You are on the right track. Stimulating the G spot in the roof of the vagina, not too deep in is key. The soft bump you feel there is the Skeen's gland, which is the female equivalent of the prostate. It is nicely sensitive, and this glad is where the squirt comes from.
Just enjoy the shaking, That is part of the fun, it leads up to a great orgasm. When masturbating just go with the shaking and see what happens. When you are having sex with a partner, your partner will likely love your shaking, it means he is doing something right and getting you totally excited.
Stimulating G spot and clit at the same time is a great way to go. You have two hands to use. In sex with a guy help direct him so his penis is thrusting against your g spot. You can rub your own clit at the same time, which will feel great for both of you.
Toys are also good.
For inside Dr. Sue Johnson, Lucid dream is great. link
For outside a bullet is a girls's best friend.
My girlfriend squirted for the first time using these two together at the same time.
Also bring your toys into love making with your BF, it is fun for everybody.
Ive made girls squirt as well. As others have said stimulate the g spot on the top of the vagina. I do it by making bending my fingers as if I'm making the come here sign while fingering her. The key is being able to relax and just let your body do whatever it wants to do. If you start shaking or anything just go with it, you'll have a really really good orgasm.
ive squirted twice because I let go when it becomes too intense.. I stop just like you do.. I think we should learn to relax and let go as we get to that point where it feels as if your going to pee
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You have to keep going. You'll probably feel like you have to pee and that's a sign that you're getting to that point. Take 2 fingers and curve them in towards the "roof" of your vagina with some pressure and try that way. I've been able to make my last 2 girlfriends squirt that way once I learned how to do it properly
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