If a man wants to have sex without a condom, does that say anything about his feelings?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I are in a middle of a break in a relationship. We have only had sex without a condom. He was over here last night and this morning he took of the condom and put it in me. I noticed and said something but then I was ok with it. We ended up having sex without the condom and he came on top of me. I rubbed it all over my upper body because it excited me so much. What do you think about this? Does it mean something for a man and his feelings when he wants to have sex without a condom? How would you feel if you came on a woman and she rubbed it all over herself?

[MustangMan]

One we don't know how long you were in your relationship before a break. Two if you are in a break you should always practice safe sex as you don't know what he has done in the break or he does not know what you have done. Yes a condom is a bummer but I would prefer to practice safe sex during any break, or not in a long term relationship. As for rubbing the stuff on you when he was done, I would say that's pretty cool. No complaints here.

[Asker]

This relationship has some history as I dated him when I was much younger and he was my first. We are just about to start the break but he will not see other people and he doesn't want me to either which I have agreed to. We are having a break because he didn't think I was seriously interested in him and now he has learned I am so he wants to make sure the dust settles.

[random255]

Excellent update, glad to hear you're on the pill.

And no, it doesn't mean anything about the relationship or feelings. I prefer to forgo the condom too, so long as I'm sure my partner is clean and using bc. Sex simply feels better with direct stimulation and touching, with no latex middle man.

Make sure you know he's clean, you're clean, and be sure you can trust him not to sleep around.

[Asker]

He said he will get tested because he knows that's important to me but he does live a clean lifestyle. Something made me rub his come all over my body after he came on my stomach. Is this type of thing a turn on for a man btw?

[random255]

Depends on the guy, but it would be for me.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't really say anything about his feelings toward you. Sex feels better without a condom, so maybe he was only interested in his own pleasure. I wouldn't read too much into that. As for rubbing his sperm on your body, that's a turn-on for most men. I'm sure you won't get any complaints from him on that one!

[SweetestSinxxx]

I think its about feelings. I think if you're really in love or have been dating a long time its OK to stop using condoms as long as other forms of because are being used.

[monster]

No it doesn't!

[l-hedoniste]

It says nothing about his feelings and everything about how sex without a condom feels.

[only-lonely-me]

Sex is more enjoyable W/O a condom.

It would be a hugh turn on if she rubbed it all over herself. I would say (if you want to do this) then not every time and in different places on your body.

[Anonymous]

sorry babe, but I do not think it means anything. It may have been a booty call.