Guys what do you really think when asked to wear a condom?

[Anonymous]

So last weekend I hooked up with a guy I used to date. There's nothing serious between us, so I asked him to wear a condom & told him that I wasn't on any birth control. Firstly I don't want a baby and secondly I don't know who else he has been with so there's no trust there not to wear one. He put it on but without making a dig that he hated them, which I can understand I don't like them much either but I'd rather be safe then sorry. So my question is what do you guys actually think when asked to wear one?

[discreet27fun]

Unless you are have mutually monogamous sex AND willing to conceive his child... yeah wear a condom.

Ideal situation - get married to a man, have sex with him alone and have sex without condoms. If you're not ready to have kids IUD's are a nice way to prevent conception but still feel the normal sensations during sex. Just make sure he doesn't have STD's. And stick to one person, it's better that way... seriously. ;)

[26ukdude]

I only sleep with people I trust and likewise they trust me, this literally happens probably once a year if im single and I get to know the girl before hand pretty well. If I'm in a relationship there's trust anyway so no need for one. I haven't used a condom for about 4 years and dont intend on wearing one again.

Absolutely hate the things.

[broadsword]

Why do I need a cost when it's not raining.

[aficionado]

I don't even have to be asked, I would wear it anyway. The risks without a condom are too high.

[AndyOh]

First I don't like the feel as much as without. So part of me feels like I am missing out on a major part of the experience

Second, I am glad someone is thinking in a situation like you describe. You have to be smart in today's world. And I know I am too young to die even at my age. So be smart and stick up for yourself; you have a long live ahead of you.

[GingerGuy]

I think she's concerned about safety which I am also so I respect it a lot.

[Intraluminal]

I think yay here's someone who probably won't give me aids.

[Dtegesd123]

Honestly I just think, well this is going to be fun, buttt I'm gonna get bored real fast.

[Singlemom24]

You won't be bored when you have a baby in your arms because you had unprotected sex or catch an STD

[xslope]

I wear one even if not asked. Not because it's pleasurable, but because in casual sex it covers from most STDs and I do not need to worry for making the girl pregnant. I worry about girl's pregnancy more than STDs, so you won't get me to do the 'pulling out' or any other gamble.

[genericname85]

i´d think: "duhh.. you think i wasn´t gonna put one on?" i know things feel dull with them but i´m not into aids and shit.

[SmallShavedSmooth]

I think that maybe she has an STD because I don't.

[SleepingSnorlax]

I dont really think anything of it to be honest

[Peelikeafrog]

When I was 20, I was all about the condom, but now I 45, my nerve endings aren't what they used to be, and I feel nothing with condom. How old is this guy? He's got to be doing it for the added feeling, or maybe he really wants to pay child support, and get STD's.

[Anonymous]

Uhh I'd expect her to be concerned lol. If a girl is hooking up with a guy and she lets him go raw, that's a pretty big red flag.