have to get the guy to bust
That is great t know , but so many people say it means he wants sex or a blow job that I would worry I was leading him on cause I know am not ready ti have sex, & I do not intend to give anyone a blow job. I wonder why some people are satisfied that it just feels good & others have such strong opposition to anything short of a hand ob , & really think it should be sex. - What NOT to do so he does not get the wrong idea. How many minutes could you handle being stroked, before going nuts? :-)
Well just be open with him and ask him if the stroking is gunna lead to something more your not ready for, and if that's the case then your not gunna do it at all =) and see what his reaction is, that way there's no silly confusion and no extra pressure on anyone
Yeah if course I guess am trying to figure but what would have happened if I had not moved away... I am a bit curious to know how carried away he can get - asking him would be really awkward right now- Hey if lets say my hand was there while we were making out , but idid t know what he meant by it, should I just stop everything or ask him about it... Is it immature to just stop & go away or is it ok cause you know you can't do what he might want? Thanks!
Np, lets make things a little clear, did you put your on hand, or did he take your hand and put it there?
:-) Ok. but don't judge ( just clarify) cause he is not a jerk, it was a confusing situation & having been there I really do not think he did I in a creepy way (I am very reserved , I do mot make excuses for people sexually - this was almost innocent lol) he was under misconception that I def. wanted to have sex, & he tried to talk me out f it for a long time.. Plus, it was OVER his boxers. Ok, having said that, as you can assume he sort of guided my hand there, but it was slow & gentle :)
Also coud you tell me the different implications of each different thing. without judgement - haha Thanks! :-)