He kissed me and had a semi-erect penis

So last night my male friend gave me a smooch on the lips goodbye. Since I think he's hot I kissed back. He kissed me back some but said he had to get going...I was a little tipsy and kept kissing him. When I felt his crotch he only had a semi-erect penis. Does this mean he doesn't find me attractive?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't look to much into it. sometimes I have a pretty heavy make out session and then he still hasn't got a boner but still he enjoyed it. A guy doesn't always have to get a hard one by every little kind of affection he gives, would be bad right haha giving your boyfriend a kiss in public and right away he gets hard. so don't look much in it really.

  • I say it means he doesn't really see you that way. That's really sad. I don't mean to be a heartless bitch. But it's okay, because you guys are friends. I'd hate to lose a friend over something like attraction. Because good friends are hard to come by.

    • He's kissed me before and had a full hard on....i don't get it why it gets fully hard sometimes and sometimes not

    • Maybe it was just this time. Like someone else said... Maybe he actually had somewhere to be.. Just ask him...

  • He said he had to get going, did he not? He probably didn't want to do anything and was trying to hold himself back.

  • So... You are going to go and give the ones who said that he wasn't into you a bad rating? Niiiiice.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, that probably means he's getting revved up, and he needs a little more activity to make it the rest of the way. This is a common occurrence with guys, and doesn't mean anything bad.

    Sometimes guys need a little more stimulation, and sometimes they don't need much at all.

    My only question is, what was so important he had to leave?

    • Thanks for you answer. It was around 1 am and he had to get up at 6 am to go to work. It's weird because we are just friends and he plants a goodbye kiss often on my lips. So I asked him last night why he does it on my lips and not on my cheek and he said it's because I want it. Of course I want it, he's hot but I don't ask for it. :P I'd really like to get him in bed, but I can't seem to get him past the kissing part, even though we've slept together in the past. I'd like to do it again.

    • Ehhhhhh, I think you'll be fine on this one. Hell, invite him over tonight.

  • I agree with waitingatthedoor. Kissing doesn't always give us wood, but the fact that he was semi-erect indicates that he was getting aroused.

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  • If you were a little tipsy, was he drinking? Alcohol makes it harder to get and maintain an erection depending on how much he drank. It could have just been a delayed reaction.

    I wouldn't read too much into it.

    • Why in the world did I get downrated? I hate people who downrate and don't comment.

  • Maybe you shouldn't worry about it?

  • well, maybe he was tipsy too and I think that effects it. But at least it was semi ; )

  • it could be that he was tryin to hide it. it'd be a little awkward if he turned around after kissing you and everyone who was there saw his junk poking thru

  • Maybe he was using self control

  • Yup, if he liked you it would be rock solid from the moment he walked in the door.

    • Lmfao. the alcohol can affect a mans penis... even though that never happened to me, its not unheard of. ever hear of whiskey dick?

  • No it just mean his penis was not erect yet and it was going to get bigger and harder

  • Hey, look if he got an erection every time he kissed you then i think he’s into you because if a male erect its mean he's having naughty thoughts

  • If you'd like to get him into bed and you've slept in the same bed as him in the past, all you have to do is arrange to crash again at his place one night and when you're in bed with him just start kissing and rubbing his penis. The rest will happen from there.

  • how did you feel his crotch while kissing?