May be.
But does it matter now?
Don't get me wrong. I am not supporting or condoning this guy's behavior. However, I believe that the worst thing you can do right now is to ponder over a possible "dark memory" and feel bad about yourself.
This is not something to remember and feel bad about. What's done is done, and by no means do you have any fault in this. He was the pervert. He might have done some wrong things, but it is in the past.
Try and move on. See a therapist if you feel like you need to talk to someone, but the most important thing is that you move on.0 0 1 0Its the nightmares , I can't sleep , so unless I uncover what happened I don't think I will be able to sleep or rest
If you feel that way, then I suggest you go to someone that you can talk to. Such as a therapist, or a close family relative.
There's a possibility. I knew a girl who was raped as a child, and she had a lot of intense nightmares later in life, but she couldn't remember the event herself. Her parents eventually told her about it. But yeah until then she had all kinds of unexplained nightmares, and even some serious issues with sex.
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My guess would be yes, but of course it is not in stone. The fact that he made you bathe with him is enough to label him as a creep, and should have been reported to your parents at the time. I'm sorry this happened to you.
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1 4Yes, you were molested.
0 0 1 0There's a possibility you were. It is also possible that you aren't remembering clearly. Or perhaps you are remembering everything and he looked at you but didn't touch you.
I think you should consider telling your parents, and perhaps see a counselor. If this is any reason that you and your counselor think anything more happened, the police should be informed.2 0 0 0I'm not sure about the police. There would be no evidence to back this thing on, and, depending on the question asker's current age, this might have happened about a decade ago. So the police might not take her seriously and that would only hurt her more. But the therapist is a very good idea. She needs to recover and move on.
Memories can be suppressed. If in therapy she believes she was molested, then she needs to go to the police; that's a crime. Even if there isn't enough evidence to prosecute, that's not her decision to make.
Not not paranoia
It sounds quite disturbing so you have every reason to be suspicious
(and memories may have been blocked)
Even if he didn't touch you it's still inappropriate and you should talk to your parents and especially a therapist because of the nightmares
(I'm not saying your crazy, just that you need to talk about, understand and overcome what has happened)0 0 0 0This scared me alot, but yes I think you were molested, sorry...
0 0 1 0sorry but yes I think you where molested, and probably were disturbed by it that your subcontious block it off.
i'd say ether tell a very close friend/family member you can trust, seek professional help, or you be mentally strong and try to remember and you put your mind to rest.0 0 0 0
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