I was going to suggest p*rn, but I think there's more to it than suggesting. I am not sure that he actually doesn't understand. I think he understands what you want; being your husband first and lover second, he just may be not sure where it is leading long term.
You are very in-the-moment sexual, but perhaps, you being his wife, he feels bad putting the stress and mileage on your body. Like some guys would pay through the nose for an Austin Martin and then drive it gingerly even though that car craves to be driven the way Bond drives it, and it's existence is almost a waste otherwise.
I am pretty athletic and love to bring that to bear with the girl within her comfort zone, perhaps sometimes stretching that zone a bit if she's OK with it.1 0 0 0Great answer! thanks for putting that into perspective. :)
It's not actually about the roughness, but the psychological effect of being dominated. One person submitting to the will of another, the feminine-masculine yin-yang.
Some guys are a little uncomfortable with this, because it edges on everything they've been taught not to do, and by you telling him what to do, you still hold the "power", so its not as "real".
You want to become his obedient little sex slave, and you want him to pour all his passion into you. And the easiest way to do this is by *teasing*. Tease him and don't let him get what he wants until he forces it out of you. Tell him how badly you want it, but keep it right out of his grip. Tantric sex is *AWESOME*, trust me. It's all about the chase...3 3 0 0Really Great advice! Thanks!
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I would stop talking and buy a video of what you want him to do to you. There are thousands of extreme S&M sites showing what you'd like done. Put it on and then tell him I'd like you to try some of that stuff with me. If he says I respect you too much ten tell him it's a fantasy and you'll buy him an outfit and change his name so it's just play.Maybe he does think he's being rough but he really doesn't know how rough you'd like him to be.
0 1 0 0Tell him. I want you to push me , pin me down, slap me, bite me, hit me I mean really hurt me.
0 0 0 0Just tell him, he shouldn't have a problem with it.
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3 8Not always. Well, not a lot of the time. Tell him doing such things would further your arousal, and thus making you have a better orgasm and euphoric sexual experience. Tell him it's not that you want him to be that way, you need him to be that way.
How to go about showing him is pre-sex. Whichever feeling of what you want done most at the moment, and then tell him to do it. Kind of provoke him, not in a bad way though. Push him, see if he pushes you. If he does push back, and it isn't enough for you. Push him again. See if he does it harder, or the same. If he pushes you harder, obviously you're getting what you want. So, push him some more and tell him "is that all you got, weakling?" Then, if he seems like he's starting to get pissed by it. You've probably reached a level of arousal by the few pushes. So, then start to seduce him along with getting what you want. Be creative, and not do what you normally do. And see how it further pans out.1 0 0 0I had the same ? As her thanks your advice is very good :)
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0 0 0 1well I would advice him to do some kinda warm up be for he try's this new comasutra thing...just in case he pulls a muscle..lol...take viagra + horny goat (I don't know what does but give it a try) and he wears boxing gloves and knocks you out & calls all the guys in your area to shagg you..i never tried that but it might work on you ;)...and for the finish...a baseball bat would do...does that sound like a good way to have sex?
0 0 0 1We all have fantasies. You don't have to be rude because I am not afraid to admit mine. I know what I want and that is more then a lot of people.
i have no intention to be rude to no one, so no offence...but I thought you sounded like you really wanted to get hurt!...However, maybe you might wanna show the guy some p*rn videos you find stimulating or something for him to make notes from! hope that helped :)
i think you just have to look at him straight in the face and tell him what you want. Do NOT hint, just be straight with him.
He will probably be shy at first but he WILL eventually like it.0 1 0 0be on top of him and do what you want him to do to you and than he will catch on
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