He kissed me and had a semi-erect penis

So last night my male friend gave me a smooch on the lips goodbye. Since I think he's hot I kissed back. He kissed me back some but said he had to get going...I was a little tipsy and kept kissing him. When I felt his crotch he only had a semi-erect penis. Does this mean he doesn't find me attractive?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't look to much into it. sometimes I have a pretty heavy make out session and then he still hasn't got a boner but still he enjoyed it. A guy doesn't always have to get a hard one by every little kind of affection he gives, would be bad right haha giving your boyfriend a kiss in public and right away he gets hard. so don't look much in it really.

  • I say it means he doesn't really see you that way. That's really sad. I don't mean to be a heartless bitch. But it's okay, because you guys are friends. I'd hate to lose a friend over something like attraction. Because good friends are hard to come by.

    • He's kissed me before and had a full hard on....i don't get it why it gets fully hard sometimes and sometimes not

    • Maybe it was just this time. Like someone else said... Maybe he actually had somewhere to be.. Just ask him...

  • He said he had to get going, did he not? He probably didn't want to do anything and was trying to hold himself back.

  • So... You are going to go and give the ones who said that he wasn't into you a bad rating? Niiiiice.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, that probably means he's getting revved up, and he needs a little more activity to make it the rest of the way. This is a common occurrence with guys, and doesn't mean anything bad.

    Sometimes guys need a little more stimulation, and sometimes they don't need much at all.

    My only question is, what was so important he had to leave?

    • Thanks for you answer. It was around 1 am and he had to get up at 6 am to go to work. It's weird because we are just friends and he plants a goodbye kiss often on my lips. So I asked him last night why he does it on my lips and not on my cheek and he said it's because I want it. Of course I want it, he's hot but I don't ask for it. :P I'd really like to get him in bed, but I can't seem to get him past the kissing part, even though we've slept together in the past. I'd like to do it again.

    • Ehhhhhh, I think you'll be fine on this one. Hell, invite him over tonight.

  • I agree with waitingatthedoor. Kissing doesn't always give us wood, but the fact that he was semi-erect indicates that he was getting aroused.

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  • If you were a little tipsy, was he drinking? Alcohol makes it harder to get and maintain an erection depending on how much he drank. It could have just been a delayed reaction.

    I wouldn't read too much into it.

    • Why in the world did I get downrated? I hate people who downrate and don't comment.

  • Maybe you shouldn't worry about it?

  • well, maybe he was tipsy too and I think that effects it. But at least it was semi ; )

  • it could be that he was tryin to hide it. it'd be a little awkward if he turned around after kissing you and everyone who was there saw his junk poking thru

  • Maybe he was using self control