How do I get my girlfriend go further with her?

[Anonymous]

She lets me play with her boobs under her bra but won't let me see them. And when I i try to put my hands in her pants she grabs my hand. How do I get her to let me?

[babbii-curious]

well there isn't a way. its either she's comfortable or its a no no I get that she lets you touch her with clothes on but that's a differrent story to lettin her take it off an let you play wit her for me I guess I would ov juss let the guy do it but I guess everyones different!

an I'm guessin that she's still a virgin so you guess gotta work ur game an start makin her trust you I think that's the only way she's gonna you no let you go further.

[youandme3]

Either she's a virgin or she's been sexually abused or something.

[katiesmuff]

She must be not quite sure about moving along with your relationship at this time. She could have many reasons. You could be lying and not over 18 and way too young for sex. She may have actual values! (How Odd That Would Be)
No quick answer, but if you really want to keep her I wouldn't push the issue. When she is ready for further exploration she will let you know.

[Anonymous]

you need to respect her (not saying you don't now but just leave it alone for awhile) as soon as she is feeling the trust/respect then she will open up the gates. give it time and do not push it any farther until she is ready, because you will not ever get any with her if you continue to try to get your hands in her pants.

[rockabilly-vixen]

Well, maybe she's not that comfortable with you yet, you have to give her time. She needs to get comfortable with you and just fool around a little until both of you can move to the next level. But don't rush anything or she will push you away and then start thinking you are just using her for her body. GIVE IT TIME,

[snakema]

time.
each time you guys get together and start fooling around, inch a little closer to the treasure
time will give in and she'll eventually let you get what you want. I'm guessing you're not actually age 18-24, I apologize if you actually are haha, but even in h.s. I've never heard of any instances where someone got stuck on 2nd for over 2 months.

[babbii-curious]

LMAO ur funny because ma boyfriend did the same thing is that lik a guy thing to get gurls to do it????

[e3gsx]

well depends how long you been going out with her. maybe its too soon. give her some time. or she is too shy, so take her to a mellow place. maybe a place with little lights and be/do (something) romantic. that way you can get her in "the mood".

[DiaRiles]

Just don't force her or you'll lose her.

[l-hedoniste]

Sit on your hands and wait. Doesn't seem like she's ready for it yet, and nothing makes a woman LESS ready like pressure.

[kurkjianb]

you dont

shes in control at this point because you wnat to go farther then her

give her time

dont disrespect her