How often do you have sex with your partner?

I have a high sex drive and my partner has a low sex drive. I always want to have sex at least three times a week while my other half doesn't have that desire. It's been a problem for me while the other person has no issue with our sex life. How often are you having sex with your partner?
Once a week
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Twice a week
Vote B
More than twice a week
Vote C
Once a month
Vote D
Twice a month
Vote E
More than twice a month
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Other (explain)
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  • If it were upto me I would have sex more than twice a week , or even everyday. I was in a realtionship with an asexual girl, it was rough, when we started dating each other she was okay with once in a week in the first year of our relationship but later on the frequency became once in a month, then once in two months. She later on confessed she was asexual but I had already fell in love with her and I didn't want to force her into it, and gave her her space, she said she had mental barrier which stopped her from enjoying, and at the end I was the only one intiating and I felt the intimacy was gone. Relationship is not all about sex, but she didn't want it at all, I felt like we were more like friends at the end of relationship and if u are in a relationship with a hot girl who is irresistible to u in every way but only want the mental aspect of a relationship, its torture, at least it was for me.

  • I was 23 when I met the mother of my kids. She was younger by a couple of years. There were nights when we must been in double figures the amount of times we screwed. Couldn't keep our hands off of each other. We went to bed at around 9 one night and we were still going at it when the sun came up the next morning. Not constantly, we were laughing and joking in between and smoking cigarettes but they were the days. I reckon I could still go 5 or 6 times a night even at this age.

    • How very fortunate that you are able to have an active sex life.

    • She wanted me and I wanted her. When there's 2 willing partner's you can't leave each other alone. Normally you should be fighting him off every minute he's alone with you. She couldn't even bend over to pick something up and I was ripping her clothes off. I know that's a normal relationship coz I've heard my mates wives and girlfriends talk in the pub and they all say the same thing. My mate gordys wife said she can't even iron the clothes in front of him but he's pulling her dress up and bending her over the ironing board. I dunno what's up with your man but it ain't natural

    • He always wants to cuddle and he values my company a lot. He's just not interested in sex like that.

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  • Maybe your partner is asexual. 🤔 "A person who is not interested in or does not desire sexual activity, either within or outside of a relationship. Asexuality is not the same as celibacy, which is the willful decision to not act on sexual feelings. Asexuals, while not physically sexual-type folks, are none the less quite capable of loving, affectionate, romantic ties to others."

    • No, it has something to do with depression and other things.

  • I have a high drive as well. He calls me a nympho. We do it 3 times or 4 times a week. Sometimes we do it 3 times in one night. You need to talk to him about it. If he is young, there might be an issue he needs to address. I would suggest use toys for other times lol I do this too. Good luck

    • He has expressed why, and I cannot fault him on them. However, it's just extremely frustrating.

    • Some people end relationships because of sexual incompatibility. If you really love him, try to work it out.

    • I'll try. Thank you

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  • My boyfriend works doing the week and due to other commitments we can only see each other twice a week but we always have sex when we see each other

    • How do you manage to make time?

    • @Melancholicsunrise we see each other at the same time every week, it's almost part of the routine. But we have regular phone calls and it works for both of us, it just means seeing each other is always really exciting so it's nice really

  • Usually twice a day, if we have time for a morning quickie.

    • Ugh, lucky.

    • I doubt it will last. Still in the honeymoon period!

    • How long have you two been together for?

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  • Generally twice a week, but occasionally more or less than that depending on what else we have on

  • Around two or three times a week. We tend to have sex more often on Fridays and weekends than on weekdays.

  • Ask him for some help with the desire. if he's not interested in sex then what about foreplay and play with toys. or send him oral how to tips.

    • He's just not that interested in sex. Doesn't care too much for it.

    • Well he might not like sex. however he may enjoy pleasuring you. The act of giving pleasure can be seen in two lights. One as sex. or the other as recognizing our partner to be Sexual and wanting to fulfil her happyness.

    • It doesn't come naturally for him to give me pleasure.

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  • We currently average about five or six times a week.

    Sometimes a little more, and sometimes a little less, depending on schedules.

    • ugh, lucky.

    • Thanks, lol I do consider myself lucky, as well. I've always had a very high sex drive, so that's an important aspect in a partner. I'm sorry to hear that you're not getting it as much as you'd like. 😰

    • *Sigh* Thank you for your empathy :(

  • maybe once a week, we are both so pooped out.

    • Work?

    • for him it's work for me I"m a stay at home mom, and I stay home all day with a 2 and 4 yr old

  • right now since my wife is pregnant we are at about once a week, twice a week on occasion

    • How was it before she became pregnant?

    • 3+ times a week

    • Thank you for sharing and congrats to you both with a new addition on the way. :)

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  • Usually more than twice a week, but sometimes our schedules really don't work out.

    • Work?

    • Yeah, we both work jobs that require us to be at work odd and occasionally long hours.

  • every day - I love it

  • At least twice a week

    • Geez, I can't even get sex once a month.

    • Wow, that sucks.

  • 2-3 times a week. We are very intentional about having sex and set aside time to make it happen.

    • Is that normal? Does it feel natural?

  • few times a day. at least once but on the good days two three times.

  • your other half is gay, come now to Ghana, I will fill your needs

    • I can do without the joke, but seriously what is your thinking on this?

    • Ok ok, I'll tell you what he can do. About a year ago I also had no desire for sex, until one day I suddenly had a spike in sexual desire, I swear I use to wake up at night humping the pillow. I mean from like 3% to a 100%. I always wanted sex, I had sex like at least 3 times a day for weeks on end with a friend.. a girl friend, not girlfriend, but a girl which is a friend, friends with benefits. Anyway, the reason for this spike was because I started taking zinc tablets to improve my nails and hair, actually my mother came home with it, you know how women are, hair, nails so on. So I also decided to take because it's winter and it said it's good for immune system function, so within 3 days of taking this I had a spike of sexual desire, waking up at night, humping my pillow I did some more research, came across a mens health board and apparently zinc also increases testosterone in males, thus resulted in my mass sexual increase. I must warn you, it really made me horny.

  • 3-4 times a week, sometimes more, rarely less.

    • Lucky!

    • I am indeed.

  • It depends on the girl. The last one I was with we'd have it 3-4 times a week. This current one I am lucky if we do it once a week.

    • I feel your pain.

  • I have sex everyday after work except sundays

  • It fluctuates, but usually at least once a day. We both have a high drive. We're open but don't have a lot of partners, so pretty much all that sex is together. Once, about 4 years ago and before we opened up, we had sex 7 times in a single day. A few months ago we had our first three way, that was pretty fun.

  • two or three times

    • A day, a week, a month?

    • a week, sorry

  • twice a week

  • I ask my wife and she is on her period, most of the time. She never wants sex on her period, so I have to schedule something way after. Sex becomes a once a month thing.

    • That sucks.

    • That's life.

  • Whether it's my boyfriend or someone else I have sex every day

    • one hell of a chick, aren't you?

    • @marky123 if you say so

    • Marky, please

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