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I want my boyfriend to rape me , is this ok?
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I guess this is a really weird fantasy, but I would like to act like it's real rape. I mean he comes to my home unexpected, I'm screaming "no!, please leave me" , but he doesn't listen and is very rough, tells me to" shut up" and beats me, and it's completely not romantic, even without kissing. I know how weird it sounds, I don't know if it's normal? is it OK to ask my boyfriend to do it or he will think I'm weird?
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13 23You need help I don't think rape victims find this as a fantasy. See this is where I think this ''Fantasy'' is sicking because a day may come when something like this does happen (hope it doesn't) and your fantasy will turn into a nightmare. Even though you want you BF to do it to you its still not right.
Why don't you call the RAPEMANN !
https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=OvFx8L_RZ_kThat's creepy, not going to lie. There are many women in the world who would do anything to have never been raped and here you are begging for it. It makes me kind of sick. Sorry.
id be up for it
sounds hot
i like aggressive rough sex but not many girls are confident enough to be open to it. of course id want to make sure we had a way to know where it was too far. ill let a girl choke/slap me as I do it to her...that stuff is hot. fwiw I also like passionate hot romantic sex so the 'rape' thing is just an occasional fantasy thing for me too.
lots of guys are hating because they are too dumb to realize this is a fantasy thing that you are knowingly doing with your boyfriend or that they are too stupid to know the difference between you meaning no and playing in the fantasy...
I'd do it. But I think that I'm in the minority here. You'd have to ask me a few times and be DAMN sure you meant it. I'd probably also want an example of what oyu mean by "beats me", and I'd be very careful not to actually hurt you.
It's not really normal. I did osmething like it with my ex, but in that situation it was more that she would fight back. She was fairly strong and an experienced fighter, as am I, so it would become a constant change of power.
I reckon you could ask him, but broach the subject with caution. It's a very extreme version.
Also, he has to be sure this can't vcome back on him. If one day you decide you hate him, and you tell the coppers that he raped you...anyone who hears it would be hard pushed to say you're lying. You say he threatened you to tell everyone it was a fantasy...He could face a lot of trouble because of this one day.
I think you better leave this as a fantasy. I certainly wouldn't be comfortable pretending to do this especially the beating part and telling her to shut up. Why don't you ask him to pick you up and take charge? Maybe do it rough if you want it like that but in a non violent way? How about that?
Beside the beating my wife and me played it all already. It's a very common fantasy for women. They want to be dominated when it comes to sex.
I often "abduct" her from our office (it's in the same building) or take her just right there. She struggles often as hard as she can even while we're already having sex. Just trying to make it "real".
Beating, well, that's something I just can't do to her... Even spanking already hurt me when I inflicted it to her... But the rest we play quite rough.
yikes, let's use a different word, you want to be dominated/have aggressive sex... rape is just painful...
This seems to be a pretty common fantasy. I think I even saw it in a movie once where it was the girls fantasy to do this.
How can he protect himself, if after this event, you decide to press charges?
Most guys won't even simulate rape for the girlfriend, unless they trust her completely or have some sort of "get out of jail' card for it.
In your case, where you want it very rough... again, how does the guy know you're not some psycho who will go to the police and claim she was honestly raped?
Amen.
If you think about it you run the same risk, every time you bang someone or do it roughly, Besides, its his girlfirend, it should be more difficult to prosecute since they are in a relationship
Sometimes the mere accusation is enough to ruin a life.
This^