My girlfriend isn't a small sized girl, she is 5'11 and 280lbs. i have a bigger sized penis. She did bleed when I took her virginity. Her 2nd time did hurt more than her 1st but didn't bleed, was within the same week and I didn't go deep into her. Her 3rd which happened 2 weeks after the 2nd, she was quite nervous that it would hurt and she did bleed as I did go much deeper into her. Me going deeper into her did hurt her as the angle of penetration changes and there was more upward pressure.
Our 4th I went in much deeper into her and she did bleed a bit,
Now we live together and do it fairly often, she doesn't bleed but every now and then it does hurt her especially if we had not done it for a few days.
What you are going through is somewhat normal, a few more tries and you should be fine, one thing is not to stop it if it hurts.1 0 0 0It's normal considering the disparity in your sizes. There may have been pieces of the hymen left. I would assume that they're all gone now ;-P. So allow yourself 2 weeks to fully heal and you should be fine.
1 0 0 0Soo, it would be best to refrain from sex for a while? It doesn't hurt at all anymore, it only hurt for a couple of hours directly afterwards.
Better to let yourself completely heal. Otherwise its tear. Start to heal, tear start to heal over and over. Really one week would be enough.
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0 3It is normal but will get better. Try some lube (KY or Astroglide etc) it will really help. Make sure you use tons of foreplay and that you are wet. Try getting on top that way you (not him) can control the depth and speed. Ask him to get you off with his tongue before sex, that way you get some great orgasms also!
1 0 0 0Yeah that's pretty normal you might want to wait 3 or so weeks before you resume to give yourself time to heal after that you shouldn't have an issue
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