First of all, just in pure sensation, masturbation is to intercourse what WalMart is to Sak's Fifth Avenue or Neiman Marcus. Both sell clothes, right? But where would you shop given a choice? Would you rather buy underwear at Walmart, or Victoria's Secret? The point is: masturbation, sensation-wise, is a poor substitute for sex.
Second of all, a BIG part of what makes sex great is the reaction we get from the girl. To feel her wetness, to hear her whimper when you slide into her, for her to gasp and moan and grab the bedsheets, it's all amazing, and you get none of that by yourself. Pleasing my girl is a big reason why I have sex.
Third, a girl isn't JUST a vagina. We enjoy the rest of your body too. Your face, your mouth, your breasts, your butt, your hips, your legs, etc. We love the way they look, the way they feel, and being able to put our hands all over them.
Fourth, we have evolved over millions of years and hundreds of thousands of generations into having an instinctual desire to put our penises into your vaginas. It's an urge that we have to deal with constantly, relentlessly, always telling us "hey, you need to go bang that girl RIGHT NOW!" We have to learn to control ourselves, because those urges get quite strong, and many of us would spend our days having sex and little else if we could get away with it. It's just part of being male. A few women feel that way too, and some of them have even said "now I realize how it is for a guy, because lately I can't think of anything but getting laid 24/7."3 2 0 0It's primarily an urge, it's not about the pleasure.
He best example I can give is when you eat something delicious you want to swallow it (by contrast when food is gross people tend to sit there with it in their mouths!). If taste was all we cared about we'd chew tasty food for as long as possible and swallow gross food fast. But there is an urge to swallow.
Well similarly there is an urge to have sex.
I would also add that men feel cared for when women want sex with us. So it also meets that emotional need.0 1 0 0
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my man always wants it too. I think there nerves are concentrated in their d*** so when it gets enfolded they get off big time. just my unscienctific opinion.
0 0 0 0I'm going to go ahead and assume because it feels good.
0 2 0 0Yes it feels good but question is don't you feel good when you have sex isn't it a good feeling?
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1 12It is simple, it is a primitive instinct that men have. Ideally when you take way modern philosophy on life and we have but one instinct that governs our existence... To reproduce
0 1 0 0Sex is ignorant bliss. It makes you forget about everything and live in purely in the moment.
0 1 0 0why don't you girls masturbate.lol look at it this way..if your a hard worker,under stress a lot or just a sex freak then you need a way of getting off, different ways drugs,booz,or other damages to your body.lol now which one would you choose...be smart-_-
0 0 0 0Human nature?
0 0 0 0Our d***s are very important to us, by nature. So, when we experience a girl getting pleasure from taking our d*** in her, it tells us that our d*** is important to others as well. This is a huge ego boost. Men like their egos.
0 0 0 0Why can't you just stick with toys?
0 0 0 0I could, but I already have a man.
seriously have you ever had an orgasm, that's what the big deal is. they feel amazing.
0 1 0 0Its how we guys were made & born with. We love it becuase mothernature did this to us lol. It just feels so damn good, like a drug. Just pure pleasure & there's nothing else than can make us feel so much better. Well for me it is lol. Its this damn feeling of pure magic. ANywho I cand o this all night lol
0 0 0 0Because it feels good.
0 0 0 0Would you be happy with smelling a food and never eat it?
Vagina is made for put our **** in...so its natural we desire to pound it and both get pleasure.0 0 0 0Because it feels amazing. So soft and warm...
0 1 0 0I guess it just makes us feel closer and makes the bond between us stronger. It's as if we are one together for me in some ways it's a pride and the fact she accepted me to be that person to bond with. I also feel that the more contact with her the more deeper i love her as if my body soaks her essence up and becomes part of me.
0 0 0 0nah, only the clean vagina of a beautiful woman.
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