He ate me out and now I'm swollen

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Sorry if this is TMI but it was my first time and I need some help.My boyfriend at me out and it was our first time with intercourse. And he ate me out and sucked on the lips of my vagina(sorry if that's to much) but now its all of its swollen and it hurts. I'm swiming laps tomorrow and I don't want to be in pain.

JackWSmith · Accepted Answer

I'm sorry you hurt. This forum is about sexuality; I don't think you have to worry about TMI here. Neosporin sounds good, like curmudgeon said. It helps with most things. I can tell you how to keep this from happening again: Next time you go down on him, ask, "How many licks does it take to get to the tootsie roll center of a tootsie pop. One, two, three, crunch!" It'll cure him. He needs to be cured. Biting is uncool, and it sounds like he's sucking too hard, and paying too much attention to the wrong spots. I guess you should be grateful that he doesn't know the right spot or things would be worse. Don't tell him till he's figured out the right intensity level. And if something is unpleasant you're allowed to tell him to stop. Hell, we don't even like it when girls drags their teeth across the skin.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

He engorged them with blood by sucking and may have scratched them with his teeth.  Keep clean and use ice in a zip-lock bag to get the swelling down. Do nothing there until you are healed. With all due respect, your boyfriend is a klutz in the valley and needs to learn how to lick you properly.  I think he hasn't a clue.

lufthanza · Accepted Answer

lmao@kbor lol that is so funni lol

maybe you can put ice to help with the swelling? :? ice normalli helpz with swelling. I once torn a ligament (btw that sh*t is PAINFUL!)) as I was sayin, I put ice and it help the pain AND the swelling, so I don't know maybe you can try that. down there is very different from my foot lol but maybe it might work :)

kborden · Accepted Answer

you should send him pics of it and say "look what you did to me hun" hahaha

DallasTexasGirly · Accepted Answer

Maybe if the pain is really bad, you should go see a doctor

cun7n1nja · Answer

That's happened to me before too, lol. Just tell him to lay off the suction a little next time. You'll be fine, it'll go back to normal soon enough. It went away overnight when it happened to me.